Scientific rambling
In real life, salary is a relatively sensitive topic, but it is indeed a very common social topic, and not only is it bad for yourself, but it may also hurt the self-esteem of the other party.
So,When asked by others how much the salary is, don't say the specific amount, answer like this, not only will you not be embarrassed, but others will not ask, which can be called a high emotional intelligence reply.
As the saying goes, "The heart is separated from the belly, and the person knows the face but does not know the heart", we never know what others will do to your detriment after you say your salaryWhen asked by others how much their salary is, they say that they earn very little, and it is difficult to even support themselves.
If you meet someone who is more difficult, you have to ask what your salary is, or if you don't say anything inappropriate, just say the ordinary salary of a local salary level, and then change the topic and stop discussing the matter, so that others will not talk about it again.
If someone asks what your salary is,Especially colleagues, that must have a certain purpose, if you make your salary clear, someone will use your salary to ask the boss for a salary increase, will use you as a gun, then the boss will know that you have stolen your salary, will definitely find you trouble.
There are also people who will want to borrow money from you after asking about your salary, and you will definitely lend money to your colleagues for the sake of face, but it is easy to borrow this money but it is difficult to repay, and it is difficult for you to get the money back.
When you go to ask the other party, the other party will definitely not want to say it, so that she will find a topic to prevaricate in the past, and then you will avoid this trouble.
If someone asks you about your salary, if you are an acquaintance, it is best to cry poor and say how heavy your responsibilities are, and that the money you earn has already paid the mortgage and borrowed money before you have spent it, and you can't save money or anything at all.
You can also say that you don't have enough money to spend, how difficult it is for you, and how much money you have, because then others will know that you don't have much money, and they won't want to borrow money from you or take advantage of you.
When someone asks about your salary, it's also a good idea to change the subject so that they know you don't want to talk about your salary and they don't ask anymore.
This kind of diversion is most suitable for colleagues and relatives, because colleagues and relatives ask you what your salary is generally with a certain purpose, and if you talk too much or too little, it is not good for yourself, so it is better not to say it!
Different from acquaintances, it is appropriate to cry poor and say that you earn less, and for people you are not familiar with or relatives who have met less, you can deliberately say more, so that others can admire you more and look up to you more, which is also beneficial to you.
People want to associate with rich people, so that they can bring themselves to earn more money, and there are many benefits to showing off properly to people who don't know each other well.
So,For others to ask about salary, it is best not to tell the truth, according to different people can choose to say more or less, or you can answer humorously and jokingly, how suitable and how to come.
Do you think someone needs to tell the truth when they ask about their salary?