Marriage is not always smooth sailing, but is full of challenges and changes. Over time, the way couples interact and communicate changes and can sometimes even become confusing and painful.
First of all, I want to say that I totally understand your feelings. After being married for a long time, noticing changes in your partner's attitudes and behaviors can sometimes leave you feeling frustrated and hurtful. Sometimes, your partner may scold you, annoy you, or even hate you, which is a very uncomfortable feeling.
However, I would like to remind you not to blame yourself for your partner's negative emotions. Everyone has their own emotions and thoughts, and sometimes conflicts and misunderstandings arise for various reasons. Therefore, we need to learn to understand and respect each other's feelings and work to resolve differences through communication.
Secondly, your partner not coaxing you after a fight does not necessarily mean that he does not love you or that he is not responsible. Sometimes, people feel emotionally exhausted and need some time and space to calm down. In addition, everyone has their own way of dealing with conflicts, with some people taking the initiative to seek reconciliation after a fight, while others tend to be silent and independent. Therefore, we need to respect the other person's handling style and try to solve the problem through communication.
In the end, marrying the wrong person is worse than not getting married. It's a very painful realization, but remember that marriage is an investment that requires patience and hard work. We need to take the time to get to know each other and build a foundation of trust and respect. In the process, we may encounter setbacks and difficulties, but as long as we are willing to work hard and believe in each other, we can overcome difficulties and grow together.
In short, marriage is an investment that takes time and effort. We need to learn to understand and respect each other's feelings, resolve differences through communication, and strive to build a foundation of trust and respect. Only in this way can we face the challenges and difficulties of marriage together, grow together, and be happy together.