In the journey of life, emotions are an effective medicine for us to overcome all kinds of difficult emotions. However, just as any medicine has diseases that cannot be ailed, everything in the world has its pros and cons.
In the mall, people usually calculate how much benefit they can get when they weigh the pros and cons. However, in addition to those things that are obvious, there are many things that cannot be analyzed by calculation to analyze the pros and cons.
Love, this kind of emotion that makes people smell and change, is infinitely amplified in the modern society full of desire and **, and has become a soft field in people's hearts. Even Cao Yu, a drama master who was once in the limelight, failed to resist the relationship.
For both men and women, love is an irresistible difficulty, once it meets a happy ending, it means that it will be with the lover for a lifetime, regardless of men and women, the yearning for love has never really faded.
In the long river of love, sometimes there are waves, and sometimes there are calm as mirrors. The romance of the snow makes people yearn for the quiet years of growing old together. However, in reality, the love in marriage can also be diluted by the trivialities of life.
The story of Cao Yu and Fang Rui makes people sigh at the complexity and changeability of love. In this era, fast-food love has become an important way for people to vent their feelings, and the transience and instability of this love make people full of expectations and yearning for long-term love.
Although it is known as the golden boy and jade girl of "match made in heaven", even the ** after marriage cannot completely restrain Cao Yu's indulgence. For a period of time, Cao Yu's name was known to everyone, and he revealed the depth of human nature in the form of drama in "Thunderstorm", and was regarded as the Shakespeare of China by countless later generations.
In Thunderstorm, Cao Yu successfully shows the complexity of human nature and the entanglement of feelings, and it is hard to imagine what kind of pain and tribulation such a writer who has produced excellent and esoteric scripts has experienced in life.
If you haven't gone through the wind and rain, how can you see the radiant rainbow? The story behind Cao Yu's creations has always been talked about, but who could have predicted his little-known daily life and later his unbelievable married life.
The reason why Cao Yu was able to create many thought-provoking scripts is all because of his rich knowledge reserve. He was admitted to Tsinghua University with excellent grades, and it was during his studies at Tsinghua University that he unexpectedly met a beautiful love.
In Cao Yu's youth, he saw love as a double-edged sword, which could be either a life-saving panacea or an all-destroying arsenic. He believes that only appearance is the key to determining love.
He and Zheng Xiu exchanged lifelong commitments on the Tsinghua campus, and they met while starring in the British three-act play "Sin". At that time, Zheng Xiu haunted Cao Yu's dreams. As time passed, Zheng Xiu's feelings for Cao Yu became deeper and deeper, and Cao Yu also had the same feelings.
However, their happiness did not last long, because at that time, the country did not achieve national peace and security, the war continued, and their love was always full of unknown accidents.
In 1936, Cao Yu's script for "Thunderstorm" was finally released in the form of a single volume. Mr. Barking has made a huge contribution behind the scenes. Not long after, Cao Yu made a beautiful promise to Zheng Xiu for a lifetime.
However, the trivial things in married life tend to quickly wear away the excitement and romance that once existed. The quarrel after marriage and Fang Rui's appearance made this originally enviable marriage stormy.
The success of a marriage is not always smooth sailing, and it requires the joint efforts and dedication of both parties. Cao Yu expressed dissatisfaction with his wife Zheng Xiu's disregard for her family and inconsiderateness, and Zheng Xiu's anger towards her husband was self-evident.
The incompatibility of living habits is the main culprit of the rift in the marriage. In this marriage, there may be no fault for anyone, or there may be no fault for both parties, but the sad thing is that not long after the marriage, the news of Cao Yu's abnormal state reached the ears of relatives and friends.
In marriage, everything is not a trivial matter, and the principle of accumulation over time is understood by everyone, but when it is really put on the body, I believe that there are many people who will not care about it at first.
Because of the living habits, a lot of running-in was needed, and Zheng Xiu, who was young and beautiful at that time, was unwilling to take the lead in changing herself, so the two of them have been spending time in a hurry.
However, this marriage, which had long existed in name only, was completely broken because of the appearance of a woman named Fang Rui. Cao Yu felt the possibility of being loved again, but he no longer loved Zheng Xiu, and when Zheng Xiu wanted to save his marriage, Fang Rui had already lived in Cao Yu's heart.
In the role of three people, only one person can be sacrificed in the end to complete the remaining two. Although Zheng Xiu pleaded hard, Cao Yu, as a man, was tormented in his heart. During the period of non-divorce, Cao Yu and Fang Rui have spent ten years together, but the ten years of marital cheating have become a shame that Cao Yu cannot erase.
Cao Yu, a drama master, was misunderstood by the world as a negative scumbag. In fact, the grievances and hatreds between Cao Yu and Zheng Xiu may be difficult for even Cao Yu himself to understand. After the founding of the People's Republic of China, Cao Yu decisively ended his connection with Zheng Xiu for the sake of Fang Rui.
After the divorce, Cao Yu did not remarry, and Zheng Xiu did not remarry.
Cao Yu recalled his divorce from Zheng Xiu, and still couldn't help but burst into tears. At the beginning, they were deeply in love with each other, from knowing each other to knowing each other, the two were a model couple and went through a good time together.
However, the passage of time is irresistible after all, and the endless quarrels in the marriage make Jung-su begin to feel heartache, and she also makes the post-marriage mistakes that all women make.
If the contradiction between the two could be properly resolved, perhaps Fang Rui would have no chance. But the world is impermanent, and if you want it in the world, how can you do it? In the marriage between Cao Yu and Zheng Xiu, it may not be possible to measure it by the word right or wrong, after all, no one is perfect, and he can only blame creation and make people.
Although Cao Yu cried bitterly during the divorce and vented his pain over the years, his decades-long relationship with Fang Rui was still criticized by many people. This shows that it is often difficult to draw a clear conclusion when judging the rights and wrongs of marriage.