There are more and more older leftover women in the city, and you can meet them casually.
Just as the law does not blame the public, the phenomenon of parents urging marriage is becoming less and less, and forcing marriage is a strange thing.
Parents who are leftover girls like to see their daughters at home, but of course not.
But they also seem to be relieved, and when they meet the concern of well-wishers, most of them answer like this: This is something that can not be encountered.
The actual situation is that their concepts and ideas have almost no effect on their daughter, and they don't listen to them at all, so they no longer interfere and go with the flow.
There are two aspects to the relationship between the two generations.
1. A very intimate and extremely strange second generation.
Most of the older leftover women are post-80s, most of them are only children, they have been loved since they were children, and they have grown up and have become an important part of society, but they still seem to be in a rebellious period at home, and they are reluctant to move forward.
Of course, I am very close to my parents, and the family is happy, and I often see them going out together on holidays. However, there are two taboo topics between them, not to talk about her career plan, and not to talk about her personal problems.
The reason why we don't talk about it is because we don't understand each otherYes, not only ununderstood, but also unfamiliar.
The education received by the second generation is different: most of the leftover girls have received a university education, while most of their parents have graduated from junior high school and high school, and they are engaged in occupations in fields that are not familiar to their parents;
The living habits of the second generation are different, and the understanding of life is also different: leftover girls can stay at home with relish and can not go out of the room for a day, and their parents probe their brains with sad faces, and lock a person in the room, don't turn it outParents regard fishy shrimp and crab as a delicacy in the world, and the leftover girls have no appetite when they see it, and they order takeout as if they are given away for free.
2. The second generation has adhered to the bottom line of preferring shortage to excess.
The reason why the leftover women are left is that they insist on preferring lack to abuse, and what they like overwhelms everything.
Leftover girls are not necessarily all excellent elements, but most leftover girls have been proud of their parents in the process of growing up, even if they are no longer prominent today, they are still glorious in the eyes of their parents.
The reason why parents are like watching from the sidelines and not participating in it is because of their daughter's rejection, and second, they are afraid of helping and doing bad things with good intentions. The trustee introduced him in a hurry, which delayed his daughter's life.
It's the New Year, and the parents of the leftover girls are just like the parents of the world, rejoicing. However, when they calm down, they will have a blank look.
If, understand their confusion as they want to hold their grandchildren, it is too narrow-minded, they are not so selfish, they are thinking about the New Year, their daughter is a year older, and if this continues, the daughter will have the risk of going through her life alone, thinking of this, they feel the vastness ......of life