My colleague Ah Qiang is a native of Shaanxi, just turned 48 years old this year, usually healthy, very optimistic and humorous, and my colleague for more than 10 years, we often greet a few words, joke, colleagues get along very well.
Ah Qiang had a wife divorced in his hometown and gave birth to a son, after working in Dongguan, because of less gathering and more separation, he and his wife met on a blind date, but now they don't see each other once a year, and their feelings are even weaker.
However, after all, there is a son, which is Ah Qiang's bond, so Ah Qiang confessed to let Fa Xiao in his hometown take care of it, but he didn't expect Fa Xiao to have feelings for his wife, Ah Qiang divorced, and the child was awarded to his wife.
Ah Qiang and Xiaomei are in the same position, and they were married before and went to kindergarten with a daughter, and the two worked together and gradually developed feelings, and the two fell in love with each other, and they got married in less than a year.
Ah Qiang and Xiaomei commute to work together, pick up the children, go home to cook, the two of them originally had some savings, and after getting married, they saved some, and in 2013, they bought a second-hand house of more than 70 square meters in Dongguan.
After buying a house, I have to repay the mortgage every month, and Ah Qiang's salary card was not given to Xiaomei before, and he would send a few hundred yuan back to his son every month.
Later, Xiaomei gave Cuong a death order, either hand over the card or leave.
Ah Qiang** can let his wife be wronged, of course, he obediently pays the card, from then on, Ah Qiang's daily activity fund is 20 yuan, Xiaomei is also very careful, and regularly gives 20 yuan in cash every day. The rest of the money is kept by Xiaomei.
The 20 yuan in cash is not spent by Ah Qiang alone, but the money for buying vegetables every day, meat and vegetables Xiaomei buys by herself, and vegetarian vegetables are just bought by Ah Qiang.
Because breakfast and lunch are eaten in the company, only dinner has to be cooked at home, so the 20 yuan is enough to spend.
Six years passed quickly, and the children grew up, but during this period, Ah Qiang never returned to his hometown, and every year for the Chinese New Year, he was either in Dongguan or went to Xiaomeiniang's house.
I heard from a colleague that one year Cuong insisted on going back, but he still didn't have enough money to go back to his hometown.
Cuong is a very optimistic person, and he has wine and drunkenness today, he doesn't take all of this to heart, as long as the family is together, it is the happiest thing.
In 2019, it was unfortunate to encounter the mask incident, the company's orders plummeted, and the corresponding income also decreased, Ah Qiang is nearly 45 years old, Ah Qiang is very dissatisfied with such an income, it just so happens that his friend's company recruits, as long as he buys a car, he can run the business, and he will get more work.
Ah Qiang was moved, and his salary could be at least 20,000 yuan a month, which was almost twice as much as here, so everyone was excited, so he hurriedly quit his job and went to work in a friend's company.
At the beginning, Ah Qiang would often pick up Xiaomei at the door from work, wearing a suit and leather shoes, mainly to show off his new car, which is really good, 140,000 landing, 22 Honda style 240turbo cvt.
Later, I heard that Ah Qiang had only been working with a friend for three months and had stopped working, and his salary had not been settled, mainly because he had the title of vice president.
Ah Qiang couldn't find a suitable job either, so he could only run Didi to deliver takeaways, and after doing it for a while, he had no advantage in running Didi in a gas truck, so he didn't make any money.
Another year has passed, and Xiaomei's attitude towards Ah Qiang at this time has also undergone some subtle changes, Ah Qiang has not made any money in the past two years, let alone handed over to Xiaomei, and sometimes the money for buying a car cannot be repaid, so he can only ask Xiaomei for it.
What makes Ah Qiang even more tricky is that his son in his hometown is getting married, and the woman proposes a bride price of at least 100,000 yuan.
Ah Qiang proposed to Xiaomei that he either sell the car and make money for his son to get married, because the car is Xiaomei's name, of course Xiaomei disagrees, after all, the car that has been bought for less than two years is not cost-effective now.
The two quarreled a few times. In the end, he didn't give a penny to his son's marriage, and his son's marriage was yellow because the bride price was not enough.
Xiaomei cried so much that she filed for divorce, the child was originally Xiaomei, and Xiaomei wanted a house and a car, so she wanted Ah Qiang to leave the house, the reason was that Ah Qiang was easy to support alone, and the future life of orphans and widows must be guaranteed.
Ah Qiang knew that Xiaomei was a person who did what he said, and he had been accustomed to her strength for so many years, and he thought that it would be a way to not have to pay wages in this way, so Ah Qiang agreed to such a divorce.
Cuong said to Xiaomei: Because I haven't found a job yet, I will move out when I find a job. The two agreed.
Later, Cuong found a job in the assembly line of a factory, and although the salary was only 5,000 yuan a month, it was a good job for the 47-year-old.
Cuong's entire net worth is a suitcase, and the wheels are still broken. Just left the house like that.
Because I just got a job at the end of the year, it is not yet time to pay my salary. There is nowhere to go for the Chinese New Year.
Cuong spent his own time in the dormitory, drinking wine and eating instant noodles. Looking back on the road traveled over the years, it may be sad from it.
My heart ached.
So he wanted to go to the hospital to have a look, but he only had 100 yuan in his hand, and the hospital asked for a deposit of 1,000 yuan, which was delayed for another day, but Ah Qiang was already unable to do it on the way to the hospital.
On the morning of the fifth day of the Lunar New Year, he died of a heart attack.
As soon as our colleagues got to work, they heard this sudden bad news, and they couldn't believe it, it is said that the aftermath is also from Cuong's hometown, and his son doesn't even want his father's ashes, so let the funeral home deal with it itself.
Ah Qiang's life is really declining! Colleagues said that the main reason is that his career and family have brought him a big blow in recent years, coupled with the drinking during the Chinese New Year, he did not seek medical attention in time due to the symptoms of heart attack.
If Ah Qiang had adhered to his principles and could have fought for some of his own rights and interests in the divorce, it would not have been so miserable;
If Ah Qiang had agreed on the three chapters of the law when he got married for the second time, he would have taken more care of his parents and children at home, and he would not have even had nowhere to go for his ashes;
If Ah Qiang hadn't resigned so impulsively, maybe he would still be a happy family of three now;
If Ah Qiang had money in his hands at the beginning, he would not have delayed treatment.
When people reach middle age, there are too many last resorts, but the family relationship that is dissolved in blood and water must be maintained, and the ability and ability to make money must be maintained.
Everyone said, is Ah Qiang's ending embarrassing and painful, and taught us a lesson?
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