Hello, I'm Yeon-yeon! A post-85s woman who loves to read and share.A few months ago, a friend's brother divorced.Follow me and share [Stories in Life + Personal Growth] with you every day
When we talked about it, I asked, "Why?"
My friend replied: It's not because of lack of money.
A friend said: Because her brother got married, the family's savings were used to buy a wedding and buy a house, and her parents were old and couldn't help much financially, so they could only do some housework to help the small family.
Her brother's monthly salary is only a few thousand yuan, which is basically only enough to cover the monthly living expenses and other expenses.
At first, it was okay, the ex-sister-in-law and the family were fine, but with the birth of two nieces, the expenses became more and more expensive, and the ex-sister-in-law gradually began to complain.
Later, the ex-sister-in-law disliked her brother's inability to make money, so she simply filed for divorce.
Maybe he couldn't do anything, maybe he was tired, his brother agreed to the divorce, and the family broke up.
When I heard this, I remembered a quote I had read before:Most of life's misfortunes are always inextricably linked to money.
In the past, I always felt how hypocritical the person who said this sentence was, how could there be so many misfortunes in this world, I couldn't live a good life, and I found so many excuses to excuse myself.
Later, when I grew up and suffered setbacks in my life, I found that I really couldn't live without money, and it would be difficult to live without money.
I always think that love, ideals, family affection, dignity, personality, etc. can transcend money, but I don't know that once I enter life, these seemingly sacred and inviolable things have long been clearly priced.
There is such a scene in "Snail House", which once made me incredible, but now I know: why Seaweed finally left Xiaobei, who loved her, and threw herself into Song Siming's arms, even if she had no name.
When Haizao borrowed 60,000 yuan from Xiaobei in order to repay the loan shark of 60,000 yuan to her sister, Xiaobei not only did not borrow money, but also openly slandered Haiping in front of Haizao, saying that she just wanted to buy a house outside her ability to satisfy her vanity.
And when Song Siming listened to the reason for borrowing money from Seaweed, he comforted Seaweed that it was not a matter of 60,000 yuan, which made him think that something big had happened, and said that he could understand the sisterhood between Seaweed and Haiping.
Xiaobei doesn't love seaweed, he even loves seaweed with his own life, and picks all the meat for seaweed to eat, no matter how expensive Häagen-Dazs is, as long as the seaweed wants to eat, Xiaobei is willing to buy it.
But Xiaobei only has 60,000 yuan, which is all his belongings, and the gap between him and Song Siming is:No money.
In the eyes of Seaweed, Song Siming is a good person who rescued her from the quagmire, but the fact is that the 60,000 yuan is a drop in the bucket for Song Siming.
Therefore, poor people can't understand why some people spend tens of thousands of dollars to order a table of dishes but only eat a few bites.
And the rich people wonder: why are there still people who have never taken a plane in this era, and there are families with an annual income of less than 30,000 yuan.
To know,Sometimes life is really not fair.
Zhang Ailing once said: I only know the benefits of money, but I don't know the disadvantages of money.
Yes, there are so many benefits to having money.
Although money is not the ultimate goal of our life, if we have money in our pockets, at least we will walk on the road, and we will be more confident and hold our heads high.
So, at an age where you can make money, work hard to make money!
I hope that the regrets in my life in the future have nothing to do with money.
If there is really an inevitable sadness coming, I hope you can have the confidence and capital to say that you will go to scatter.