The author poses for a photo on the Three Gorges Dam.
Shortly after I arrived at the command post in Inner Mongolia, I received a letter and was very surprised. I haven't told outsiders about the detailed address of the army here, who will write to me? Open the letter and take a lookAt the end of the letter, there is a bright red lip print
It was the girl Fang who asked me to take a walk by the river the day before she left the Three Gorges.
Fang said in the letter that the former secretary of my squadron in the Three Gorges asked for my address, and he couldn't suppress his longing for me, so he couldn't help but write to me.
The weather in the Three Gorges has turned cooler, and it must be even colder in Inner MongoliaShe wanted to knit me a sweater, and preferably a scarf of a different colorAsk me what color yarn I like.
She told me that her good friend and friend Lan had found a boyfriend, who was also a soldier and a fire police officer next door to our unit, and was going to take home to meet her parents during the Spring Festival.
She also said that in fact, she is not a little girl who doesn't understand anything in my eyes, she has turned 23 years old this year, and most of her age in her hometown are married and have children.
We have just come to Inner Mongolia, and it is estimated that the project will take several years. She wanted to quit her job in Yichang and come to Hohhot, Inner Mongolia to look for a job, so that she could be closer to me and see me often. She asked for my opinion in the letter......
Finally she saidAfter writing the letter, the night was already deep, and the more I missed it, I couldn't help myself, so I put a deep lip print on my name……Please forgive her for her presumptuous and impulsiveness.
Inner Mongolia is not what people imagine, the sky is blue, the wilderness is vast, and the wind blows the grass and sees the cattle and sheep. It seems that there are savannahs everywhere.
In fact, most of the area here is semi-desertThere are often sandstorms, and the yellow sand is long, covering the sky and the sun.
When I first came to Inner Mongolia, like when I first arrived in the Three Gorges, the living conditions were poor, the weather was dry, and the environment was harsh. I live in a simple barracks, and every day the cold wind is biting, and the sand and rocks are flying.
In Inner Mongolia in October, it was snow-capped, more than ten degrees below zero. When the washing water is poured on the outside of the house, it freezes instantly. Born in the south, I was a little uncomfortable at first.
Here, there is almost no entertainment life. At that time, there were no smartphones, computers could not access the Internet, and TVs were also self-pulling antennas, and there were not many TV stations, so life was very boring.
It stands to reason that in such natural conditions and living environment,Received a letter from a distant girl, affectionate, affectionate, and affectionateIt should be something very exciting and enjoyable.
But I couldn't be happier.
Of course, after reading the letter, I was really excited and moved. How virtuous and how honorable I am to have a girl who cares about me like this and cares about my ......
If I don't have the slightest emotion, it is certainly not true.
I am also a young man in my twenties, with strong blood, and I also yearn for affection, the romance of the moon before the flowers, and the life of flying with wings.
Which girl doesn't have spring, which boy doesn't love it! Love is the most beautiful word in the world, warm as jade, warm as a spring breeze.
Of course, I want to have someone to stand at dusk with me, someone to ask me about porridge and warmth, and someone to spend a long warm time with me, and live affectionately in the world of thin love.
In this life, I hope there are years to look back on, and to be affectionate together!
Calm down and ask yourself. Was Fang the girl I fell in love with at first sight?
Fang is a good girl in all aspects, and according to current standards, she will be a good wife and mother, suitable for marriage.
But back then, I was still young, and I had nothing to do. How young you are at that time, how idealized you will be about love.
At that time, I only believed in feelings, and I believed in love at first sight. As soon as the golden wind and jade dew meet, they will win countless in the world. What I need is a relationship that is pleasing to both of you.
I don't believe that feelings can also be cultivated; I don't know, marriage is more about getting along.
Fang is not the girl I was attracted to back then. I can't delay her, let alone hurt her. While rejection is a harm in itself, it can be even more harmful if you don't refuse.
In Inner Mongolia in November, everything is depressed, and the lights are dim at night, and it is bitterly cold. I wandered alone in the courtyard of the camp, wondering if I should write back to Fang. How do I reply?
Imagining Fang's expression of eagerly looking forward to my reply, and being sad and disappointed when she received the letter, I couldn't bear it, and my heart was tormented.
But long pain is better than short pain.
Back in the room where the fire was warm, I wrote back to Fang. Carefully consider the words and sentences, not only to express the meaning clearly, but also not to hurt people's hearts too much.
I vaguely remember that I said in my letter at that time that Fang had a very stable job in Yichang, and that she should not impulsively resign and come to Inner Mongolia for my sake, and that our engineering unit would rush to the next construction site at any time.
In the army, she was not allowed to wear casual sweaters, let alone tie scarves, so I asked her not to work hard to knit sweaters and ......scarves for me
I should have changed jobs and returned to my hometown, and my family also found a blind date for me, so I asked her to forget about me.
In the end, I said very old-fashioned and sincerely, I wish her to find a happy ...... that truly belongs to her
In this life, we have all liked others and been liked by others; I have hurt others and have been hurt by others.
It doesn't matter if you have a heart or not. In the bustling past, I experience the story of loving and being loved.
In the long river of time, we have learned to be rational and lost romance.
Whether you love or be loved, please be kind. The previous story is not deliberately remembered, and there is no need to intentionally forget.
Years later, we can look back. Whether it was once vigorous or a long stream, it is a warm memory and a romantic pursuit.
In the process of growth, please learn to cherish every possession.