In China, the high school entrance examination is a boulder in the hearts of many families, representing a watershed in the way of children's education. However, with the continuous adjustment of policies, the importance of the high school entrance examination seems to go beyond the college entrance examination, making parents more anxious about it. They worry about their children's future educational paths, but behind this anxiety there are often more important challenges.
Students entering junior high school are in the midst of the torrent of adolescence, which is a challenging and changing stage. The rebellious psychology of adolescence is often a headache for parents, who worry that their children will fall into early love, and these worries exacerbate their anxiety. At this time, parents tend to interfere more in their children's lives and try to protect them by taking control of everything. However, this excessive interference can often have the opposite effect, leading to greater tension between parents and children.
Another factor that has exacerbated parental anxiety is the proliferation of modern technology, especially the prevalence of encrypted chat. Middle school students frequently use various encrypted chat apps and a large number of emojis, which makes many parents confused and helpless. Parents are eager to understand their children's lives but find themselves unable to understand how they communicate, which further deepens the gap between the two parties.
In this context, parents often take the form of checking their children's mobile phones and chat history to understand their lives. However, this practice often triggers disgust and resistance from children, who will resort to various ways to "prevent parents" and try to protect their privacy. This mutual distrust and antagonism further exacerbates the conflict between parents and children.
In the face of this problem, we should reflect and find a solution. First, we need to realize that excessive anxiety and interference will not solve the problem, but may exacerbate the conflict. Parents need to give their children more space and respect, and try to build a relationship of mutual understanding and respect with them. At the same time, parents should also accept the development of modern technology and strive to understand their children's lifestyle, rather than simply rejecting and blaming.
Most importantly, we need to establish open, honest and respectful lines of communication between parents and children. Only by listening to and understanding each other can we break down the barriers between each other and build a healthy and harmonious family relationship. Although parents are worried that their children will go astray, they should also be given appropriate freedom and space so that they can grow up independently.
Respect and understanding are essential in this process. Only on the basis of mutual respect can parents and children truly build a good relationship, face life's challenges together, and grow and progress together. May we all be able to understand and respect each other with a more open and inclusive mind, and work together to create a warm and harmonious family environment.
Article summary. 1.Parents and students need to understand and respect each other, otherwise it will lead to an awkward relationship.
2 Parents should give their children appropriate freedom and space even though they are worried that they will go astray.
We call on parents to be more understanding and respectful of their personal space when dealing with their children, and also remind students to understand their parents' intentions and maintain a good communication relationship.