There is a saying that you can never wake up a person who is pretending to be asleep.
There is no truth in this sentence, and some people, no matter how hard you try to persuade them, they will not listen.
You have a point, but what does it matter to me.
They have not experienced pain, they have no sense of crisis.
Human nature is like this, as long as there is a bite to eat, there will be no rebellion.
As long as your current life is passable, you don't want to change it.
They don't have great ambitions, especially when it comes to making money, they don't have a strong desire to make money, at best they just pay lip service.
Pain is the most powerful energy that makes people want and desire for good, urging people to keep thinking and acting.
Almost all enlightened people are conceived from suffering.
The heavens will descend on the people, and they must first suffer their minds, strain their muscles and bones, starve their bodies and skins, empty their bodies, and act chaotically.
I really lived for twenty or thirty years, and in all my experiences, I understood the truth!
Only when you have gone through the trials of pain and come out of it will you grow;
Only after experiencing the painful tempering and coming out of it can there be a big picture;
Only by going through the painful trials and coming out of it can we withstand the wind and waves.
True wisdom can only be achieved when we have gone through the trials of pain and come out of it.
WhileA life is incomplete without being shaped by pain.
Someone asked, I have lived a comfortable life since I was a child, the only daughter in the family, what do I want, I have hardly been wronged, where does the pain come from.
Truth be told, this type of person may face more stress in life.
Most of them got married in their twenties, worked in the system, had stable jobs, and worked at two o'clock every day.
If you want to say that you can do this for the rest of your life, that's fine.
But is it possible? Basically impossible.
When I started to bring the baby,At the age of 35, life will probably collapse.
Because the only capital, the posture, has begun to be worthless.
Parents can't rely on it, and my husband begins to dislike it.
When you don't have the ability to export value to the outside world, how can you rely on yourself?
This value output is reflected in two aspects.
One isThe ability to use one's own skills, which can be exported to the outside world.
The other isEmotional value。They have been asking for their parents' love since they were young, and they don't know how to export at all.
So, it is impossible to be without pain.
When the pain comes later, it is heavier to bear and the price to pay is greater.
If you start to get anxious, there is an urge to get out.
When the energy accumulates enough, at this time, a noble person clicks, and it is easy to develop in the direction of the big heroine.