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Wang Xingjun and Guan Mucun tied the knot in 1984 and became husband and wife.
That's right"Sister and brother love"'s marriage has attracted people's attention, but it has also raised some questions.
They welcomed a son after marriage, and the marriage of a family of three should have been happier, but the ending was unexpected.
Wang Xingjun divorced Guan Mucun in the 6th year of marriage, what did they experience between them? What caused Wang Xingjun to be reluctant to step into marriage again?
The first point: Wang Xingjun was born in an ordinary family in the Xinjiang Construction Corps, which was in 1959.
His ancestral home is Gansu, where his parents came to settle for work.
Wang Xingjun's family of six, including himself, two younger sisters and a younger brother, lives in poverty and financial constraints.
However, the family was not wealthy, and at this time it suffered a huge blow, like a house leak that happened to rain overnight.
When Wang Xingjun was 8 years old, his father died of illness, which brought a heavy psychological and financial burden to the family.
Because of the death of his father, his mother was overly sad and his health became extremely poor, and the family's life fell into a desperate situation.
Wang Xingjun is the eldest son in the family, his father died early, and the family has many children, so he began to shoulder the burden of the family.
The mother later realized that she could not raise her four children on her own, so she chose to remarry a colleague.
After his mother remarried, she brought four children, which led to an increasing pressure on his stepfather's life, and also led to a huge change in his attitude towards the four siblings.
Raising four children was a huge burden for the stepfather, who was filled with complaints and grievances, which led to a poor family relationship, and the mother and stepfather often quarreled over the matter.
Wang Xingjun grew up in such a poor and unhappy family environment, which caused his heart to be full of melancholy and sensitivity, and even reached the level of extreme inferiority.
Wang Xingjun is eager to grow up quickly, so that he will no longer be looked down upon by others, and will be able to stand out.
His inferiority complex and sensitive personality eventually directly affected the direction of his marriage with Guan Mucun.
Wang Xingjun rarely spoke at school, and even often became the object of ridicule from his classmates, causing him to be full of pain, which was a situation among other reasons.
It wasn't until 1973 that Wang Xingjun finally found the salvation of his life after a drama called "Sailing Ten Thousand Miles".
Wang Xingjun was deeply obsessed with acting and decided that he must become an actor in the future. This is his mood after the drama.
An older actor encouraged him at the time, saying, "You have a good look, maybe you can consider trying to join the art team." ”
Wang Xingjun also found confidence and direction because of this sentence, so he began to work hard to become an actor.
Wang Xingjun's family is poor, and his dream of becoming an actor can only be put on hold temporarily, which is easy to say but difficult to do.
When Wang Xingjun was 17 years old, when he was in high school, he had no choice but to drop out of school due to his poor family and huge pressure on his life.
Wang Xingjun no longer went to school, but joined the Xinjiang Construction Corps as a worker, working hard to earn money to support his family.
Soon after, due to his outstanding performance and versatility, Wang Xingjun joined the regiment's literary and artistic propaganda team again.
Wang Xingjun pursued his dream of being an actor more firmly and confidently at this time, and applied for a number of art troupes in a row within a year.
Wang Xingjun was favored by the three art troupes at that time, but his team was unwilling to let him leave, which made him feel very frustrated.
It wasn't until 1980 that Wang Xingjun finally ushered in his own opportunity.
The second point: One day in 1980, Wang Xingjun took a bus to Urumqi ** drama, and accidentally saw the notice of enrollment of Shanghai Theater Academy in the newspaper.
Wang Xingjun was excited and eager to register for the exam, and at that time, only the Shanghai examination area had not yet finished the entrance examination.
However, Wang Xingjun was worried that his family did not have enough money at the time, so he hesitated whether he should take the exam and had to ask for his mother's consent and support.
In order to save time, Wang Xingjun hurried home and told his mother his thoughts.
Not only did her mother show her support, but she also took the initiative to go to a relative's house to borrow 80 yuan from Wang Xingjun so that he could use it to take the exam.
Wang Xingjun was so excited at that moment that he made a vow that he was determined to be admitted to the Shanghai Theater Academy to repay his mother's expectations.
When their mother saw Wang Xingjun off on the train, their mother and son were reluctant, and at the same time, they had infinite expectations for the future.
Wang Xingjun traveled from Xinjiang to Shanghai for four days and four nights by train before finally arriving at his destination.
As soon as he arrived in Shanghai, Wang Xingjun hurried to the test site.
With his outstanding performance, Wang Xingjun successfully passed three interviews and was only one step away from success.
As the cultural class exam approached, Wang Xingjun began to feel a little uneasy, because he dropped out of high school and had difficulty passing the cultural class exam.
When Wang Xingjun was extremely worried, the Shanghai Theater Academy decided that he was malleable, and therefore admitted him exceptionally.
Wang Xingjun was fortunate to be admitted to the Performance Department of Shanghai Theater Academy, and since then his life trajectory has taken on a new look.
After Wang Xingjun arrived at the play, he cherished the opportunity to study in college very much, studied hard every day, and finally won a national first-class scholarship.
Because of Wang Xingjun's hard work and excellent grades, he was loved by teachers and received special care from them.
In 1983, Wang Xingjun, a junior in college, finally ushered in a rare opportunity.
That year, Shanghai Film Studio planned to shoot the movie "Bright Moon on the Sea" and went to the Shanghai Theater Academy for role selection.
Under the recommendation of his teacher Jin Yonglin, Wang Xingjun successfully played the male protagonist Ouyang Fu and started his acting career.
It is worth mentioning that Wang Xingjun was also fortunate to meet the other half of his life.
The heroine is played by Guan Mucun, and the two met because of the play, and later formed a fate.
Both Guan Mucun and Wang Xingjun had equally unhappy childhoods, growing up in poverty and losing their mother at the age of 10.
After his mother died of stomach cancer, Guan Mucun and his younger brother supported each other and began a difficult life and experienced many hardships.
Despite the hardships, Guan Mucun always had an optimistic and longing mentality, and eventually became an ordinary worker in the Tianjin Steel File Factory.
Passionate about singing since childhood, and having received professional training, Guan Mucun was gifted and had an outstanding voice, and finally was fortunate to join the Tianjin Song and Dance Troupe and became a soloist in the troupe.
Since then, Guan Mucun has completely changed his destiny and embarked on the path of becoming a singer.
When Guan Mucun met Wang Xingjun, he had already become famous. Although the two have similar life experiences, they eventually become a couple because of their heart-to-heart compatibility.
Guan Mucun is 6 years older than Wang Xingjun, and he is more famous than the other party, so this "sister and brother love" was questioned at the time.
Some people even claimed at the time that when Wang Xingjun climbed the high branches of Guanmu Village, his heart was full of various other thoughts.
Wang Xingjun felt very unhappy after hearing this, as a sensitive and extremely self-respecting person, he even thought about ending the relationship, but in the end he chose to be patient because of his persistence in love.
Because Guan Mucun was very considerate and thoughtful to Wang Xingjun at that time, he took care of his life meticulously.
Wang Xingjun had already started to fall in love before graduating from college, and Guan Mucun often helped him in life, which made him famous.
When Wang Xingjun was on winter vacation, because he had no money to go home for the New Year, Guan Mucun sent the travel expenses and invited him to go back to Tianjin with him for the New Year.
After graduating from university, Wang Xingjun was assigned to work in Xinjiang, so the two began to live separately.
At the time of parting, Guan Mucun handed over 100 yuan to Wang Xingjun and asked him to take it for his mother.
Therefore, before Wang Xingjun became famous, Guan Mucun became the brightest and warmest light in his heart, and the two loved each other deeply.
Wang Xingjun was later transferred to work at Tianjin TV Station, while Guan Mucun began his further studies in the vocal music department of *** college in 1984.
After their careers gradually stabilized, they officially married on October 1, 1984 and started their married life.
Wang Xingjun was 25 years old at the time, while Guan Mucun was 31 years old. That's their age.
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After the two got married, they were busy with work, which led to the couple having little time to get together, and it was rare to see each other a few times a year.
After graduating from *** college, Guan Mucun chose to return to Tianjin to work.
In 1988, Wang Xingjun's wife Guan Mucun gave birth to a lovely son named Guan Tianyuan.
originally thought that the arrival of their son would make their marriage more happy and happy, but the crisis quietly came.
Wang Xingjun was very disgusted by others saying that he climbed Guan Mu Village, because Guan Mu Village's career has always been better than him, and the gap between the two is getting bigger and bigger.
Wang Xingjun felt deeply unbalanced in his heart, like a thorn in his heart, and this kind of marriage relationship between strong women and weak men has always troubled him.
He also told Guan Mucun: "If I had a reputation and influence like yours, I would have actively traveled to foreign countries a long time ago." ”
Because of his original family, Wang Xingjun has always had an inferiority complex and sensitive, as well as complex and impatient.
In their daily lives, they often disagree over trivial matters, but never think about divorce for the sake of their children.
Wang Xingjun has the ambition of starting a business, but when he welcomes his son, troubles are everywhere.
As the two need to be busy with work and take care of their son at the same time, their lives have become very hard, which has also led to more and more conflicts between them.
Wang Xingjun had a quick temper and could not restrain his emotions, and he couldn't help but make a move on Guan Mucun because of a quarrel.
Guan Mucun made up his mind at that moment to divorce and end this painful married life.
In 1990, Wang Xingjun and Guan Mucun ended their 6-year marriage and divorced, which can be regarded as a relief for each other.
After Guan Mucun divorced, he raised his son alone and left the house to Wang Xingjun, and the two broke up completely.
Wang Xingjun did not have the fetters of marriage, devoted himself to career development, and went to Beijing Film Academy to participate in the senior director training class for further study.
Subsequently, Wang Xingjun continued his studies while filming, went to the Department of History of Nankai University for further study, and successfully obtained a master's degree.
In Beijing, Guan Mucun raised her son alone, and she worked hard to take care of the children at the same time, becoming a strong single mother.
In 1994, Jiang Hong became another important man in Guan Mucun's life.
Jiang Hong is a warm and educated person, and he felt very heartbroken when he saw Guan Mucun raising his children alone.
He said: Guan Mucun is loved by many people, but there are very few people who really care about her, so I want to be close to her and help.
Therefore, Jiang Hong always took care of Guan Mucun, and gradually the relationship between the two quietly sprouted.
In 1998, Guan Mucun finally married Jiang Hong and started a happy and warm new life with his son.
Jiang Hong has also been taking good care of Guan Mucun in the following days, and the marriage between the two has been very harmonious and happy.
Guan Mucun expressed: "My husband is a kind-hearted person with both ability and integrity, I used to feel lonely in my life from time to time, without backing strength, but since I am with him, my life has become better!" ”
Since his divorce, Wang Xingjun has been focusing on his career and does not care about his feelings, which is in stark contrast to Guan Mucun.
He began his work as a director, and successively prepared for the filming of well-known films such as "Amanisha Khan", "Silk Road", and "Full Moon Liangzhou".
The Chinese Film ** Award was presented to the film "Amanisha Khan".
China's first film to premiere at the United Nations headquarters was "Liangzhou with a Full Moon", which showcased and gained the talent and recognition of the director.
After years of hard work, Wang Xingjun finally realized his dream and achieved success in the entertainment industry, fully proving his worth.
Although Wang Xingjun is now successful in his career, since his divorce from Guan Mucun, he has been alone and has never married.
His son, Kwan Thiam Yuen, is now an adult and has started to engage in business activities and become a successful person, which makes him feel very relieved and proud.
Perhaps Wang Xingjun thinks that although there is no marriage, it is also a happy choice to focus on his artistic career.