Today I want to talk about the question of whether girls like you or not. The main reason for talking about this topic is that I have received a lot of private messages recently, some of which say:Teacher, I especially like a girl, I don't know if I want to confess；Some friends said:I feel that the girl doesn't like herself, but when she chats with other girls, this girl will still be jealous, and I don't know what she means。Actually, these all point to a problem:How can we tell if a girl likes us? Only when you are sure of the girl's mind can you get along with her better. I'd like to talk about three small things. First, about the chat, first of all, I want to interpret it from a small detail of the chat. If the girl often replies to your messages in the chat, she probably likes you. Some friends may be worried, what if the girl responds to everyone in seconds, it doesn't matter. You just need to pay attention to one thing, when the girl doesn't have a second backDid she explain to you what she was doing?。If she says she's busy or something, it means that you are important to her and that she cares a lot about your feelings. If you still haven't waited for this opportunity, it's okay, I'll teach you a little routine. Girls will give some special notes to people who are more important to them. You find a time to send her a long list of garbled characters and then don't say anything. After a while, the girl will definitely ask you what you just posted, and then you have to pretend to be more puzzled than her and say I don't know, I didn't send anything, and then ask her to send you a screenshot to see, at this time you can see the notes she saved for you, and by the way, find out your position in her heart. 
Second, I believe that friends must have heard such a sentence about dating, "women are the ones who please themselves".You can observe whether the girl pays more attention to dressing up when she sees you. Of course, it is not excluded that many girls are very pretty, and this is true for everyone, you can remember this sentence: "Girls like to wear skirts, but you say you like flower skirts." She may wear a skirt for herself, but if she wears a floral dress, it must be for you. "What do you meanWhen getting along with a girl, you can inadvertently make a small suggestion and look back to see if the girl has taken your advice. And the more difficult it is to implement, the more revealing it is. For example, if you tell a girl, "Eh, I think it would look better if you cut your hair short", the girl who likes you will definitely take your words to heart, and the next time we meet, there is a high probability that she will cut her hair short. But, but friends,Your proposal can't be unrealistic, otherwise you say to the girl, "I think you look better with a bald head", and the girl beats you when you turn around, don't say that I taught it. 
Three, what if she doesn't like you
Finally, if your chat and date with a girl are not going well, the girl's feedback has not been very goodIn fact, at this time, it is meaningless for you to judge whether she has a good impression of you, there is a high probability that there is no good feeling. So what you should do now is to create a common experience, or to communicate a common feelingCultivate good feelings first。How to do it, for example, if you ask a girl for dinner, the girl has been playing with her mobile phone and is not very willing to pay attention to you, according to this trend, this date is likely to be cold. If you really can't find a topic, you can go to the bathroom and send me a private message asking for help, buy the order first, and when you return to your seat, ask the girl when she finishes eating, "Have you ever eaten the Overlord meal", and then take her hand and leave the restaurant. Believe me, girls will never forget this meal for the rest of their lives. This little routine uses the principle of "collusion" in psychology, which refers to doing a "bad thing" with a girl, and only the two of you know about it will work best. 
Friend, in fact, falling in love is really not as difficult as you think. Maintain normal interactions with the opposite sex, and when we meet interested girls, the first thing we have to do isThrough a funny self-introduction, a humorous chat starter, "make her as interested in us as we are with her".When the two of you are more familiar with each other, you can try to date her, using a little routine like the one we mentioned earlier to further bring the relationship between the two people closer。If you are an old acquaintance with the girl you like, and the girl's perception of "you are friends" has been fixed, you can still become her boyfriend by creating a sense of contrast and chatting about some more intimate topics.