In the world of feelings, there are often deep reasons for not being connected.
The ancients said: "Where there is a cause, there must be an effect." ”
The evolution of every relationship has its roots.
Feelings are like a winding road, which may be beautiful and picturesque at first, but as time passes, it may gradually fade into dullness.
And how long a relationship lasts depends on the emotional investment of the other person in you.
Not taking the initiative to contact is actually a reflection of a person's attitude towards you.
Love or not, you can see the real chapter in the details.
As Yishu said: "When a person doesn't love you, you are coquettish, you are jealous, you are careful, you miss is to disturb, and you are idle when you care." ”
When a person starts to be cold to you, you should understand that there is a rift in the relationship.
Love without response is like throwing a stone into the sea, and there is no news.
Any relationship, as long as one party chooses not to connect, means that he despises the relationship.
If a person no longer takes the initiative, it is probably because his heart already has someone else.
People are self-interested in reality and will only pay attention to the people they care about.
If he does not receive a response for a long time, it means that he is accompanying someone more important.
All non-connections are hidden substitutions and substitutions.
You will find that when he is not contacting you, he is busy connecting with others.
Therefore, it is necessary to have a sober understanding of reality, and not to deceive yourself and others to find excuses for the other party.
Not connecting is the most significant attitude, which means not caring and not loving.
Boredom is a common emotion in relationships.
Some people, perhaps not good at expressing themselves directly, do not say it explicitly when they are tired of a relationship, but choose to gradually distance themselves in a way that is not in touch.
If life is only as first seen, what is the autumn wind and sad fan. ”
People's emotions can change, and when a person's attitude towards you becomes negative and cold, you should be clearly aware that he is tired of it.
However, in the adult world, everyone is keenly aware of what the other person really thinks.
That kind of perfunctory and indifferent is difficult to hide.
When a person chooses not to connect, he is actually implying that he wants to end the relationship.
When you are aware of this change, you should be prepared to deal with it.
There is a feast in the world, and it is difficult for those who have changed their hearts to recover.
Now that the other party has decided to leave, there is no need to force it.
To sum up, all estrangement has a cause.
If a person doesn't contact you, either he's ready to leave, or he's no longer afraid of losing you.
When you feel the change in the other person, you don't have to dwell on it anymore.
In this world, there are some things that cannot be kept, such as feelings that have deteriorated.
It's like a passing time, once it's gone, it can't be regained.
Feelings that have deteriorated are like food that has expired, and can only be discarded.
For those who have already left, there is no need to regret it, just let it go in style.
On the road of life, there will always be people who come and go, and we must learn to face it calmly.
So, when a person no longer contacts you, recognize the reality and don't get obsessed.
Not everyone deserves your nostalgia, those who don't love you, let them be a thing of the past.