In modern society, young people's decisions about whether to have children are influenced by a variety of factors.
In addition to common reasons such as low wages, inability to support, lack of time, lack of energy, etc., there are also some unexpected factors that are also taken into account. One of them is the appearance of your partner.
Some women say they have high expectations for their partner's appearance and may choose not to have children if they feel that their significant other is not handsome enough. This may seem like a trivial reason, but it reveals an important practical factor in fertility decisions.
Xu Lu once made it clear that she would not have children, but her husband still doted on her very much. Surprisingly, Xu Lu's daughter is now 20 years old.
Xu Lu, a woman known as a "crazy woman", makes people wonder, is her love for her husband real? Or are you attracted to his "money ability"?
We don't know the truth behind this, and we can only find out by diving deeper into their stories.
Xu Lu's most well-known role is her performance in a certain drama, which is impressive. However, at the same time that she became popular because of this drama, she also met her husband Jiang Kaiyang.
At that time, Xu Lu had extremely high requirements for the script, she insisted on only choosing her favorite roles, and did not compromise on those scripts that were not of good quality.
I thought that with the popularity of popular works, it would no longer be a problem to get the role I wanted. However, "You're a little bit on the heavy side, and you don't quite fit the premise of our character. ”
After reflection, Xu Lu realized that she really needed **, so she took measures to control her diet and increase exercise to lose weight. During the interview again, the director expressed her change and gave positive feedback.
Xu Lu's anger exploded instantly, and the director who made her angry was Jiang Kaiyang. After two unpleasant meetings, fate seems to be particularly cruel to them, allowing them to meet again in a crew.
Jiang Kaiyang felt a little guilty in his heart, and when he saw Xu Lu's eyes, he seemed to be avoiding. He took the initiative to step forward, hoping to resolve the conflict:"I'm sorry, I did make an unintentional mistake before, and if I did something wrong, I'm willing to apologize to you. "
Now that the director has said so, Xu Lu is no longer entangled. As the saying goes, "if you don't fight, you don't know each other", they instead increased *** because of this, and the pleasant exchanges that followed made them good friends.
Xu Lu was attracted by Jiang Kaiyang's sense of humor and talent, but Jiang Kaiyang was an impatient child, and he confessed to Xu Lu within a few days. And Xu Lu brought Jiang Kaiyang home to meet his parents, which was her best recognition of Jiang Kaiyang.
Xu Lu's parents were shocked when they saw the fat-headed and big-eared man. They still remember that their daughter said that they wanted to find a handsome boyfriend, but they didn't expect to bring it home like this.
Although there were some doubts, seeing that their daughter was enthusiastically introducing her boyfriend's talent, Xu's father and mother decided to respect their daughter's choice. So, they readily agreed to make their boyfriend a part of the family.
Xu Lu chose a husband and a child in everyone's amazement, and her friends praised her decision. Although Xu Lu has put a lot of effort into the road of being an actor, she has firmly embarked on this path.
Although Xu Lu looks like a gentle and elegant southern woman, in fact, she is an authentic Northeast girl.
Xu Lu has excelled since she was a child, and has achieved good results in both academics and art, so she is known as "someone else's child" among her neighbors. In order to further develop her talents, Xu's mother decided to let Xu Lu enter the Liaoning Dance School to specialize in ballet, which was also an important turning point in her life.
Although Xu Lu doesn't hate dancing, she is a little tired of the painful training day after day. So, during the college entrance examination, she made a smart decision: on the one hand, in order to make her mother happy, she chose to apply for the Beijing Dance Academy, which her mother liked; On the other hand, she did not give up her interests and chose a school that could satisfy her personal interests.
In this way, she was able to please her mother and pursue her dreams.
Xu Lu was overjoyed, but she didn't expect that she was admitted to two favorite schools at the same time, and she was in a dilemma. However, her mother is also worried about her and thinking about how to help her make decisions.
After careful consideration, Xu Lu made a brave decision, and despite the difficulties, she firmly believed that she could find a path of her own.
She ostensibly obeyed her mother's wishes and agreed to go to Beiwu for further study. But in private, she had already secretly planned, hoping that her family would find out about her brave determination. However, Xu Lu did not expect that this decision would make her suffer in her college career.
When Xu Lu was performing a crying scene, she cried hoarsely, with a lot of tears and snot, and even cried with her makeup. However, the teacher criticized her for the lack of emotion in her performance, and pointed out that this crying method did not resonate with the audience.
Xu Lu is unique in the field of dance, but when it comes to acting, she seems to lack talent. However, having chosen this path, she was determined to stay the course and made great efforts to do so.
Graduation is imminent, and the students in the class have begun to get in touch with the acting industry, and there are even students at the same level as Xu Lu. can't help but sigh that talented classmates like Li Bingbing and Ren Quan have already made their mark in the entertainment industry.
Xu Lu asked a beautiful female classmate for acting skills, and the classmate immediately shook her hand with a smile and said that he was willing to show her different acting opportunities.
In the end, Xu Lu was secretly glad that she had walked into a comfortable place. Despite the bustle around her, she felt more at ease than anywhere else. Seeing the disturbing bosses in the private room misbehaving towards her classmates, Xu Lu felt very angry.
She decided to protect herself and her classmates from being bullied by anyone.
Xu Lu firmly believes that drama appointments are not obtained by taking shortcuts. She decisively escaped the cabaret, never to be unstruck by the achievements of others**. She understands that only through her own hard work and strength can she earn true success and respect.
After a long period of hard work and persistence, the crew of "Deep Love and Rain" finally decided to use Xu Lu and other substitute actors. Their previous efforts were not in vain, and their efforts were duly rewarded.
It's really a time to celebrate!
Teacher Qiong Yao's dramas have always been famous for affectionate and delicate emotional dramas, and Xu Lu's test question is crying, which may be her best form of expression, which may be a little difficult for others, but for Xu Lu, this is what she is good at.
Xu Lu was very excited that day, but she couldn't cry. So she used a stupid-looking but effective method - pinching and biting herself, and staring at the light bulb with wide eyes.
This method made her successfully cry and looked even more moving.
Xu Lu became famous for playing the role of "Keyun" in "Deep Love and Rain", and the role she played was not just a madman, but made people call her a "crazy woman".
Xu Lu's marriage to Jiang Kaiyang took place quickly within a few years of her fame. However, this did not affect her career, but instead made her choose to focus on taking care of her family at home.
Although many people may not understand her decision, it doesn't mean that she has given up pursuing her dreams.
She was worried that she was too hasty before marriage, which would cause her children to grow ugly and be blamed for being irresponsible. The decision to get married in a flash is bold enough, but it seems even more impulsive to say such things to her husband.
Maybe ordinary jokes can be made, but when it comes to children, they must be taken seriously.
Xu Lu once complained that Jiang Kaiyang had a bad attitude, but he didn't quarrel with her, but took the initiative to admit his mistakes, this is what a real man should look like, not venting his emotions on women, and daring to face his shortcomings.
Since then, Jiang Kaiyang has loved Xu Lu even more, not only providing material support, but also giving her sufficient emotional value. The 2.4 million promised when he got married is now allowed to be used by Xu Lu at will, without complaint or regret.
Who can resist such a glamorous man? After a long time, everyone not only no longer thinks he is ugly, but thinks he is a little handsome.
Although Xu Lu's change in attitude is affected by the "money ability", love also needs time to cultivate and deepen. In the life of the two after marriage, Jiang Kaiyang often gave Xu Lu some small surprises, and these small details that made her feel cherished gradually narrowed the spiritual distance between the two.
Therefore, Xu Lu's feelings for Jiang Kaiyang are also slowly deepening.
Therefore, in 2003, she has changed her mindset and realized that it is not important that a child is beautiful or ugly, but that it is important to grow up in a loving family environment.
In order to comfort his wife, Jiang Kaiyang once said: "Your beauty will be passed on to your children." However, the outcome no longer matters, because Xu Lu no longer cares about this.
After becoming pregnant, her husband cared for her more nuancedly.
Jiang Kaiyang is Xu Lu's personal guardian during pregnancy, and in order to prevent her from postpartum depression, he has been by her side to accompany her in raising children. He is not only a master of coaxing children, but also carefully detects Xu Lu's emotional changes and tries to make her happy.
In such a privileged environment, Xu Lu's daughter blooms like nectar.
In order to protect their daughter from outside interference, the couple is always careful to protect her privacy, so they rarely disclose her **. However, it can be seen from the existing ** that her eyes are as bright and pure as her mother, full of affection and wisdom, as if she can see through everything.
can't help but think of Xiao S's daughters, although they live a wealthy life, they still rely on their talent and self-confidence to grow into versatile and excellent women.
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