is about to celebrate the New Year, and the phenomenon of urging back to hometown, marriage, birth, and second child is frequent!
Recently, I heard the tragic story of such a girl who was "urged home" to get married and have children!
After graduating from university, she worked hard in Shanghai for three or four years, and with her own efforts, her monthly salary reached 20,000 or 30,000 yuan.
At the same time, I saved 20-300,000 yuan by frugality, of which I gave a small part to my parents and saved a large part of it myself!
Later, her parents were afraid that she would make more and more money outside, and her heart would become wild, and they were afraid that she would find a boyfriend outside to marry far away, so they urged her to go home and have children on the grounds that she was "young, good blind date, and easy to marry"!
At the same time, her parents also found a "good marriage" for her in the county - a house, a car, and a monthly salary of more than 8,000!
So, she was forced by her parents to give up her job in Shanghai with an annual salary of 20-300,000 yuan and return to the small county town for a blind date!
After returning to her hometown, she did not look for a job to go to work, but obeyed her parents' arrangement, quickly went on a blind date, got married, and had children!
In this way, she became a full-time mother, and spent three or five years pregnant with children and children!
Compared with the previous years in Shanghai, I "worked hard" in Shanghai, it is simply a heaven and an underground!
Now, because she goes out to work to make money, she is not financially independent, and she ends up in a "disgusting" situation, and she often quarrels over "money" in her life!
Her savings before getting married have been spent almost in the past three or five years!
Moreover, the bride price money she received when she got married was also subsidized into daily life for "buying furniture, doing New Year's goods, treating children, etc."!
But her mother's family did not support her because she was close to marriage, but felt that "the water spilled by the married woman" made her endure it in her in-law's house!
If she hadn't listened to her parents' advice to go back to her hometown to get married and have children, maybe her current life would be very "nourishing".
Save a million yuan, buy a small house in your hometown county or county, and then open a small shop to earn some living expenses, whether you are married or not, you will live happier than you are now!
Even if you stay in the big city to work and live, you will be financially and spiritually rich, and you don't know how many times better than now!
So,Girls, as long as you can live and work in the big city, while you are young, you must stay in the big city to earn more money and broaden your horizons!
Take 10,000 steps back, if you want to go back to your hometown to accompany your parents, then you will also be able to find a matching job, at least more than the average income in the local area!
Also, don't give up your career and so on just because your parents want you to stay with them!
Otherwise, in a few years, you will find that your life is from the moment you are willing to be trapped by your parents, and your life has seen the end"!
Finally, everyone is welcome to leave a message in the comment area, share your thoughts, and leave your "footprints"!
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Ou Xiaoxi, I hope that through my words, I will take you to experience the "warmth and coldness" of the world.
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