25-year-old Liang Jiaojiao is from Canada, her parents are white**blonde-haired, but she and her brother are yellow**-black-haired.
The difference in her appearance once caused her to question, and her parents chose to be honest. Thank you for reading.
Jiaojiao has always thought that she and her brother are the biological flesh and blood of her parents, but by chance, she found that she and her brother were not their biological parents.
My brother is from South Korea, while she is from Changsha, China. For Jiaojiao, this news is undoubtedly a huge shock. She often began to imagine what kind of people her real parents were, and maybe they were somewhere waiting for her return.
Since 2012, Jiaojiao has been thinking seriously about this issue and decided to go to China as an exchange student. On December 11, 2014, she traveled from Hong Kong, China, to Changsha, Hunan Province.
However, the trip did not go smoothly and involved four families. So, what is the relationship between them and Jiaojiao? Who are Jiaojiao's biological parents?
First of all, Jiaojiao's adoptive parents are Mr. and Mrs. Baumière from Canada, who are very supportive of their adopted daughter's family search plan. Jiaojiao originally planned to go directly to the university in Changsha as an exchange student, but this method did not work, so she was eventually exchanged to the City University of Hong Kong.
Although Jiaojiao's road to finding her relatives was difficult, she never gave up. Her story teaches us that no matter how difficult life is, we should hold on to our dreams and face life's difficulties and challenges bravely.
During the exchange period, Jiaojiao met a senior named Zhou Enze. Ze used to attend a middle school in Changsha and maintained close contact with his former teachers.
Knowing that Jiaojiao planned to return to China to find her relatives this time, he decided to help her. After contacting the middle school teacher, the teacher arranged for a female classmate to receive them. So on December 11, 2014, Jiaojiao, Zhou Enze and another exchange student from Canada lived in the female classmate's home.
Zhou Yongguang, the uncle of the female classmate, volunteered to help Jiaojiao find her relatives. Before leaving for China, Jiaojiao's adoptive parents, Mr. and Mrs. Baumière, submitted to her a "Orphan Situation Form".
According to **, Jiaojiao was born on October 30, 1989, and then was sent to the Changsha No. 1 Welfare Institute by the Tongtai Street Police Station on October 13 of the following year.
A few months later, she was adopted to Canada.
The group first went to the welfare home, and then to the police station. However, 24 years have passed, and many of the old people are no longer alive, so they have not found any clues.
Just when everyone was in a dilemma where there was nothing to do, Jiaojiao suddenly remembered that there was still a document saved in her computer. It seemed to be a handwritten document, densely written on the entire paper, but no one could read the Chinese on it.
In order to prevent the paper from being lost or damaged, Jiaojiao scans it into an electronic document and saves it on her computer. After careful inspection, everyone found that this is a record book of "Liang Jiaojiao's Living Habits", and the recorder described Jiaojiao's living habits in detail in all aspects.
The final signature is a Chinese relative: Tang Yizhong's family. The detailed observations and deep emotions in this record book all show that Tang Yizhong's family has a close relationship with Jiaojiao.
Could they be Jiaojiao's biological parents?
After careful consideration, Jiaojiao rejected the previous idea. She remembers her adoptive parents telling her that she had been in foster care with a Chinese family for two months before she was brought to Canada.
From this point of view, Tang Yizhong and his wife should be her first adoptive parents. Although it is not biological, it is also an important clue for Zhou Yongguang, and perhaps they can provide a clue from 24 years ago.
Through the Changsha Automobile Electric Factory Technician School on the note, Zhou Yongguang found the school's retirement department, and thus found the *** and address of Tang Yizhong. On December 13, Jiaojiao was about to meet her adoptive parents in China, and she was both excited and nervous.
Although she has only been fostered for two months, she is very grateful to Tang Yizhong and his wife for their care and love for her, which can be seen from the living habits record book. However, 24 years have passed, will her rash visit seem abrupt?
Will Tang Yizhong and his wife still remember her?
Jiaojiao was so worried that she couldn't help it, but as soon as she entered the door, Tang Yizhong's wife hugged her tightly. When the two old men saw their former adopted daughter, they were so excited that they were incoherent.
Seeing the record book, Tang Yizhong, who was in his 70s, suddenly fell into memory. "It was October '90, and the welfare home brought her here and fostered her at our house for two months.
At the end of the year, Canada's adoptive parents took her away. When parting, Tang Yizhong personally wrote down Jiaojiao's various living habits. Although they have only been together for just two months, everyone in the Tang family has deep feelings for Jiaojiao.
At that time, Tang Yizhong's mother was still there, and she treated this foster little girl like her own granddaughter. After Jiaojiao went to Canada, the family still cherished her ** when she was a child.
Whenever I miss her, I take it out and look at it, but I can't imagine what she will look like when she grows up. I'm really happy to see her now. ”
Tang Yizhong's wife clung to her adopted daughter Jiaojiao and looked at her intently, as if she wanted to imprint her appearance deeply in her heart. Seeing that Jiaojiao's hair was a little messy, she naturally picked up a comb to comb her hair, and discussed what dishes to cook in the evening and what new clothes to buy tomorrow.
And Jiaojiao turned her back to her adoptive mother, and she was already in tears. Through translation, she deeply experienced the love of the Tang family for her. Neither time nor space can erase the deep affection that has been established in just two months.
However, it is a pity that Tang Yizhong and his wife do not know who Jiaojiao's biological parents are. At first, it was the welfare institute that picked Jiaojiao up, and sent her back two months later. During this time, the couple never heard anything about Jiaojiao's biological parents.
On the one hand, there is the joy of reuniting with the adoptive parents, and on the other hand, there is the loss of missing clues. So, where should Jiaojiao's road to find her relatives go?
Liang Jiaojiao, the daughter just adopted by Tang Yizhong and his wife, was originally part of their happy family, but after just eleven months, she was sent to a welfare home. However, just when the family was immersed in joy, a pass ** broke their tranquility.
This call was from a lady named Hua. When she heard Jiaojiao's news, she said excitedly: "That's my daughter, my daughter is back!" ”
Hearing this news, the reporter and Zhou Yongguang and others were also very happy, and eagerly asked her if she was Liang Jiaojiao's biological mother. However, Hua's answer shocked everyone.
She is not Liang Jiaojiao's biological mother, but her adoptive mother, who has been raising her for almost a year. This news makes this family search trip even more confusing, and it also makes people feel sorry for Liang Jiaojiao's fate.
The family is now facing a complex question: who should Liang Jiaojiao belong to? Her biological mother and adoptive mother are fighting for her, and her adoptive father, Tang Yizhong and his wife, are also trying their best to protect her rights and interests.
How will this battle for love develop? We can only wait for time to tell.
This middle-aged woman named **Hua, is there some kind of connection between her and Jiaojiao? Obviously, Jiaojiao was unaware of this, as this person did not exist in her memory.
However, Jiaojiao did not give up any clues, so she came to ** Hua's house on the afternoon of the 14th. At this time, the ** Hua family was also very pleasantly surprised, they firmly believed that Jiaojiao was the daughter they raised more than 20 years ago.
I saw it on TV at noon, and her ** when she was a child was exactly the same as my daughter's, and even the name was similar, so I definitely wouldn't be mistaken. *Hua has been looking for this adopted daughter for more than 20 years, and suddenly saw her family search information on TV, and she was stunned at that moment.
She excitedly ran downstairs and shouted, "My sister is back!" The neighbors thought she was crazy, but her husband guessed something from this sentence. The couple called ** with trembling hands, hoping to meet Jiaojiao.
When **Hua and Jiaojiao met for the first time, he hugged her with tears streaming down his face. However, Jiaojiao was overwhelmed by this sudden change, and she was not sure that the person in front of her was also her adoptive mother.
Under the puzzled eyes of everyone, **Hua immediately took them home to check the evidence. The baby's used package, the cotton clothes he weared, and a note marked his birthday on the second day of the tenth lunar month in 1989.
* Hua said that there were still two dollars in the package. Although this lunar birthday coincides with Jiaojiao's birthday, no one can prove that the package and cotton clothes were also used by her.
However, **Hua then took out a **album, which was full of their family playing around**, and the girl under the age of one on ** was very similar to Jiaojiao.
Seeing these **, Jiaojiao eliminated the last trace of doubt in her heart. She recognized it at a glance, and the little girl on the ** was herself. So, how did all this happen?
One afternoon in mid-November 1989, I found an abandoned baby girl near Chongnan Erlipai in Kobayashi. She was only swaddled and lying on the ground, looking very helpless.
Feeling pity, I took her home. At that time, I also had a son who had just turned 10 months old, and although he had just been weaned, I believed that I had enough breast milk to feed another child.
At the same time, my husband and the elderly in the family also liked the little baby girl very much, so Jiaojiao successfully settled in the family. Her original name was Ye Jiao, and she was a staff member of the welfare home, and later changed her name to Liang Jiaojiao.
In the eleven months that she was adopted, Jiaojiao received meticulous care from her family. She is even more favored by her parents than her brother and is a veritable jewel in the palm of the family.
However, due to various reasons, the ** Hua couple did not go through the adoption procedures, and they are not eligible for adoption. So, in October 1990, Jiaojiao was sent to a welfare home by the police station.
Although Jiaojiao left home, we still love her deeply and hope that she can be better cared for and loved in the orphanage.
* There is always an indelible pain in the hearts of the Hua couple, that is, the loss of their granddaughter Jiaojiao. After Jiaojiao was sent to the welfare home, ** Hua and his wife visited every day, hoping to take a sneak peek.
However, they didn't know that Jiaojiao had been sent to Tang Yizhong's home, and then went to Canada. The loss of Jiaojiao is an eternal pain in the hearts of the Chinese couple, and the grandmother can't even eat well because of this pain, and she has been thinking about this granddaughter who is not a relative before she dies.
Although Jiaojiao no longer remembers this memory, the ** Hua couple is her real first adoptive parents. They have spent more than 20 years searching for Jiaojiao's tracks in newspapers, television stations and friends, like looking for a needle in the ocean.
However, Jiaojiao was far away in Canada at that time, and she didn't know that her adoptive parents had put so much effort into finding her. However, fortunately, Jiaojiao has grown up and knows that she is going back to China to find her family.
Otherwise, Tang Yizhong and his wife and ** Hua couple may never see their adopted daughter.
After learning about Jiaojiao's wish to find her biological parents, both families are doing their best to help her, and the two adoptive mothers are also doing their best to show their cooking skills, so that Jiaojiao can feel the warmth of home in Changsha.
Over the next few days, I will be reuniting with both families separately, and while I feel pressured, I understand that I need to give back their love. Due to cultural differences, Jiaojiao is temporarily unable to adapt to this warm treatment, but she is working hard to learn Chinese and enjoy the harmony between her two adoptive parents.
The third family with a mismatched DNA, and the fourth family with a low-key relationship. Time flies, and on December 16, Jiaojiao is ready to return to Hong Kong on the 18th for academic reasons.
So far, she has not heard from her biological parents, but she is not disappointed. Maybe she found two adoptive parents, or maybe finding relatives wasn't her goal in life.
If fate doesn't arrange for us to meet, life still needs to go on. However, on the evening of the 16th, a sudden visit by a lady named Zhang Hua and her uncle changed everything.
Jiaojiao is enjoying hot pot and various home-cooked side dishes at **Hua's house, which is a special dinner. Zhang Hua's family had already seen this story of crossing the ocean to find relatives on the evening of the 15th, and Zhang Hua's uncle was so excited that he couldn't speak, he said: "This is the child I sent away back then!" ”
The same age, the same birthday and similar swaddling cotton clothes made Zhang Hua couldn't help but shed tears. 25 years ago, at the age of 20, she had children before marriage, and in the face of a baby girl waiting to be fed, her family persuaded her to give her up.
So, on a cold winter night, Zhang Hua's uncle left the child at the door of a workers' compound near Xiaolinzichong. He hopes that the child can be adopted by the lesbian who cannot have children, so that he can not only save the child, but also solve his own problems.
Zhang Hua's family suddenly felt a huge regret, she kept wiping her tears, and her uncle and aunt anxiously wanted to get their child back. However, the child disappeared, and the people in the staff compound said that they had not seen the child, and they had not even heard the cry.
They searched the police station and the welfare home, but there was no news of the child. This incident has become an eternal pain in Zhang Hua's heart, even if she later got married and had children, she couldn't forget the missing eldest daughter.
So when she saw Jiaojiao on TV on the evening of December 15, she and her uncle were 70% sure that it was her daughter. After a day of struggle, Zhang Hua decided to confess to her current husband.
If Jiaojiao is really her daughter, it is impossible for her not to care about her. The husband was very surprised when he first heard the news, but he did not stop his wife from confessing his marriage.
So, on the evening of the 16th, Zhang Hua and his uncle came to **Hua's house.
The uncle pushed the door in, Zhang Hua trembled and cried in the corridor, and the old scars were revealed. The uncle's memories are basically the same as the situation described by **Hua, and his handwriting is also very similar to the handwriting on the birthday note.
Zhang Hua hid behind his uncle's back and quietly observed Jiaojiao, but Jiaojiao seemed very calm and did not communicate with Zhang Hua during the whole process. If the person in front of her was really her biological mother, she didn't know what to say for a while.
At the time of parting, the two parties agreed to go for a paternity test on the afternoon of December 17. If not, she said, she would return to Hong Kong as scheduled and leave a DNA sample for later matching.
If it was, she would stay for a few more days. On December 18, the paternity test results were released, and Jiaojiao and Zhang Hua had no blood relationship.
Jiaojiao was indifferent to the results of finding relatives, but Zhang Hua never accepted it. They went on a week-long trip to find their relatives, but it fell short. Tang Yizhong and his wife and ** Hua reluctantly bid farewell to their adopted daughter.
Although they have a lot to say, due to the language barrier, they can only use ** Hua's broken English "good health" as a farewell word in the end. Jiaojiao appears relaxed and happy on the return trip, and she will keep in touch with the two adoptive parents regardless of whether she finds her biological parents or not.
Tang Yizhong wanted Jiaojiao to learn Chinese and saw Changsha as her home in China. On December 25, 2014, a week after Jiaojiao returned to Hong Kong, a woman from Miluo, Yueyang, quietly came to the forensic center.
She wanted to match Jiaojiao's DNA sample, and the final test showed that they were paternity.
Ms. Tang, the person in charge of the appraisal center, was very surprised by the appraisal results, although Jiaojiao entrusted her to conduct the appraisal before leaving, she did not expect the results to come out so soon.
She was very happy for them at the time, but out of an abundance of caution, she suggested that Jiaojiao's father also come for a paternity test, but they refused and only provided a sample of her mother.
The final result showed that there was a parent-child relationship between mother and daughter. And Jiaojiao, who was far away in Hong Kong, also got the news. Her biological parents are well-known tycoons in Yueyang, with very superior economic conditions, all kinds of real estate and shops, and they are also very generous.
Jiaojiao is the second eldest in the family, and has an older sister and a younger sister. My sister met Jiaojiao for the first time and took her home to recognize her relatives. Tang Yizhong and his wife, **Hua and Zhou Yongguang and others all learned the news, they were very happy for Jiaojiao, and at the same time respected the wishes of Jiaojiao and her family, and did not overdo it.
In March 2015, the reporter learned the results of the family search. They tried to get in touch with Jiaojiao and her biological parents, but were unsuccessful. Zhou Yongguang, one of the clients, conveyed a message: "Now, Jiaojiao has found her biological parents, and they hope to live a peaceful life.
Therefore, I hope you will not bother them again. "Only her biological parents may know what happened that winter 25 years ago and why Jiaojiao was on the side of the road.
However, Jiaojiao is a very strong and cheerful girl, and she is willing to accept the truth of everything. Not only did she receive the love of her adoptive parents in Canada, but she also found two adoptive parents in China.
These relatives who are not related by blood have given her the most selfless love. During this short journey to find her relatives, Jiaojiao came into contact with four families, which was beyond her ability to bear, causing her to lose her discernment and judgment in confusion.
In the process of searching for relatives, Jiaojiao has been exploring a question: what is the bond that binds people together? Is it the same blood, similar faces, or a shared language and nationality?
Or are they shared moments and memories? The two Caucasian and two yellow people in Canada, as well as the Tang and Huang families in China, all let Jiaojiao experience the warmth and sense of belonging of home.
Until the end of the search for relatives, she could not give a definite answer, perhaps the blood and family relationship is inseparable, and the years spent together are also unforgettable, and these all fates will connect us closely.
I hope Jiaojiao can return to China often, where there are relatives who love her and miss her, and there is her hometown.