Whether it is love or marriage, any two people who are noisy and noisy is true love and a life with fireworks.
Those who raise their eyebrows, respect each other like guests, and have no disputes and quarrels with each other, seem to be very sweet and beautiful, but in fact they can't withstand any scrutiny.
After all, everyone lives in this world with edges and corners, and different growth environments give birth to different three views, and you are also destined to have countless contradictions in many aspects of life, whether it is the general direction or the small details.
Although it is said that in the face of contradictions, you can choose to reserve your opinions, but people have emotions and will lose their temper sometimes. And our temper, after all, will be uncontrollable, and even unscrupulous, venting to the person closest to us.
Just think about it, obviously you are already a couple, or even a husband and wife, and you have to face each other politely, how much is this kind of relationship true and how much is false?
In fact, a woman who no longer quarrels with you means three things.
1.Her pattern is much higher than you, and she disdains to quarrel with youWhen a woman's ideological realm and pattern far exceed yours, she may feel that arguing with you is a pointless thing.
In her opinion, quarrels will only waste time and energy, and they will not solve anything.
She may have learned to deal with conflicts in a more mature and rational way, such as communicating, negotiating, or seeking help from a third party.
In this case, you should feel fortunate rather than frustrated. Because she didn't choose to leave you, but chose to get along with you in a more advanced way.
What you need to do is to improve your pattern and realm as soon as possible, and keep pace with her, so that the relationship between you can be more stable and long-lasting.
2.The heart is not in you, and I am not interested in arguing with youWhen a woman's heart is no longer in you, she will naturally no longer be interested in arguing with you. In her opinion, you are no longer worthy of any emotion and energy she has put into it. She may have lost faith in you, or she may have found someone who appeals to her even more.
In this case, the relationship between you has already existed in name only, and only the last layer of window paper has not been pierced.
If you still love her and want to save the relationship, then what you need to do is not to continue arguing with her, but to find out the source of the problem between you and try to correct your shortcomings and shortcomings.
At the same time, you also have to learn to respect her choice, and if she really doesn't love you anymore, then letting go is also a kind of love.
3.I've seen through it, and I don't need you anymoreWhen a woman has seen through you for who you really are, or has been completely disappointed in you, she will not quarrel with you anymore.
In her mind, you are no longer worthy of her anger or sadness. She may be ready to leave you or have found a better home. In this case, the relationship between you is over, and there are only trivial matters to deal with.
If you still want to save the relationship, then what you need to do is not only to change your behavior and attitude, but also to re-establish trust and connection between you. But this is often a very difficult thing to do, because once trust is broken, it is very difficult to rebuild it.
So, you'll need to put in more effort and patience to have a chance of winning her heart back.