"The poor raise sons and rich daughters", this sentence profoundly expresses a common phenomenon in a family. But are all wealthy people able to deal with this problem properly? Let's take the coat brother Zhu Zhiwen's family as an example to see how they cope.
Zhu Zhiwen was not well-known before 2011, but with the popularity of the song "Rolling Yangtze River East Passing Water", he became a famous singer, and his life has been turned upside down because of commercial performances. However, does his success mean that he is also doing a good job of educating his children?
Zhu Zhiwen is rich, and the contacts around him have naturally upgraded. But does he realize that he should value the growth of his children? His son is married, while his daughter Zhu Xuemei is not married. Zhu Xuemei's appearance, image and literacy are not ideal, although Brother Dayi once used a sky-high dowry of "two houses and a car, plus 5 million cash", he still couldn't find a suitable in-law. Does this reflect that Brother Dayi has some problems in educating his daughter?
Raising a rich daughter does not only mean spending money to make her beautiful, but more importantly, improving her connotation and literacy. However, Zhu Xuemei's image and lifestyle are disappointing. Her obesity and raunchy appearance, as well as her lack of willingness to improve herself, seem to reflect Brother Dayi's negligence in educating his daughter.
Brother Dayi has a lot of property, but has he ever thought about giving his children the ability to earn money to support his family? If children are solely dependent on the property, how will they face social changes in the future? If Brother Dayi is not aware of this problem, then what will be the fate of his children in the future?
It is better to teach them to fish than to teach them to fish, and this ancient adage tells us that parents should teach their children the ability to live independently, rather than relying solely on family property. Brother Dayi obviously has some negligence in this regard, and he should reflect on his parenting style to give his children a better environment to grow up. After all, the future of a family depends not only on wealth, but also on the abilities and literacy of family members.
Finally, let's think about how a wealthy family can ensure that their children can grow up healthy and have the ability to live independently.