After work, I deeply realized that I must listen to my elders, and there is a big difference between a teacher and a teacher!
From the beginning of my work, I knew that teachers and ** are very different.
There is a good saying: "Marriage is like the rebirth of a daughter". So, when choosing a career or industry, you must think carefully and make an informed choice. Career affects not only women's achievements at work, but also their future"Happiness index", so it should be chosen carefully.
Women do better than men", this is a compliment to women, but they have to spend a lot of effort and a lot of cost. Although"Equality between men and women"It has become a contemporary trend, but in society, the tolerance of women is still very low, and discrimination against women still exists in many industries, and it will take more effort to gain a foothold in this industry.
In terms of education, **, etc., girls often take into account the work they are engaged in when they engage in their own work.
It's the same agency, and it's the same"Iron rice bowl"identity, the same welfare, the same stability, but in reality, the lives of these two people are very different. "Nowadays, for many college graduates, "stability" is the ideal they aspire to, and becoming a public official is also seen as synonymous with "stability". However, it is not an easy task to do. If you want to get a secure job, then the career field becomes a one"Railways"so they don't have to worry about it anymore. Nursing staff and teachers are the two most popular professions in an institution, but there is a huge difference between the two, which only those who have experienced it know firsthand.
Xiao Jiang is the ** of a tertiary hospital. Her day-to-day work is busy, almost overloaded, often overtime, and on call 24 hours a day. Especially in the recent period, their living environment has become even worse. Staying up late for a long time and not having a fixed lifestyle has always kept his body in a not very good condition.
Although they put a lot of effort into it, they are not treated with kindness from their patients. In the eyes of many patients, caregivers are:"Assistants", not only to help the physician with his work, but also to make rounds of the ward, but also to the patient"Serve tea and pour water"。The slightest negligence will cause them to be blamed or complained. Also, they have to remember that the patient should not be stimulated in any way.
Now Xiao Jiang has more than 6,000 yuan a month, and this job is very tiring, but the income is not bad. However, it is almost 30, she is still not married, and her family keeps urging her to get married, which makes her very anxious. The family also looked for some suitable candidates for her, but when her parents knew that she was a little **, they repeatedly hit a wall, and finally ended up in a failure, which made her gradually have the idea of giving up.
And Xiao Jiang's middle school classmate Xiao Meng is the most jealous one. Xiao Meng followed the advice of his parents and chose a teaching career, although he was busy with work, he still had more time on vacation, and he was relaxed. The monthly salary is only more than 4,000 yuan, which is not very high, but at least it can make him live a good life.
At work, Xiao Jiang has won the respect of his classmates and parents. Not only that, but she also met a like-minded boyfriend, and the two got married, which can be described as a win-win situation for career and love. Now, they are making new preparations for building a family of three. Xiao Jiang sighed and said:"Don't underestimate the difference between teachers and **, this should be felt from the work, you have to listen to the opinions of some seniors, otherwise, you will be very miserable. "
Getting into school is a very prudent choice and the most important thing in one's career. This is related to a person's future development and a person's quality of life, and we cannot but be cautious. Due to the lack of social practice, young college students often make decisions that are inconsistent with themselves due to hearsay or blindly following trends in the process of choosing a career.
The authors believe that parents should be listened to when filling out the volunteers. Parents have more experience and a clearer understanding of the society and the labor market. They will carefully consider the future development and work situation of the trainees, and provide counseling. For the opinions of parents, students must not ignore or resist them because of whims, that can only be"Lose both"。
If you are not satisfied with the profession introduced by your parents, you can have an in-depth communication with your parents and express your views and hobbies. Through mutual communication, they have an understanding of the future development direction of their respective majors, and finally choose a major that is not only in their own interests but also in line with the long-term development of their majors. Parents should listen to their children more and do not order them, because their profession is learned by themselves, and their work is their own business, so their feelings and desires are important.
As we all know, "outside the man, inside the woman" is a deeply rooted concept that is not so easy to change. Indeed, in terms of career, in order for women to achieve success in their careers, they must solve physical problems such as marriage and childbirth, which will affect their career development. It is very difficult for women to make more sacrifices for the sake of their families and children, and to achieve a win-win situation between work and family, so they must be cautious when choosing a career.
Engaging in intense and heavy workload work not only makes it difficult to take care of family members, but also tends to cause family conflicts due to the tension of work, which is harmful to women. So, you have to make your choice carefully and study carefully before making your decision.
Girls should have a long-term vision when choosing a career, not just for a while, but from the overall situation. In addition to paying attention to personal development prospects, it is also necessary to take into account other aspects such as the level of tension at work, and make plans for your future life and work.
Author's note] Both words refer to a good job, a good salary, and a stable job. And after work, the difference in knowledge and career level is even greater due to the learning. When making career decisions, you should consider carefully and make rational choices based on your own personality and future plans.
Topic: Do you think girls prefer to be ** or teachers?
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