In the past few days, I have brushed up on several**, that is, the children are exhausted from taking care of their elderly parents, and I don't know when such days will end......
While I haven't experienced caring for a sick elderly person for a long time, hopefully something like this will never happen. But I also understand the breakdown and helplessness of the children who have been serving the paralyzed elderly for a long time.
In Chinese culture, longevity has always been seen as a blessing, symbolizing family prosperity and happiness. But with the development of modern society, it seems that longevity no longer means more than happiness for some families. For the average family, the longevity of the elderly can become a disaster for their children. This sentence sounds a bit contradictory, but it is a harsh reality.
Once the elderly in ordinary families live an unhealthy life, it will increase the financial pressure on their children.
In the average family, the health status of the elderly is crucial to the impact of the family's economy. Once an elderly person has long-term health problems, the financial pressure on the family often increases. Due to the relatively high cost of medical care and living care for the elderly, this can place a huge burden on the family's finances.
If an elderly person is sick or needs long-term care, family members often have more responsibilities. They may need to spend more time and energy caring for the elderly, or even need to take time off work or give up work to spend time with the elderly. In this case, the family's economic income may be affected, resulting in an increased burden on the family.
Especially for those middle-aged and elderly people who still have children to take care of, their children may not have fully married and their children also need help. However, it is difficult to go out to earn money when you need to take care of your parents, which will cause a lot of financial pressure on the family.
Once the elderly in ordinary families live an unhealthy life, it will cause great mental pressure on their children.
In addition, the longevity of the elderly may also cause mental stress to their children. As they age, the physical and mental state of the elderly may decline, and they may become in need of more care and attention.
However, due to work and life reasons, children may not be able to be by the side of the elderly at all times, which can make them feel guilty and uneasy. In addition, the longevity of the elderly may also cause mental stress to their children. As they age, the physical and mental state of the elderly may decline, and they may become in need of more care and attention. However, due to work and life reasons, children may not be able to be by the side of the elderly at all times, which can make them feel guilty and uneasy.
Children may feel guilty for not being able to meet the needs of the elderly. They may worry about whether their work and life will affect the care of the elderly, or even whether the elderly will be able to receive enough attention and care. This worry can have a negative impact on your child's psyche, leaving them feeling stressed and anxious.
Discussion: What do you think about this? February**Dynamic incentive plan