In an emotional relationship, there will always be needs and needs, otherwise, it will not be enough to achieve love.
Perhaps, many people will think that the greatest need of men for women is women's love.
Actually, no.
Love should be the premise for the two to be together, because of love, the two people continue to get closer and intersect.
When the two finally decided on a relationship because they loved each other, they had an intimate mode of getting along.
In the process of getting along with the two, these three points are the "just needs" of men.
A man needs a woman to understand him and "use" him more
Being needed is as much a flower of life as happiness.Being needed is a great blessing.
The happiest appearance of love should be to be attached to each other and need each other.
Men, in particular, have a natural "desire to pamper" the women they love.
Therefore, a man wants a woman to understand her, to truly understand his inner world, and to satisfy his inner needs.
A man's needs are naturally needed by a woman, and they can become her strong support and support.
And emotionally, men often give or respond to women by taking actions more than they express.
Therefore, men prefer to be "used" by women.
A woman who knows how to "use" a man will make a man feel important, and invisibly, it will greatly satisfy his sense of existence.
Men need to be adored and praised by women
In the love of two people, a woman wants some sense of worship, if there is not even a little worship, even if a woman falls in love, it is just moved and settled.Men need to be worshipped, women want to be pampered, this is the most real psychological state of men and women in love.
Men are naturally conquest-oriented, so they are competitive and competitive.
They always hope that in the process of highlighting these efforts, they can be sincerely affirmed and respected by others.
Therefore, when a woman is working hard and doing things seriously, giving him heartfelt praise will make him feel quite satisfied.
When he has gone through many hardships and achieved extraordinary achievements, a man will feel immensely proud if a woman can express her inner admiration for him at the right time.
This kind of behavior of a woman who worships and praises a man can not only enhance the relationship between the two, but also make the man more confident.
A man needs a woman to have the ability to fight alongside him
Women want men to be their guardians.
But few people think that if they only make greenhouse flowers, not only will they be extremely fragile, but they will also become a fetters for men to move forward.
Men are naturally protective and tend to be leaders.
Therefore, emotionally, they need not only a protective object, but also a comrade-in-arms who can fight side by side with him when difficulties come.
When faced with some difficult situations in life, men will always have moments when they are overwhelmed, and women's abilities have become a force that cannot be underestimated.
The best state in marriage is to support each other, but also be independent, and work hard for the same goal.Life is complex and often full of uncertainties.
When they are comfortable, the two of them enjoy their own time and grow up silently; In rough days, they can support each other and nourish each other.
This is the most ideal state in a relationship, and it is also the key to establishing a stable emotional relationship.
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For a relationship to develop for a long time and stably, it is far from enough to rely on these "just needs".
Therefore, in the whole process of getting along, the two should not only understand each other, but also give each other more understanding and support.
And in the leisure time of life, we will grow together and make progress together.
In order to make the relationship harmonious and stable, the future is promising.