In Cao Xueqin's "Dream of Red Mansions", a masterpiece that has been passed down through the ages, there are many characters, different personalities, and intricate plots.
However, if we look closely, we will find that in this huge group of characters, there are two seemingly unbeatable characters, Grandma Liu and Jia Yun, who actually made the same choice when solving the problem: they both successfully found the key person in the problem and successfully achieved their goals.
Grandma Liu, a septuagenarian woman from the countryside, comes from a poor family, but she has a tenacious and unyielding heart.
When her life was in trouble and her family was unable to sustain, she did not choose to sit idly by, but decided to go to Jia Mansion for help.
She knew that with her identity and status, it was almost impossible to directly find the actual person in charge of Rongguo Mansion.
So, she chose to save the country and first found Mrs. Wang's companion Zhou Rui's family.
Through the skillful use of agitation, she successfully attracted the sympathy and attention of Zhou Rui's family, and then was received by Wang Xifeng.
With the help of Wang Xifeng, she got twenty taels of silver, which was undoubtedly a relief for her and saved the life of her family.
And Jia Yun, this young son-in-law, although he was born in Jiafu, his family is not wealthy.
His father died young, his mother was sick, and he himself was just a teenager.
However, in the face of life's difficulties, he did not choose to escape, but took the initiative to find a solution to the problem.
When it came time to renovate the Grand View Garden, he saw an opportunity and decided to pursue an errand.
Unlike Grandma Liu, he initially chose to go directly to Jia Lian. However, Jia Lian didn't care about anything, which put him in a difficult situation.
But he didn't give up, but changed his mind and borrowed money to buy incense powder to beg Wang Xifeng.
This time, he succeeded.
He received an errand and received two hundred taels of silver.
This is undoubtedly an important turning point for him, giving him new hope in life.
These two seemingly incomprehensible characters made the same choice when it came to solving the problem: they both found the key person in the problem and successfully completed their goal.
Although they are the characters in the **, they also provide us with some samples worth thinking about, so that we can understand the correct way to be a person and do things.
First of all, whether it is Grandma Liu or Jia Yun, they have shown perseverance.
Faced with life's difficulties, they did not choose to give up, but took the initiative to find solutions to problems.
This spirit is something we should learn from when facing difficulties.
There will always be various problems and challenges in life, and only with the spirit of perseverance can we keep trying, exploring, and finally finding a solution to the problem.
Secondly, they all showed keen observation and judgment.
Grandma Liu knew that it was impossible to directly find the actual person in charge of Rongguo Mansion, so she chose to save the country; And Jia Yun also adjusted her strategy in time after finding out that looking for Jia Lian was fruitless.
This keen sense of observation and judgment is something we should have when solving problems.
Only by accurately judging the essence and crux of the problem can we find the correct way to solve the problem.
In the end, they all showed the wisdom to use interpersonal relationships well.
Grandma Liu met Wang Xifeng through the introduction of Zhou Rui's family; And Jia Yun established contact with Wang Xifeng by giving gifts.
This wisdom of being good at using interpersonal relationships is an important ability for us to survive and thrive in society.
Interpersonal relationships are one of the important ways for us to obtain resources and solve problems, and only by making good use of interpersonal relationships can we better achieve our goals.
To sum up, Grandma Liu and Jia Yun, two characters who seem to be unbeatable, have coincidentally achieved "the insight of the world is knowledge, and the practice of human feelings is the article".
They all show the same wisdom and ability in "Dream of Red Mansions", and achieve their goals with perseverance, keen observation and judgment, and the wisdom of making good use of interpersonal relationships.
These philosophies continue to guide our lives today.
We should learn from their spirit and wisdom, have the courage to explore, be good at judgment, and be good at using resources when facing problems, so as to better solve problems and achieve our goals.
At the same time, we should also reflect on whether we have these qualities and abilities in the face of problems, and if not, how to cultivate and improve.
Only in this way can we live better in this complex and ever-changing society.
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