Xiao Jingjing was admitted to graduate school with excellent grades and gave her part-time father a precious gift; After graduating from graduate school, she was accepted into Capilano University in Canada as a soon-to-be PhD student.
When her father Xiao Chongyang carried countless gas canisters every day to create a better environment for her to study, Xiao Jingjing secretly vowed: "Dad, when I graduate from my doctorate, I will return to China to find a good job, and you don't have to carry gas canisters for others anymore!" ”
Father smiled and replied, "Okay, okay, Dad is waiting for you to graduate." Your mother has a spirit in heaven, and she will be proud of you. However, just as Xiao Jingjing was about to go to Canada to study, an accident changed her fate: a couple approached her with 500,000 yuan, claiming that she was their biological daughter and wanted to recognize her.
What is Xiao Jingjing's real life experience, and will she return to her richer "parents"? All this starts when she was a child. When her mother was dying, she revealed a shocking life experience.
Xiao Jingjing's family conditions have never been very good, her mother is a special person with limited mobility, unable to go out to work, and the family's living expenses are all obtained by her father through manual labor.
Despite the family's poverty, Xiao Chongyang and Qi Chunlan (Xiao Jingjing's adoptive mother) always do their best to give their children the best life. At that time, the scientific knowledge of raising children was not as abundant as it is now, and only the children of wealthy families could enjoy the nourishment of milk powder.
However, despite Xiao Chongyang's meager income, they would rather eat less and wear less, and save every penny to buy milk powder for Xiao Jingjing, so that she can grow up healthily.
Neighbors and relatives have repeatedly admonished the parents: "When the child is young, just drink some milk powder, and when he grows up, he will slowly switch to porridge, so as to reduce the burden." ”
Whenever this happens, they always smile and respond: "It's okay, we save ourselves, we can't let the child suffer no matter what." ”
Xiao Chongyang has made great efforts for the sake of his family. At first, he worked in a factory canteen, and although he didn't earn much, he did his best to hope that his family would be better.
However, the wave of layoffs left him unemployed and left him dependent on deliveries to others to make ends meet. Every day, he shuttles through the streets of the city, never daring to have a moment of rest.
His peers only make a dozen trips a day, but he has to pull dozens of trips every day. It's all because he has a wife to take care of and a lovely daughter to raise. Despite the hardships of life, he firmly believes that as long as he uses this money in exchange for his daughter's happiness, all the efforts are worth it.
In the process of Xiao Jingjing's growth, Xiao Chongyang felt that his efforts were valuable. Despite living in poverty, they are satisfied with the warmth and joy of their families.
Time passed quietly in a dull and happy life, and in a blink of an eye, Xiao Jingjing was about to go to elementary school. However, in the past few years, the work of driving and hauling goods has become more and more difficult, and Qi Chunlan's body has also developed serious problems, and she often needs to rely on medicine to maintain her health.
Xiao Chongyang decided to change to a more lucrative job - carrying gas canisters. In many communities where there are no gas pipelines, gas canisters are mostly used for household cooking. This job is demanding and does not require skills, as long as you endure hardships and stand hard work, you can get a good pay.
In the era of the popularization of step buildings, Xiao Chongyang resolutely became a gas tank distributor in the community, and he worked for decades. Whether it's a scorching heat or a harsh winter, his clothes are always wet because he has to deliver gas canisters to the homes of high-rise users by himself.
Xiao Jingjing, who grew up in this environment, saw her mother cooking and combing her hair during her illness, and also saw her father gritting his teeth and insisting on working for her. The only way to repay your parents is to study hard.
Xiao Jingjing has known how to cherish the opportunity to learn since she was a child. From the moment she entered the campus, she became a model student in the eyes of her teachers, and "someone else's child" in the mouth of students.
At all times, she can actively communicate with teachers, take the initiative to complete homework after class, and always maintain excellent exam results. When children of the same age were addicted to material enjoyment, Xiao Jingjing didn't care about her material conditions, let alone asked her parents for new clothes.
Because she knows that having the opportunity to go to school has spent all the effort of her parents, how can she still have the heart of comparison? Her heart is filled with gratitude and cherishment, and this spirit also makes her shine in life.
Despite the difficulties and challenges in life, Xiao Chongyang and Qi Chunlan's greatest motivation comes from the achievements of their proud daughter Xiao Jingjing and the praise of those around them.
However, life shows no mercy for them, and disaster soon befalls the crumbling family. Qi Chunlan's health deteriorated so dramatically that she couldn't comb her daughter's beautiful hair, so she had to go to school with a messy hairstyle.
In 2001, Qi Chunlan's condition deteriorated to the extreme, and the doctor even told her that her days were running out and that she should cherish this limited time.
Although they had been mentally prepared, Qi Chunlan still felt extremely reluctant. Her daughter Xiao Jingjing has not grown up, got married and had children, and she is about to leave this world.
She was worried about whether Xiao Chongyang would be able to take care of her children and provide for her to complete her studies if she left this world. So, she decided to tell her about her background, hoping that she would be strong enough to face life's challenges.
Child, in fact, you are not our biological daughter, but a ...... we picked up from the outside"This secret can be traced back to the winter of 1987, when heavy snow and cold winds invaded the city of Xiaogan, Hubei.
Xiao Chongyang's wife, Qi Chunlan, felt unwell and needed to go to the hospital to see a doctor.
When Xiao Chongyang heard that his wife was unwell, he immediately asked the leader for leave and took her to the hospital. Fortunately, it is only a small problem, and I only need to take medicine at home to recuperate. On the way home, Qi Chunlan felt the biting cold wind, turned her head and saw Xiao Chongyang beside her, with a lot of thoughts.
She knew that she was disabled, had no job, and had frequent health problems. And her husband Xiao Chongyang is a veteran, and now works in the canteen of a cotton mill, with a low salary, but a stable life.
What touched her was that her husband never complained about her, nor did he complain about the hardships of life. Although the couple occasionally had arguments, they were able to understand and support each other.
Although their life is happy, Qi Chunlan feels that her life is incomplete, because she has been married for many years, her health has not been good, and she is not pregnant.
In her melancholy life, Qi Chunlan heard a faint cry, which filled her heart with doubts and expectations. She shared the news with her husband, who was not convinced.
However, the cry came again, confirming her hearing. Qi Chunlan and her husband decided to look for the crying **, and they searched carefully in the direction of the crying. Eventually, next to the trash can, they found an abandoned baby.
In the cold winter season, this baby only has a thin quilt to keep warm, and his little face is red from the cold. Despite their worries about the unknowns of the future, they decided to bring the baby home and provide him with a warm family.
This unexpected discovery gave them hope and new possibilities in life.
After careful searching, the couple did not find anything that could prove the identity of the child, and it seems that her parents were determined to abandon her. "This must be a girl, otherwise why abandon her? "
Hearing her husband's words, Qi Chunlan immediately responded:"Let's leave it alone if she's a boy or a girl, the most important thing now is to bring her home to keep warm. It was too cold for us to let this kid freeze. "
Hearing this, the two of them quickened their pace and brought the abandoned girl home. As Xiao Chongyang expected, this abandoned baby was indeed a girl.
In those days, this kind of thing was not uncommon, and many families were patriarchal, and they would risk punishment and have children until they gave birth to a boy.
Because there are too many children, they will be abandoned if they can't afford them, so baby girls can often be found near trash cans.
Looking at this orphan, Qi Chunlan's heart was extremely painful. They long to have children, but they are disappointed because they can't have children, and some people don't value their children at all. Do her parents also regret their past actions?
As soon as she thought of this, Qi Chunlan said to her husband: "Our children, no matter how many they have, are worth cherishing." Her parents may also be regretting their decision, so you can ask a colleague at work to see if any of the children are missing. ”
Xiao Chongyang nodded, "I will do my best to find her biological parents and send her back." But after a few days, Xiao Chongyang did not find any clues, and the child could only be taken care of by Qi Chunlan temporarily.
As time passed, Qi Chunlan developed deep feelings for this child. Since the child was picked up by himself, no one claimed it, and he couldn't have children himself, so it was better to adopt her.
When Xiao Chongyang finished a day's work, Qi Chunlan immediately put forward the idea of ***. However, Xiao Chongyang remained silent about this. Because *** needs a lot of money, and their current financial conditions are not well-off, once they adopt this child, their life may be even more difficult.
Although Xiao Chongyang also likes this cute little girl very much and has a deep affection for her, he is a little hesitant when he thinks of his income.
In this regard, Qi Chunlan understood Xiao Chongyang's worries very well, so she opened her mouth to persuade: "Sooner or later, we all need to have a child, you know my physical condition."
Since we have met this little girl, it means that we are destined, so why don't we adopt her. Xiao Chongyang nodded after hearing this, and decided to follow Qi Chunlan's advice: "Okay, then listen to you."
We decided to adopt this child, and I'll take the time to go through the formalities. ”
The little girl Xiao Jingjing became the adopted daughter of Xiao Chongyang and Qi Chunlan. After the adoption procedures were completed, they informed their relatives and friends, but told everyone not to tell Xiao Jingjing's true life experience, just treat her as her own daughter.
Xiao Jingjing grew up in the love and care of her relatives, and never doubted her life experience. However, when Qi Chunlan was about to die, Xiao Jingjing's biological parents suddenly appeared and told her the truth.
In the face of this huge impact, Xiao Jingjing couldn't accept it for a while, but she knew that she should be grateful to her adoptive parents for their nurturing grace and the hardships that her adoptive parents paid for her.
Despite her heartache, she decided to cherish the time she spent with her adoptive parents and to be grateful for their love and dedication.
Mom and Dad, I will always be your child. Although my biological parents have left me, they are no longer related to me. "When the family's biggest secret is **, the relationship between the family of three has not been affected, and life is still business as usual.
However, Qi Chunlan's body gradually weakened and eventually passed away that year. This year, Xiao Jingjing was only fourteen years old, and the death of her mother forced her to take care of herself and her father independently.
Xiao Chongyang still insists on carrying gas canisters every day to earn money, and most of his income is spent on his daughter. In 2005, Xiao Jingjing's light of hope finally shone on her: she was admitted to Huazhong Agricultural University and became a college student.
Xiao Chongyang has been both a father and a mother for many years, using his shoulders to create learning opportunities for his daughter, albeit at the expense of his own body, but in the end he succeeded in cultivating his daughter into a talent.
Xiao Jingjing looked at her aging father, and her heart was full of gratitude and distress for him.
The man who used to be a man who practiced himself is now sick, and his physique can no longer be compared with the past. But he did not stop because of this, and insisted on studying at his own expense. Now that he has finally been admitted to university, he can reduce the burden on his family through work-study, and his father should be more relaxed.
Dad, I have a lot of spare time in college, I can work on my own to earn living expenses, you can carry less gas canisters, pay attention to your body. "Okay, listen to you. You don't have to worry about me, don't treat yourself badly, just tell your dad if you don't have enough money. ”
Xiao Chongyang promised his daughter to carry less gas canisters, but in fact, he secretly worked a few jobs, just so that Xiao Jingjing could study at ease in college and not have to worry about money.
He couldn't suppress his longing for his daughter, so he took the train to see her at school, brought some souvenirs and clothes, and secretly stuffed a few hundred dollars.
Xiao Jingjing, a tenacious girl. She used her spare time to work and study in her spare time during her university years to alleviate the financial pressure on her family. She not only won a national scholarship with excellent grades and solved the problem of tuition fees, but also always maintained the habit of frugality.
She used the money she saved to buy groceries for her father, instead of buying expensive clothes and cosmetics for herself. After graduating from university, she was successfully admitted to the graduate school and was sent to Canada to study for a doctorate.
However, her story doesn't stop there. It turned out that Xiao Jingjing was the youngest daughter of her biological parents, and they had given birth to four girls in a row in order to have a boy, but the family's financial situation was stretched, so they could only throw her next to the trash can.
In the blink of an eye, in 2005, Xiao Jingjing's parents already had a son, and they also received a huge amount of demolition money, and their living conditions improved. They set out to find their youngest daughter, and finally found her after she became a top student.
This story teaches us that life is hard, but perseverance and hard work always bring hope and change.
Hearing that their daughter had been escorted to a doctorate, they were even more convinced of their determination to recognize their relatives. In order to be able to bring Xiao Jingjing back from Xiao Chongyang, their biological parents prepared 500,000 cash, intending to use money to cut off the relationship between Xiao Jingjing and Xiao Chongyang.
The biological parents who thought they were ready for everything came to Xiao Jingjing's home and showed their identities straight to the point. Just when Xiao Jingjing was at a loss, Xiao Chongyang came back, thinking that these people would be unfavorable to his daughter, so he hurriedly protected his daughter behind him.
Who are you? Want to do it? Something said to me, I'm her father. "You are Xiao Chongyang, we are Xiao Jingjing's biological parents, and we want her to go back to live with us."
Don't worry, we'll give her 500,000 as compensation. Hearing the words of Xiao Jingjing's biological parents, Xiao Chongyang's heart was mixed, so he spoke: "You say that they are Jingjing's biological parents, do you have any evidence?" ”
We used to put her in a quilt next to a trash can near the hospital, and if you were in doubt, we could go for a paternity test. ”
Xiao Chongyang looked at Xiao Jingjing's resolute attitude and knew that she must be her biological parents. Although I don't mind her returning to her biological parents, my daughter, who was raised since childhood, still feels a little uncomfortable when this moment really comes.
I have no objection to you taking her away, nor do I want your money. As long as Jingjing agrees, you can take her away. refused to recognize his biological parents, and his adoptive father Xiao Chongyang saw that Xiao Chongyang had relented, and his biological parents thought that Xiao Jingjing should agree to recognize her relatives and began to use an emotional offensive against her.
Child, we couldn't afford to raise you at the time, so we had to abandon you. "We may not be able to feed you in a situation at the time, so we want you to grow up healthy. "As soon as we got the demolition money, we came to look for you, and we also prepared 500,000 yuan for your adoptive father. ”
Xiao Jingjing looked firmly at her biological parents who were crying bitterly, and she did not hesitate in her heart. How ironic is it that I was abandoned by them, but in the name of love?
Although they are only a dozen kilometers apart, they have never seen her in the future, and now she wants to go abroad to recognize each other, what is their motivation? In the past few decades, her mother has endured the torture of illness to take care of her, and her father has carried a gas canister for her to study for more than 20 years.
Needless to say, I have already decided, my father's name is Xiao Chongyang, my mother's name is Qi Chunlan, and my name is Xiao Jingjing. She said resolutely. "I don't go with you, we've been strangers since the moment you abandoned me. ”
My mother has passed away, and I now have my father to live by. When I return to China, I will take my father with me, and I have nothing to do with you. ”
Xiao Jingjing's attitude was resolute, so that the other party could not continue to fantasize. Although she was reluctant to go home with the other party, the couple decided to go back first and wait for the opportunity in the future. Later, Xiao Jingjing successfully returned from studying in Canada and took her father to her side, hoping that he could enjoy his old age in peace.
may be the reason why her biological parents are patriarchal, Xiao Jingjing has a good relationship with her sister and often greets each other through messages. In 2015, Xiao Jingjing's sister participated in a TV show, and Xiao Jingjing came to support as a guest.
However, the TV station secretly invited Xiao Jingjing's biological parents to the scene, trying to force Xiao Jingjing to admit her relatives with the help of **. "Jingjing, they are your biological parents after all, can't you give them a chance? ”
yes, they already know they're wrong. "If you don't come home, you can at least call Mom and Dad, right?" ”
In the face of the host's persuasion and the suggestions of other guests, Xiao Jingjing insisted on herself and publicly said: "My father is Xiao Chongyang, my mother is Qi Chunlan, I only have these two biological parents, and I don't want to recognize anyone else." ”
After the show, the society reacted strongly to Xiao Jingjing's actions, and more than ninety percent of people supported her resolute attitude. Some netizens even praised her approach, believing that irresponsible parents should be treated so resolutely.
This year, Xiao Jingjing found her lifelong partner. On the day of the wedding, Xiao Chongyang handed his daughter's hand to his son-in-law and said to him with tears in his eyes: "Live well and treat my daughter well." ”
Dad, you can rest assured that Jingjing and I will honor you together in the future. Soon after marriage, Xiao Jingjing became pregnant, and Xiao Chongyang was promoted to a grandfather and lived in a bustling metropolis with his daughter's family of three.
The poor life of the past is no more, and now the family lives in the metropolis, and the family of four is happy, and finally out of the trough of life and welcomes the sunshine.
The injustice of fate made Xiao Jingjing born in the shadow of patriarchy, but she was lucky to meet a pair of adoptive parents who loved her wholeheartedly, and let them make up for this deficiency for her with endless love.
Although she lives in poverty, her heart is full of contentment. If she hadn't been abandoned by her biological parents, maybe she wouldn't feel so happy as she is now.