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Interactions between people of the opposite sex (between men and women who are not in marriage) should have a minimum sense of boundaries!

Once the sense of boundaries is lost, the form of interaction between men and women will make the relationship delicate, and at a certain point, the relationship between each other will be "clean"!

In fact, there is often a delicate balance in the interaction between people of the opposite sex.

This balance can swing due to changes in certain details, which in turn can lead to the relationship being transgressed or ambiguous. Here are 6 detailed signals that may indicate a change in the relationship between people of the opposite sex.

Don't pretend! Whether there is ambiguity between the opposite sex and crosses the line, 6 details are obvious

When men and women start to connect frequently and privately outside of the group, whether it's through chat tools or in private, it usually means they want to share more private moments.

This kind of private communication can easily make the relationship between the two parties ambiguous.

In particular, there is no doubt when the person in front of you rejects and rejects this form of communication

The relationship between men and women, who are in frequent private contact, has never been so clean as I thought!

Otherwise, who do you think is such an important person that a person would rather ignore the feelings of the person in front of him than maintain the continuity of the relationship?

There is a difference between men and women, this is the "truth" that everyone understands.

When adult men and women are not guaranteed to be single, physical contact gradually becomes intentional, and the relationship between them can no longer be described as ordinary colleagues, classmates or friends!

Facts have proved that only the special emotional connection between the two people will make the two people get close and contact uncontrollably.

Such an act is a kind of probing for the further development of the relationship. Each other, through physical contact, to acquiesce and continue to develop the affirmative agreement!

Eyes are the window of the soul, and eye contact between men and women is an important way to convey emotions to each other.

If a man or woman often makes eye contact for longer periods of time when conversing, or is able to quickly catch each other's eyes in a crowd, it often suggests a deeper emotional investment in each other.

Eyes are a direct manifestation of one person's attention to another.

And the person who is being paid attention to not only does not avoid it, but responds to the attention with an attitude of enjoyment, which shows that:

I know what you want, and it fits my mind!

The distance between each other has been narrowed silently!

In the process of interacting with the opposite sex, when one partner tells his or her own story, the other party shows a high level of attention and listening, and even gives comfort and support ...... when the other party is emotionally fluctuating

This situation is a manifestation of deep concern, an improper interaction that goes beyond the scope of ordinary friendship.

Healthy relationships often start with listening.

People who do not have the ability to listen will never be able to understand the actual needs of the other person and do not know how to express themselves positively.

Between non-married men and women, once such a "tacit understanding" is reached, the relationship has already deteriorated!

The management of any kind of relationship will make the relationship stronger because of the gifts and surprises in the process of getting along!

It's just that between two men and women who can't meet each other's single conditions, this kind of "strong relationship" of giving gifts and creating surprises is a deliberate operation.

In essence, giving gifts and creating surprises between non-marital men and women is a kind of behavioral suggestion and psychological detection.

When creating surprises and giving gifts to each other forms a kind of same frequency operation, then the relationship between each other will heat up sharply, and they will no longer be "closer" without concealment.

Between people of the opposite sex, even if it is a real relationship, there will be specific steps to enter each other's private space!

And between men and women in ordinary relationships, one has no taboos and the other does not exclude each other's private space, which is enough to illustrate:

Each other, they have long regarded each other as their own!

Acquiescing to each other's private space is a kind of narrowing the distance between hearts and hints of trust and self-disclosure from the bottom of the heart.

The in-depth understanding of each other's space is the creation of opportunities under the action of hormones and the eagerness to contact alone!

Between the opposite sex, such a mutual relationship, what is the relationship, the answer has long surfaced!

When dealing with relationships of the opposite sex, maintaining a clear sense of boundaries is essential to avoid unnecessary misunderstandings.

In addition, it is also necessary to understand that respecting the feelings of others and oneself and adjusting behaviors in a timely manner can obtain an evenly matched emotional happiness experience because you know how to cherish and be worthy of action!

In the face of the relationship between the opposite sex, as long as each other does not meet the conditions of being single, you must clarify your identity!

Maintain a certain level of self-reflection and check whether your behavior is appropriate and whether there are potential ambiguities or transgressions.

Adults, through self-restraint and mutual respect for the real marriage and love partners, should maintain clear and healthy boundaries between opposite-sex interactions, and do not do things that harm others or themselves.

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