The way out for the older men and women
Love is a bright flower that blooms in everyone's heart and tells a different story.
In life, love is often accompanied by regrets, especially in the trials of love. When men and women are in love, they often put each other through various tests to try to understand each other's true face.
But is this test correct?
In life, when a man visits a woman's family, he often encounters the test of his future mother-in-law.
This test may be to let the man do the housework to see if he is machismo; Or deliberately make a small cup of tea after tea and dinner, and observe his reaction to see if he will be machismo.
How will men react to these trials?
If men know that this is a test, most will act calmly and confidently.
They will confidently show their love and commitment to the woman, so that the woman can feel their sincerity and sense of responsibility. Such an experience will make a married woman appreciate and trust her husband more.
However, for women, they tend not to be as calm and frank as men.
They are more inclined to test each other's sincerity through some small tests.
For example, Lili has encountered such a situation. She meets an excellent man, but every time he proposes to her, she is always hesitant to test his feelings for her.
Until one time, he confessed to her with confidence, but she chose to be perfunctory and avoidant.
But at this moment, she regretted it for a long time.
Such trials do not bring happiness, but rather create estrangement and contradictions between them.
It wasn't until an excellent man told her in a WeChat that love needs to be sincere and doesn't need to be tested, and he has completely let go, that she suddenly realized and cried, but the high-quality man has already given up.
In love, trust and understanding are the most important things.
Therefore, I hope that every couple of lovers can trust each other and not try to test each other's sincerity through tests. Only by being sincere with each other can love be stronger.
May all lovers correctly understand the test of love and move towards a happy future.