May 6 is the beginning of the summer solar term, and the beginning of summer, as one of the 24 solar terms, carries the prosperity and enthusiasm of summer, and is known as the most important festival in summer by the ancients. In the ancient traditional concept, folk wisdom is fully displayed in many sayings and proverbs, such as "peaches raise people, apricots hurt people, bury dead people under pear trees", and "if you don't send it in summer, your wealth will not be empty", etc., these proverbs contain people's understanding of nature and naturelifeunique perceptions. At this special moment, let's take a look at three items that should not be given away in the summer, so as not to violate taboos and damage the fate of ourselves and others.
There are many taboos in gift-giving customs, and gifts need to be treated with caution. As a sharp weapon to hurt people, knives represent the image of "one knife and two cuts", which is easy to bring ominous omens to people. In the summer, it is especially important to avoid sending out items that are easily reminiscent of cracking and injury, such as knives, to avoid injuryRelationshipsto affect their own fortunes.
Regarding the non-delivery of tools, the discussion can be further expanded in different countries or regionsCultureViews and etiquette on knives. In Japan, for example, knives are considered to have a special symbolic meaning, and gifting them requires special rituals and traditions to show respect and dignity. It also enlightens us on the differenceCultureIn context, attitudes and meanings towards gifts will also vary.
In ancient China, knives were seen as a symbol of power and courage, so it was important to be cautious about gifting knives. This traditional thinking is in modern timesSocialIt is still deeply rooted, reminding people to pay attention to details when giving gifts and avoid undesirable consequences due to carelessness.
As a cool weapon in summer, the fan was once one of the essential items in ancient families. However, with modern timesLifestyleThe fan was gradually replaced by an air conditioner, but its unique symbolism remained. In the summer, giving away a fan may be seen as a sign of breaking off friendship and severing contact, so it should be avoided.
In addition to being a tool, the fan is also in literatureArtand other fields have a unique form of expression. Ancient literati and writers often used fans as the theme for their creations, using fans as an expression of communication and emotionMoodmedium. In modern times, fans are often madeArtproducts, become a display of traditional craftsmanship andCultureOne of the representatives.
Therefore, the taboo of not giving fans is not only out of respect for traditional etiquette, but also reflects people's wise care for friendship and family affection. Seeking convenience in the momentSocial, keep a copy of the traditionCultureRespect and awe are also cherished for history and memory.
Summer is hot and rainy, and umbrellas become indispensable. However, at the beginning of summer, the homophonic image of "separation" that may result from giving out an umbrella can easily be misunderstood as a symbol of parting ways and dispersion. Therefore, the umbrella should be sent carefully and delicately, so as not to cause unnecessary misunderstandings and contradictions.
in differentCultureUmbrellas also have different symbolic meanings. In some Western countries, umbrellas are seen as a symbol of misfortune and bad luck, and they are reluctant to accept umbrellas from others because of the negative psychological implications they can give to people. And in the EastCultureThe umbrella is more regarded as a talisman and a thing of protection, representing love and care for others.
Therefore, do not send umbrellas in the Chinese traditionCulturehas a certain rationality and caution, prompting people in the everydaylifeIt is necessary to pay attention to emotional consideration and friendship maintenance. Through this subtle etiquette detail, it can also reflect the attention of the Chinese nationRelationshipsand emotional communicationCultureConnotation.
The beginning of summer is coming, and as the old saying goes, "if you don't send it in the summer, your wealth will not be empty", which is the ancient traditional wisdom in contemporary timeslifeThe continuation and embodiment of . By carefully choosing and avoiding gift-giving items, you can not only avoid bad omens, but more importantly, maintain themRelationshipsCherish friendship. CultureThe tradition contains etiquette and respect for the contemporarySocialStill instructive and valuable. Let's pass on and build on the traditionCultureAt the same time, but also in the day-to-daylifePay attention to details, convey emotions, and jointly build a harmonious and beautiful oneSocialAtmosphere.