In life, we often encounter all kinds of right and wrong questions. Right and wrong are often accompanied by heated arguments and heated debates, and people often argue endlessly in order to prove their points. However, are there times when we can consider not defending as a relief?
Some of the negative effects that can come with debates and arguments. Imagine when you have a heated argument with a friend, colleague, or family member, and both parties may get emotional, argue, and even generate some negative emotions. Can we remain calm and rational in this situation? Many times, we tend to get stuck in an emotional state and can't look at things objectively. In this way, not only will an effective solution not be obtained, but it can also lead to the breakdown of the relationship.
Focusing too much on issues of right and wrong makes it easy to complain and criticize others. We often center our own opinions, believing that only we are right and everyone else is wrong. However, everyone has their own unique perspectives and experiences, and no one can fully represent the truth. "No matter how smart a person is, he cannot use his own experience to prove others wrong".
So, can we consider not defending ourselves as a relief? The answer is yes. Taking non-argument as a relief does not mean that we have to give up our views or not express our opinions. Rather, it is a manifestation of maintaining a calm and rational attitude, respecting the views of others. "Instead of arguing to prove that you're right, look for ways to solve problems. "When we stop chasing "victory" or "authority" and focus on the solution of the problem, we are able to achieve better results.
By taking non-argument as a relief, we can also gain better relationships. When we stop dwelling too much on issues of right and wrong, we are more tolerant and understanding of other people's perspectives. This tolerance and understanding fosters harmonious interpersonal relationships and builds positive patterns of interaction. "Tolerance is not a big deal, it allows us to understand each other and find common interests in conflict".
Finally, I would like to share a little story to illustrate the importance of not defending as relief. One day, two friends have a heated argument and they refuse to budge to each other. Seeing this, a wise old man came up to them and said, "Why do you hurt each other like this? Life is too short, so why not let go of disputes and enjoy life together? Hearing this, the two friends suddenly realized, got rid of the dispute, and restored their friendship.
Liberating right and wrong from non-argument means that we are to face problems with tolerance and rationality, and no longer seek personal victory or authority. By not arguing, we can get better solutions, maintain good relationships, and enjoy the beauty of life. "A knowledgeable person will not argue easily, because he understands how he appreciates others".
I hope that everyone will realize the importance of not defending themselves as liberation and put it into practice. Whether it is at home, at work or in social situations, let us learn to respect other people's opinions, find solutions to problems, and make our lives more harmonious and beautiful.
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