The family environment plays an important role in a person's development, even more so than other environments such as the school. This is because a person's habits and thoughts are largely influenced by their parents, especially the actions of parents can have a profound impact on children.
Although research shows that children who grow up in a loving environment know how to love others better, with the increase in divorced families, there are more and more commonalities in the psychology of modern people.
It's not that children growing up in single-parent families have flaws, it's just that they don't have access to complete care that can't be completely replaced by someone else. It's like a mother and a father play two different roles and should not be confused.
Li Youbin's family has experienced a process of marriage breakdown and remarriage, which is not uncommon in TV dramas, and can be said to be a common setting in TV dramas. This once again confirms the old saying: "TV series is the best in life".
Li Youbin is well versed in the complexity of emotions, but he inadvertently hurt his own son and poured all his love into his stepson. This incredible thing surprised the audience, but Li Youbin was able to face it calmly.
He devotes most of his time to his work and naturally does not have much time to discipline his own son, which leads to many misunderstandings between them.
Li Youbin, an actor with superb acting skills, has experienced two marriages. His most well-known role is undoubtedly the tough guy image in "Bright Sword", brave and fearless, and never flinching in the face of enemies.
His performance is so deeply rooted in the hearts of the people that it even makes people mistakenly think that he is also a hot-tempered person in real life. However, in reality, he has a peaceful side, which is different from the image in the play.
He not only performed with his heart in the play, but also was very dedicated outside the play, whether he was playing the trick or the protagonist, he went all out and insisted on maintaining the character of the character. may be focused on his career and neglect his family, but he is determined to pursue his dream of acting.
When they first met in the art troupe, they were both fascinated by each other's talents. Although they were a little shy at first sight, over time, they gradually developed a deep bond at work.
The love of that era may be a little hazy, but Li Youbin's feelings for Zhang Ruiqi are firm and pure.
For him, this girl is a perfect candidate. He longs for a romantic relationship with her, and when he really steps into the world of love, he realizes that feelings are not simple enough to be summed up in one sentence.
They worked in the same place, received the support and blessings of those around them, and soon tied the knot and welcomed the arrival of family life together. Their marriage gave birth to a son, and it also brought a turnaround to Li Youbin's career.
In order to realize his dream of the film and television industry, he decided to change careers and received the support of Zhang Ruiqi, who took care of his family and children wholeheartedly, so that he could pursue his dream without any worries.
Although Li Youbin hit walls everywhere at the beginning and did not receive a good role, he did not give up and worked unremittingly.
Despite playing only those unnamed characters who are known as tricksters, he is not discouraged by this and is determined to persevere. Whenever he made money, he would send it to his family, but as the hours of work increased, the number of times he went home decreased, and the communication between the couple gradually became dull.
The longer I work in the entertainment industry, the closer the crew becomes. For the mixed tastes in love, he may no longer feel fresh, but feel that he and Zhang Ruiqi are like strangers, so he has the idea of divorce.
Before the divorce, Zhang Ruiqi actually noticed it, after all, there were only two people in the family, she and her son.
After learning the news that Li Youbin wanted a divorce, she did not interfere too much, but chose to let Li Youbin have nothing after the divorce. Li Youbin may feel indebted to this, so he agreed to this condition.
Eventually, the relationship between the two became more and more indifferent, even to the point of boredom with each other. After the divorce, Li Youbin met Shi Lanya during the filming of "Jiangshan".
During the filming process, the two got along well, exchanged scripts frequently, and often talked in private. As they get to know each other better, the fate of the two is also quietly heating up, perhaps because they have both experienced divorce, so they can have so many common topics.
Shi Lanya can deeply understand Li Youbin's mood and comfort him.
Believing in the future, they have become good friends because of this belief and often greet each other. ”
The drama "Crossing the Kanto" connects them again, and they get to know each other in depth in this play, recognize each other's strengths and weaknesses, and finally come together because of the play.
Although they are both married for the second time and both have children, their mothers are responsible for raising children. For example, Shi Lanya also has a son with him, and in order to establish an intimate relationship with his stepson, Li Youbin works hard and often takes him to the playground.
Despite his poor heart condition, he still accompanies his stepson on the thrill of the roller coaster.
In order to be able to establish a good relationship with his stepson, Li Youbin did not hesitate to meet all the requirements of his stepson, even ignoring his biological son. After half a year of hard work, they finally established a deep relationship.
And Li Youbin is not only good to his stepson, but also very concerned about Shi Lanya, and it didn't take long for the intimate relationship between the two to be ***, and they publicly announced that they were married.
The own son is deeply devastated by his father's remarriage and sharing his love with his new love, and he has difficulty understanding his father's behavior, let alone accepting this fact. As an adolescent, he couldn't hide his inner feelings, so he expressed them directly.
Li Youbin does not communicate well with his own son, but prefers to listen to his stepson's voice. There were often arguments between them, and Li Youbin thought his son's behavior was elusive.
Li Youbin always taught his stepson to let the little one, even if he moved his stepson's things. Although they were not related by blood, he felt like he was walking on thin ice by his side, and the atmosphere was at its lowest, and Li Youbin did nothing to alleviate the situation.
In the struggles of adolescence, we tend to focus only on external achievements and ignore the deep desire for fatherly love in our hearts. Li Youbin spends most of his time on his career, and Shi Lanya will also show him different roles.
As long as it is a suitable role for Li Youbin, Shi Lanya will suggest that he try it, just like "Bright Sword" is actually Shi Lanya's first look.
Li Youbin became popular because of "Bright Sword", and he expressed his gratitude to Shi Lanya. Although he has starred in many TV series since then, none of them can surpass the success of "Bright Sword". Today, their lives are very nourishing.
Li Youbin's own son and stepson have become more and more different in personality as they grow older, and their attitudes towards him are also completely different. The stepson was full of respect for him and expressed deep affection.
His own son, on the other hand, was silent about him and did not want to talk to him.
Sometimes, the conversation may be a one-sided outpouring without getting a response. Zhang Ruiqi may have been overly injured and was reluctant to reveal about Li Youbin to her son.
In the long run, the loneliest person will be their son, and the most hurt will only be him.
A broken family stems from the separation of the two. As they welcome their new lives, only one of them is still stuck in the past. They all understand that once a gap is created, it is difficult to heal, but they will not dig into the root problem.
After all, feelings are so complicated that we all have to judge. For Li Youbin, having Shi Lanya and his stepson is already his greatest happiness.
Li Youbin seems to be biased in his handling of his son, preferring the affairs of his stepson to the neglect of his own son. Whether it's a parent-teacher conference or a graduation ceremony, he always seems to choose to attend his stepson's time and leave his own son alone.
This phenomenon occurs frequently, leaving the biological son feeling neglected and excluded.
In his heart, Shi Lanya was already his wife, and he would naturally pay more attention to her. However, his biological son also needs his father's love, and he never asks his son too much why he is not married at the age of 38.
Regarding this question, Li Youbin always said that this kind of thing cannot be rushed, nor can it be urged too much.
His conversation with his biological son seems to be thoughtful, and his disregard for his ex-wife's marriage is so cold that he doesn't want to repeat it. Maybe he lacks the courage to take that step, or maybe he's not sure if he's up to the role of husband and father.
Zhang Ruiqi knows that there has always been a vacancy in his heart, after all, he has not felt his father's love since he was a child. He also doesn't have any expectations for his relationship, although Zhang Ruiqi has introduced girls to him, and even mentioned blind dates, but he has put them on hold.
She understood his feelings, so she didn't say anything more.
Although a person's life is not necessarily bad, with a partner, there is no loneliness. The two can support each other in times of difficulty and share together when they are happy.
1.Although trivial things happen in life from time to time, if you can find fun in them, it can also make life more colorful. Someone has spent their whole life trying to ** the trauma left by their childhood, and those who are indifferent to it, are precisely the source of the problem.
The word responsibility has never been a weight that a piece of paper can easily carry. 2.Although the trivial things in life are mundane, if you can find joy in them, it will also make life more meaningful.
Some people spend their lives repairing the wounds left by their childhood, and those who ignore them are the root of the problem. The word responsibility is not an understatement, but a deep commitment and obligation.
3.Although life is trivial, if you can find fun in it, it will also make life more enjoyable. Some people spend their lives on the trauma of their childhood, and those who ignore it indifferently become the source of the problem.
The word responsibility is not easily represented by a piece of paper, but a kind of commitment and obligation that goes deep into the bone marrow. 4.No matter how trivial things are, as long as you find the fun in them, you can also make life more exciting.
Some people spend their whole lives healing the trauma of childhood, and those who turn a blind eye to it are the root of the problem. The word responsibility is never just a piece of paper, but a deep responsibility and obligation.
Some people continue to fulfill their original roles even if they are formally separated. Families can change, but affection cannot be eliminated.
Some people say that Li Youbin was too involved in the pursuit of his career and neglected his family. But he may not know that he has been acting out other people's stories all the time in his life, and that the role he is playing is not his real life.
If he could share a little love with his own son, he might not be in the situation he is in now. However, there are often no ifs in life. Remember, we are all protagonists in our lives, and we need to know how to cherish the people and things around us.