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Hello everyone, I'm Wanxing. If you have very little experience in love, you may think that ambiguity is love, and when you are immersed in the atmosphere of love, and even have expectations, your heart is empty, and disappointment follows. Because, ambiguity is not equal to love, nor is it equal to pursuit.
In this era of fast love, ambiguity seems to have become a new emotional normal. The man maintains a close relationship with you, so that you can't guess his mind and can't figure out his details.
This vague state is like a marathon with no end, and it makes people tired. So, why do men always play with you in an affair, but they don't want to confirm the relationship? Why is it more abrasive than a woman?
One, he treats you like a spare tire
Some men already have a crush on someone, but they still have to maintain an ambiguous relationship with other women.
This kind of man often treats you as a spare tire, just looking for some comfort and freshness in you. They enjoy your dedication and love, but they never think to give you any promises.
As the book says: "The fate of the spare tire is destined to be tragic." "In this kind of relationship, you can't control your feelings and you can't predict where the future will go. So, when you meet such a man, it's better to withdraw as soon as possible!
Second, he is afraid of taking responsibility
Establishing a relationship means assuming certain responsibilities and obligations.
Some men, afraid that they will not be able to perform this role, choose to maintain an ambiguous relationship with you. They enjoy the sweetness of love, but they are unwilling to take the responsibility of love.
This kind of man often lacks a sense of responsibility and responsibility. They would rather wander in ambiguity than take that step bravely. When you meet such a man, you need to think seriously about whether it is worth continuing to invest in the relationship.
3. He's testing your bottom line
Some men, the reason why they maintain an ambiguous relationship with you is to test your bottom line. They want to know your attitude and expectations of the relationship in order to take better control of you.
This kind of man is often scheming and good at playing with feelings. They will constantly test you in the ambiguous situation, watching your reaction and performance.
If you are easily controlled by them, then the relationship is not destined to end well. So, in the face of such a man, you need to keep a clear head and stick to your bottom line.
Fourth, he is not sure of his feelings
Sometimes, the reason why a man is in an ambiguous relationship with you is because he himself is not sure about his feelings. He may have a crush on you, but not to the point of deep love. He needs to get to know you better and confirm his feelings in the ambiguity.
This kind of man tends to be more cautious and sensible. They don't get caught up in a relationship easily, and they don't hurt someone else's feelings at will. If you also have a crush on him, then you might as well give him some time to sort out his feelings.
So, how to deal with this ambiguous relationship?
First and foremost, you need to be independent and confident. Don't rely too much on a man's feelings and commitments, and learn to take responsibility and obligations on your own.
Second, you need to stick to your bottom line and principles. Don't be easily controlled and swayed by men, learn to protect your feelings and dignity.
Finally, you need to keep a clear head and a sane mind. Don't get carried away by ambiguity, learn to see the true face of men and the motives behind them.
In these ambiguous times, we need to learn to protect our feelings and dignity. Don't be fooled by men's sweet words, and don't be bothered by ambiguous relationships.
We need to learn to see the truth and make wise choices. Only in this way can we find our true happiness and home.
Conclusion:
Ambiguous, it is a war without gunpowder. In this war, we need to keep a clear head and a firm conviction. Don't be fooled by a man's ambiguity, and don't be swayed by your own feelings. We must learn to take control of our own destiny and find happiness that truly belongs to us.
Remember, love is not a game, nor is it a destination for a spare tire. True love requires the dedication and commitment of both parties, as well as responsibility and responsibility. Therefore, in the face of ambiguous men, we need to make a brave choice and find our true home and happiness.