Received such a question:
,My wife and I have sex,At first, I felt a lot.,But the last few times it's always halfway there's a sudden loss of interest.,We're all normal.,The relationship is good.,There's no affair or anything.,I really don't know what's going on.。
Truth be told, based on the information provided by this reader, it's really hard to figure out what the problem is. A successful sex life requires a variety of factors.
The physical condition of both parties.
As a more strenuous exercise, it is more physically demanding, so the physical condition of both parties is a hard condition.
First of all, you need to have enough physical strength to complete it. If you don't have enough stamina, then your sex life may be abandoned halfway, so your physical strength should be consistent. If you are too tired from work, it is best to rest and recuperate first, and wait for the state to adjust so that you can better experience your sex life.
Secondly, there should be no "abnormality" in the body, such as discomfort and the like, imagine that if you are already a little uncomfortable with your stomach or something, you may be even more uncomfortable in the middle of the process.
Also, do a good job of body cleaning. It might be better if it comes with a little bit of fragrance
The emotional and psychological situation of both parties.
Sex is not just a physical exercise, it is also a "feeling and emotional" exercise.
From the very beginning, it requires the involvement of the senses, and emotional and sensory mobilization is necessary. That is, foreplay must be in place, so as to maximize the pleasure of both parties, and if it is just a dry routine, it is simply very bad.
The emotional feeling is in place, but also must be both sides, the separate "enthusiasm" can not be responded, naturally there is no feeling, only two people have feelings at the same time, the feeling is the same frequency, in order to make the feeling better, more pleasant.
Psychology is also very important, if there are distracting thoughts such as anxiety and worry, it will affect the sex life, the so-called physical and mental harmony.
1. Get rid of distracting thoughts and completely relax in order to live a good life, and it is naturally not good to use two minds.
Environment. Sex is very private, and most people are sensitive to the environment, and even the slightest disturbance can affect the individual.
Therefore, when having sex, you should pay great attention to the environment, be safe and private, not disturbed, and clean and comfortable.
Of course, it is not excluded that some people will seek excitement or alternative feelings, which varies from person to person, but it is the least that you should not be disturbed, otherwise you will not be interrupted.
Atmosphere. If the environment is no longer enough to provoke emotions, then it is better to spend some effort to create an atmosphere, don't look at this little change, sometimes it can play a role in igniting.
You can use flower petals, small candles, lights, incense, bedding, etc., which can remind both parties of pleasant things, but also make people have a good feeling, and there is also a romantic ingredient in it.
Express needs and feelings in a timely manner.
Maybe some people are ashamed to express, don't say the good and bad, in fact, you can go to "**" and "summarize", let each other know, can better promote the relationship between the two parties.
When there is a situation on one side, we should give tolerance and comfort, otherwise it will be worse and worse every time, and finally completely "stop cooking", when there is a problem, we will find the cause and find a solution together, and if it is really the last step, then find a doctor in time to find the crux of the problem.