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The rich love to pretend to be poor, and the poor love to show off their wealthA new "strange phenomenon" in the countryside, let's see if you have it at home?
With the continuous improvement of national policies, there are more and more benefitsThe economic development of rural areas has also been improving.
In the process of improvement, some bad tendencies have gradually emerged.
During the New Year's holidays, will you see a luxury car parked in front of some usually inconspicuous homes?
In the countryside, there seem to be a lot of "big money" in the past few years, and they are conveying the meaning of "I am not bad for money". But if you think so, you are very wrong.
The "local tyrant" who wears gold and silver and seems to be very generous may have alloy products of several hundred yuan hanging around his neckA luxury car parked in front of your home may also be rented for money.
And a big brand, a pack of Chinese cigarettes in one hand, and a bottle of "Moutai" on a table may also be counterfeit and shoddyThese "fake big names" have become a tool for some people to show off their wealth to others.
The scenery in front of people is unlimited, but behind people is actually in debtDoes this kind of angry and funny "fake rich man" also appear around you?
These "fake rich people" convey the bad atmosphere of admiring vanity and perform clumsy acting skillsEspecially these 3 types of people, who love to show off their wealth the most, have you ever seen it?
Wearing gold, silver and jewelry is the most direct way to reveal one's wealthAs the old saying goes: "People in the world make more friends, but not more and not deeper".
Judging from the appearance, all kinds of valuable ornaments are wrapped around the bodyIt can give people the most intuitive feeling: this person is rich!
Especially in today's soaring gold prices, a string of large gold chains is worth a lot of moneyIf you move, it will be tens of thousands, and if you are at least, it will cost thousands.
Be able to wear jewelry of this valueIn the countryside it is already possible to take a big step and sit on a high stool.
But,These so-called gold and silver jewels can be imitated by some very cheap pieces of iron and pigmentsWe have no way of verifying its authenticity.
So say in rural areas,When you see a person in a very exaggerated way, with a large gold chain around his neck and a string of pearls on his wrist.
Don't be in a hurry to envy, these things are not necessarily true!
In vast rural areas,It is true that there are some people who have achieved class leaps through their own effortsA better life. This part of the people has a characteristic, low-key.
In order not to attract undue attention from others,People who are really rich basically don't choose to wear very expensive jewelry.
On the contrary, there are some people who are not wealthyIn order to create the illusion of "not bad money", he did not hesitate to "spend a lot of money" to buy imitation jewelry to show his wealth.
People in rural areas interact more closely with each other than in citiesEvery move can attract the attention of the neighbors.
And there are such a part of the people who are not doing well in the countrysideChoosing to go out to work to earn a living, it is true that you can earn more money by working than staying in the countryside.
But the relative part-time job will also be more tiringOnce you step out of the village gate, you become a wanderer.
These "drifters" are actually very difficult to get rich.
Alone in a foreign land as a stranger, every festival is full of relatives. People who are adrift actually miss their hometown very much, and this is also a last resort choice in order to earn money.
So, in order to be able to return to my hometown for the New Year's holidays, I have a "blockbuster".In order to attract the attention of others, these people will choose to pretend to be "rich".
In fact, only you know what you suffer outsideI can't take off the "mask" after returning to my hometown, I'm too tired!
From the experience of the ancients, it can be deducedPeople who like to "slip around and shoot horses, left and right" should not have deep friendships.
Because the vast majority of these people are very "snobbish".People like to tie up with powerful people, and when they see someone poorer than themselves, they ridicule and ridicule.
This kind of person is very hateful, and it is also easier to become a "fake rich person".
Snobbery is not welcomed, and in the simple and simple countryside, it is even more affected by "horizontal eyebrows and cold faces", this part of the people in order to change the perception of others about themselvesChoosing "loaded with money" became the best way.
Catering to others is certainly not the true idea of this part of the populationIf these people were given a little bit of authority, they would certainly be more arrogant than anyone else.
Therefore, from a psychological point of view, "snobbery" is very eager to be respected by othersIn rural areas where people have close contacts, they want to get a higher status.
"Loaded with money" during the New Year's holidays has become a good way for these people to satisfy their desires.
Judging from the current social environment, it is becoming more and more difficult to make moneyHowever, there are those who "do the opposite."
Obviously, he usually doesn't do anything, but once he came home for the New Year, he became a rich manIf you ask the reason for getting rich again, it will be in the hands of these people.
Because they will tell you what e-commerce dividends they have caught upOr if you are engaged in some high-tech such as big data, you are always confused when you ask yourself.
In fact, these "fake rich" are even more confused.
Influenced by social perceptions,Ideas such as "only with money can there be status" and "only with wealth can people be respected" are deeply rooted in the hearts of the people.
The people of the same village saw that those who had lived worse than themselves had become rich, the psychology will definitely be a little envious or even jealous, and the phenomenon of "fake wealth" has become an endless circle.
Some time ago, there was a popular saying that "the identity of going out is given by yourself".In fact, it is equivalent to the current phenomenon of "fake wealth" in rural areas.
loaded with rich people", able to satisfy their own vanity,You can also give others a painful blow to their hearts, why not?
In addition to satisfying one's own vanity, there is also part of the reasonIt is the illusion of "magnificence" advertised on some **.
Luxury cars and mansions seem to be owned by everyone, and they are too incommensurate with the real society, and they don't know the truthIn order to "keep up with the trend", you may choose the path of "fake rich".
"Pretending to be rich" is actually just a temporary coolness, if it is exposed on the spot,In rural areas, where information is transmitted from person to person, it is a large-scale "social death" scene.
At the same time, the three aunts and eight aunts left the work in their hands and ran to see the excitementAt that time, I really couldn't raise my head, and it was extremely embarrassing!
From this point of view, the risk of "pretending to be rich" is really not smallThis tactic is very easy to debunk.
"Pretending to be rich" is to spend a large amount of money, and you are not rich yourselfI also have to take care of such a face-saving project, and it won't last long before I show my feet.
The investment in "pretending to be rich" is too large, and the income is actually not very highBecause the real rich people all know a truth: "wealth is not exposed".
is the so-called "tree big wind", showing how rich he is in front of his fellow villagersIt is easy to cause jealousy, and it can also invite unnecessary trouble.
Not everyone wants you to live well, no matter how good the face project isAlso beware of other people's "backs".
On the contrary, if you keep a low profile, the road is simpleIf you are truly unfazed, it is easier to get the sincere respect of others.
Blindly show your wealth,can only gather some "fox friends and dog friends" around, and it is difficult to meet true friends.
Although the phenomenon of "pretending to be rich" is common, it cannot kill everyone with a stickSome really rich people will also pay attention to the face project.
Almost everyone has this mentality:If you don't have a better life than me, the psychological pressure will be much less. The corresponding brain actively produces dopamine.
This phenomenon is more likely to occur between people who are relatively close to each otherThis would explain why some people spend their entire lives like glue, while others drift away.
In fact, this psychological phenomenon is not conducive to our personal developmentWe need to learn to put an end to this kind of thinking.
If there is a self-made man who goes rich next to us,We should learn to accept and see the strengths of others in order to examine our own shortcomings.
When such a person appears around us, we must also learn to accept such a psychological gap.
Even if he used to be worse than ourselves,That can't negate the later efforts of others, why should you be envious and jealous?
What you should reflect on is why you didn't succeed.
Excellent people should be role models to learn from, especially people in the same village, everyone is on the same starting lineSuccess does not happen overnight, and we should look at others with a multi-dimensional vision.
With such psychological construction, when we learn that others are doing well and becoming rich, we should accept it with an open mind and accumulate our own strengthYou can also sincerely ask others for advice and copy the success of others.
It's clear that I'm living a mess, but in order to find a sense of existence and face,rented a car and wore a gold chain to show a wealthy appearance.
Even worse, they will borrow money and loans to create "pretending to be rich". Why are they already in debt, and they can't let go of it in reality?
No matter how well you pretend, you can't change the reality of your poverty.
The fact is that such people are not only poor in terms of wealth, but also not rich enough in spiritIf you focus too much on face, you are a waste of money.
There is no money and there is no way to liveThe traditional "money is the last word" is not in line with reality, and people without money can live well.
More money can solve a lot of thingsHowever, in the process of accumulating wealth, you will also lose time with your family, and working long hours will also cause physical damage.
Just because you don't have money now doesn't mean you won't be able to earn it laterHaving money now does not mean that there will be later, and no one knows which will come first, tomorrow or accident.
So we must not care too much about whether others are really rich or notIt is also redundant to find ways to verify it.
Returning to the village for the New Year is not a stage to show your wealth!
Take advantage of the Chinese New Year to accompany your family or relativesGiving the tired body a break to cope with the new year is the meaning of the New Year.