No matter what age a woman is, there is a little girl living in her heart, yearning for a beautiful love, hoping that the other half is romantic and single-minded, preferably like the first love, inseparable from each other, every day I want to stick to each other, watch the sunrise together in the morning, say good night to each other at night, it is best to have a love hug every day, this is what it looks like to really fall in love.
Everyone thinks that romance is exclusive to young people, but they don't want to, today's middle-aged and elderly people are also full of yearning for love, even if they are over the age of six, there is a girl's heart, hoping to find their own Prince Charming. Just like the 61-year-old Aunt Qin, since she was single, she has always wanted to find her true love, and the blind date requirements are very simple, nothing more than hoping that the other party will give her a hug every day, but she was ridiculed by the blind date: "You are too fat, I can't hold it." ”
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My surname is Qin, although I am 61 years old this year, but I am still innocent in my heart, if it weren't for this, I would not have married my ex-husband in the first place, and ended up in a second marriage.
My ex-husband and I are in free love, he is just a poor boy, but he knows how to be poetic and picturesque, he has no money to buy me expensive gifts on Valentine's Day, but he will pick a handful of nameless flowers for me on the side of the road and give it to me, I was still young at that time, it was easy to be captured by such a little trick, and soon talked about marriage with him.
My family background is not bad, my parents have a house and a car in the city, and I am the only daughter, naturally pampered me, I have been living a safe and smooth life, I have not experienced the whipping of society, and it is precisely because of this that I have developed a simple-minded character, so when my parents did not agree with me marrying my ex-husband, I disobeyed my parents' wishes and insisted on marrying that man.
I still remember my mother's admonition to me, she said, "You, you, you are so confused, can love be eaten?" You are now blinded and think that he is good everywhere, but without passion and romance, what else is he? ”
Facts have proved that my parents' vision is not wrong, my ex-husband has no sense of responsibility at all except for his flamboyant tongue, he only brags, always saying that he will make a fortune one day, and then let me live a good life, but the reality is that I don't even have a decent job, my parents entrusted someone to arrange the easiest job for him, and he couldn't last half a year, so he was fired by the company, the reason is that he is so ambitious and lazy.
Although I am a compilation job, but the monthly salary is only enough for daily life, since I gave birth to a child, life has been more tight, my ex-husband has been evading responsibility, not only do not help take care of the child, but also do not go out to work, all day long with a group of fox friends and dog friends playing mahjong, if it weren't for my mother to help me often regardless of the previous suspicions, I really don't know what to do.
In those years, in order to provide for my children's education, my mother's family helped me a lot financially, but my ex-husband's hometown was rural, so he couldn't give me financial help at all. If he is just poor, the most hateful thing is that he has changed a lot from before marriage, maybe it was a storm before marriage, but after marriage is a piece of chicken feathers, such a gap before and after, I really can't stand it, so when my son graduated from college, I decided to file for divorce.
Naturally, my ex-husband didn't want to divorce me, because the house he lived in was mine, and my son was not close to him, and he had nothing to do if he divorced me, but I had made up my mind, what I wanted was true love, not just a life of will, and in the end, my ex-husband left the house and I was single again.
When I just got divorced, I still enjoyed the fun of being single, without the lazy man around me, I either went out with my girlfriend every day to do beauty, or went to square dance, life was too nourishing, I thought about living alone like this in the future, but after a long time, I felt too lonely, watching others in pairs, I began to envy again, I felt that there was still a lover around me, and life was delicious.
I've been in love a few times before and after, but they were all full of enthusiasm at the beginning, just three months, each other lost that enthusiasm, and returned to the triviality of firewood, rice, oil and salt, I don't like this kind of bland feelings, I want vigorous, romantic and fanatical love, so once the relationship enters the dull period, I will break up, which is why I have been single for so many years.
But I'm still full of yearning for love, the most beautiful love in my heart is that the other party can tolerate my little willfulness, like my coquettish character, although I'm old, but I sell cuteness He must praise me; When I was watching TV, the other party wanted to put my arms around me; When eating, the other party wants to serve me vegetables; After eating, the other party wants to wipe my mouth for me. A good morning kiss every day, a good night at night, a loving hug, and a love hug every day, so that romantic feelings are what I really need.
In order to find the most suitable object, I also went to the matchmaker's house, and did not hesitate to spend more than 3,000 registration fees, just to find a soul-compatible partner, I told the staff of the matchmaker hall my requirements, so that they must find someone according to my needs, if there is a little unqualified, I will not agree, I will never let my marriage happen.
I have a cheerful personality, often bribe them with milk tea desserts, come and go, the staff in the matchmaker hall and I are very familiar, they think I am kind and simple, but also a particularly sensible woman, as soon as I meet a suitable object, will notify me as soon as possible.
I saw four or five before and after, and I couldn't look down on any of them, until the staff showed me a person's **, and my heart that had been silent for many years finally jumped wildly.
This man's surname is Wang, although he has no house in the urban area and his pension is only more than 2,000 yuan, but he understands romance and is very good at pleasing women, and the other party is very handsome and knows how to dress up.
It is said that everyone has a love for beauty, I don't deny that I like handsome guys, so, I just watched Lao Wang's **, and I was a little moved, if the other party really knows how to enjoy life as much as I do, and is romantic and single-minded about feelings, then I don't care about his family background, it's a big deal that after being together, he moved to my house to live, and I can also pay all the living expenses, he just needs to coax me to be happy, surprise me every day, and provide me with emotional value.
The matchmaker also told Lao Wang my requirements, and showed Lao Wang my **, we both felt that we could meet each other to get to know each other, so we made an appointment to meet at the Western restaurant on the weekend. For this date, I went to the mall to buy a whole set of new clothes, which cost me 3,000 yuan, just to give Lao Wang a good first impression.
On the same day, when I saw Lao Wang, I couldn't help but blush, I haven't seen such a man who meets my standards for a long time, he is so handsome, and so temperamental, just standing there, it is a beautiful landscape, Lao Wang's left hand is still holding a rose, isn't this the romantic man I like?
I approached him shyly and wanted to take the rose, but Lao Wang ducked to the side and asked, "Who are you?" Why are you snatching the roses in my hand? ”
I guess he didn't recognize me, after all, this is the first time we've met, and we've only seen each other, so I twisted and said, "Brother Wang, I'm Xiao Qin, the matchmaker showed you my **." ”
Lao Wang looked me up and down, frowned, and said, "What are you kidding?" The ** shown to me by the matchmaker is obviously a slender temperament woman, you are at least 180 pounds, and you are not the same person at all! ”
Hearing this, I was not happy in my heart, why am I 180 pounds, I am only 160 pounds, where am I fat, obviously called plump, how can I talk about a woman's figure like this, this is too ungentlemanly, I said impatiently: "Who can't open a beautiful face now?" You're making too much of a fuss, too. ”
Because of this episode, my good impression of Lao Wang has been reduced by half, and they don't look at each other very well. At this time, the staff of the matchmaker also came, and she smiled and beckoned us to sit down first, and then ordered.
When I eat, I used to scald the dishes and chopsticks with boiling water first, and then wiped them with paper. But Lao Wang saw it in his eyes, but he thought I was hypocritical, and muttered: "There are so many things." ”
Hearing this, I was unhappy, but because of the presence of the staff of the matchmaker's house, I didn't shake my face directly, out of politeness, I didn't talk back, thinking that there was something to wait until I finished eating, I didn't want to make it difficult for the staff.
At this time, the staff of the matchmaker hall spoke: "Then I'll say it directly, you two are of the same age, you can get to know each other, Aunt Qin's requirements are very simple, you don't need the other party to have much money, as long as you are good to her, nothing is a problem; Uncle Wang's requirement is that there is a hostess at home, who can do housework, and he can eat hot meals three times a day, which is fine. ”
Listening to Lao Wang's request, I snorted coldly: "What kind of society is it now, women still have to do housework, men and women are equal, and men and women should share housework, which is fair." ”
Lao Wang frowned and replied: "What qualifications do you have to say about me?" You still want to kiss and hug and lift high every day, with your physique, I can't hold it! ”
Lao Wang's words made me angry, I thought that Lao Wang was his ideal type, but I didn't expect to meet but disappointed me, he is not a gentleman at all, he is not worthy of being my object at all, a meal has not been finished, I have been angry, said a word is not suitable, and left with my bag.
The more I thought about it afterwards, the more angry I became, I felt that my request was not too much, I had money and a house, and I just wanted to find a partner with eyes full of me, what's wrong with that? Why did he hit me so much, Lao Wang is really rude!
I also want to ask all netizens, is my request really excessive? I'm not the kind of woman who is greedy for vanity, just asking for a boyfriend who is willing to be clingy to me, am I really too demanding?