"Everything has been done, and it is a real waste not to eat it".
This is a highly praised comment in the "Salt Hot Search", who would have thought that Guizhou Bijie would be on the hot search on the eve of the New Year with "sprinkling salt into the banquet food". It can really be said that good things don't go out, and bad things spread thousands of miles.
A day has passed, and the hot search of this report has not dropped for a long time, and it has always ranked in the top few of the major platforms, you can think about the impact of **, on the Internet, we can also see overwhelming questioning reports.
After a search of the report, ** people complained that "the people take food as the sky", which is an eternal truth handed down by the ancestors. Such a radical approach is unacceptable in any era, but sometimes, we also need to calm down and think carefully about why this happened.
Actually, I'm also writing an article that has always been about local practices, so it's good to write it in everyone's mood! The louder the question, the more likes.
However, seeing the comments of some local netizens and people who have experienced rural banquets in some special areas, I feel that I need an article with infamy on my back to let everyone understand the background of this incident.
In rural areas, the traditional customs of handling happy events and funerals are deeply rooted in people's daily lives, reflecting a deep human touch and cohesion among villagers.
Among them, the custom of "inviting red things and leaving white things uninvited" especially represents a unique concept of mutual assistance and etiquette in rural society.
Marriage, as a "red thing", is generally not too large. When a wedding is held, family members and some close relatives and friends are invited, and they usually come to help prepare and participate in all aspects of the wedding, which is not only a blessing for the couple, but also an affirmation and strengthening of the relationship between the two families. At the wedding, everyone shared joy and enhanced understanding and friendship.
For "white events", such as the death of an elderly member of the family, the custom of the village is that no formal invitation from the family is required. At such times, the residents of the village will come to help spontaneously, whether it is to participate in the preparation of the funeral or to express their condolences at the funeral, out of respect and support for the deceased and the family. This spontaneous mutual aid reflects the close-knit neighbourhood of a rural community, where people support each other through difficulties and griefs.
Take the rural areas of the Liangguang region as an example, many households run banquets, all of which lose money, because there is a custom of not receiving gifts or receiving less gifts, and it is more symbolic to give a little bit, so that everyone has no pressure to eat and return gifts.
But once the banquet is set up to make money, the nature will change.
Before this incident,The local ** has issued a notice to resolutely resist all kinds of banquets that are cleverly set up and take the opportunity to make money, such as moving, shaving, moving graves, building graves, and being discharged from the hospital.
At present, there has been no response from the local area, and we don't know the reason why this village household runs wine, and we don't know why the local staff did it, but looking at the comments of netizens, you will find that the banquets in some areas of Guizhou are really exaggerated and outrageous.
When this hot search fermented yesterday, in the same area, a girl who returned home for the New Year complained that she had eaten more than 20 banquets in a few days, some people held a banquet on the second floor like the first floor, and some people shaved their heads for dolls, and they ate 6 banquets a day, and people have eaten numb!
But if you look at some comments from local netizens, you will find that such reasons for holding a banquet seem to be normal.
When I was a child, the child was born, and the family's economic conditions were limited, so I didn't do a full moon wine, and now I have a make-up one.
I don't know if you've ever heard of "playing wine", the host will tell you, "You can come and ask for it", and you don't even bother to find a reason.
I took the test and broke two books, and I felt ashamed and didn't want to hold a banquet, so my mother had to do it, and finally told me that I received 16w
The year of freedom is gone, and the year of the dragon has arrived.
There are many more like thisWhat little pigs lay cubs, chickens lay two eggs, only you can't think of it, there is no reason not to find itPerhaps, that's why we don't see locals expressing dissatisfaction with this hot search.
Some people will say that the banquet is not mandatory, you can not go!
That's true, but we can't use the city or the environment around us to substitute into these environments, if the people in the village set up a banquet and we don't go, it means that we have no contact with the people in the village, so do we still have friends in the village? Can you still hold your head up?
Today I went to eat your banquet, I feel that I have suffered a loss, tomorrow I will find a way to hold a banquet and eat back, so repeatedly, it will naturally become a "vicious circle".
The act of sprinkling salt and wasting food is not advisable, but the background behind this is what is really worth pondering, how to effectively advocate civilized wine, and stop the bad atmosphere of borrowing wine to make money, which is the top priority at the moment.