In the realm of parents raising and educating their children, the Heavenly Way operates with the greatest amount of love, so that the miracle of love in the world happens every day!
Nevertheless, it is our finitude that as deficient parents, and as well as each individual, in all the acts of love, cannot but live in the world with "conditional love"!
Even so, it is important to know that "unconditional love" can be possessed and practiced. Therefore, it is necessary to explain the characteristics of this love so that parents can achieve something with the goal of "unconditional love"!
True love is "unconditional love"—love for children without any purpose, making love love, making love an end, that is what it means.
Therefore, it can be seen that love is difficult to achieve, because everyone is a limited lover, so it is "conditional love" as the usual trip, so that every family has pain and trouble, because of the lack of love!
Nevertheless, love as a parent is the realm in which the Heavenly Dao operates with the greatest love; Therefore, it is the mission of parents to grow up and practice this love!
Here, how do you treat your children with "unconditional love"?
First, be tolerant and tolerant of the mistakes your children make as they grow up.
Parents need to teach their problems with love as a premise; It is as if a mother takes her child's hand and explains in a slightly solemn tone what is wrong and why it is a wrong thing, and after the child knows the truth, she praises him in a joyful tone as a child who understands things and makes parents feel gratified!
This kind of teaching of love makes children feel safe and accepted, because parents solve problems in a positive and positive way, so that children are also willing to act on a positive and positive level, and it is the ability of parents to practice with "unconditional love"!
Second, wait for the change of your children with patience and goodness.
For the problems that have been pointed out, even if the child has understood and is willing to change, it is only because he is a young child that he cannot forget or cannot continue to correct them; As parents, we need to be patient – after explaining to our children the principles we already know, we still believe with a good heart that they will be able to do it, so that our children will have a greater willingness to correct themselves, and this is the way parents continue to solve problems in a positive and positive way.
Finally, treat your children's changes with praise and appreciation.
Although parents think that every problem of their children is a small problem, it is only a big problem for their children. Therefore, parents often stand in their own perspective and think about problems with self-centeredness, resulting in intolerance and tantrums towards them, because parents cannot empathize with their children, which is a bigger problem!
As parents, it is the dependence and dependence of their children, so they should take care of their hearts, so that they can live in the firm love of their parents, and do not have self-doubt and injury to their parents' love, which is the meaning of parents treating their children with "unconditional love"!
Still, parents are inadequate and don't always do this; Therefore, there is no need for self-denial, but continuous improvement, which is a parenting career that grows with children!
Here, children rely on their parents as the most reliable mountain of their lives in the world, so if this dependence collapses, there will be nowhere for them to live, which is why parents must treat their children with love!
Even so, there are cases where children break their parents, but it is still the responsibility of parents to walk with them with the greatest patience in any case.
In this case, if parents have the responsibility of education in the past, it is still necessary for parents to change first, rather than blindly asking their children to change, which is the right act of parents!
In the process of self-change, parents do not need to supervise the effect of this for their children at the same time, but move forward with no purpose, which is the right thing to do!
Children are aware of changes in their parents, because children are sensitive to changes in their parents, just as they are parents. Therefore, the loving and humble behavior of parents makes children feel loved and valued by their parents, and also becomes a force for children to change!
Parents respond positively and positively to their children's progress with appreciation, so that their children feel proud and joyful, continue to change themselves, and are able to move forward positively in other areas as well. This is the formation of a positive cycle between parents and children, and the best state of parenting!
For this reason, may every parent be able to treat their children with "unconditional love", which is a family recognized and generously recognized by God!