Love, this precious emotion, although it is said that it is impossible to meet, but in an occasion like a blind date, in addition to the hard conditions, people often look for objects that are compatible with them. However, in a blind date news in Henan, a girl's bride price request has aroused widespread attention and discussion.
This girl put forward a bride price request of nearly 400,000 yuan, which made the matchmaker and the blind date man feel a little headache. Although money cannot buy true love, it can be a tool for expression and matching. In this society, the role of money cannot be ignored, and it can solve many real-life problems, including some contradictions and disagreements in marriage.
Blind date is a process of getting to know each other, and both men and women will put forward some conditions and expectations for each other. However, it is undoubtedly shocking and incomprehensible that this girl dared to increase the price during the blind date.
The story takes place at the door of the girl's house, and the man comes to the girl's house through the matchmaker's introduction. The matchmaker carefully selected some powerful men to meet the requirements of the girls. However, when the man and woman meet, the conditions put forward by the girl make the man feel a lot of pressure.
Although the bride price has a certain cultural meaning in traditional Chinese marriage, the amount of the bride price should be the result of negotiation between the two families, rather than a unilateral and rigid demand by one party. In blind dates and marriages, both parties should respect each other equally and communicate rationally, rather than buying and selling the bride price as a commodity.
Love is a beautiful feeling, and it should not be tied down by money. When choosing a partner, we should pay more attention to each other's sincerity and mutual understanding, rather than the amount of bride price. Blind date is a process of understanding and choosing, and I hope that every pair of men and women on a blind date can find their own happiness.
Blind date, as a traditional and practical way of marriage and love, still has its necessity in today's society. However, in the process of blind date, the expectations and responsibilities of the two parties often disagree. The blind date between a 19-year-old girl and a man in the trucking industry has sparked a lot of thought and discussion.
This young girl, who works as a **, has a pretty and cute appearance, and looks well-behaved and sensible. The man is a truck driver with a good monthly income and has good financial strength. Their meeting seems to have gone well, but there is a disagreement over the bride price and responsibility.
The girl has six siblings, and she is the eldest daughter in the family and has the responsibility of taking care of her younger siblings. She offered to use the bride price to buy a house for her younger brothers, and although the man accepted, he did not expect that the woman would also propose an additional fee of 20,000 yuan per month for the living and education expenses of the younger brothers.
Such a requirement is obviously too harsh for the man. Although his financial conditions are good, the monthly expenditure of 240,000 yuan is a lot of money for anyone. What's more, this long-term burden has also caused him to worry and worry about the future.
In the process of blind date, the communication between the two parties gradually reached an impasse. The man could not accept the woman's request, and the woman did not seem to realize that her request had gone beyond common sense. The matchmaker also advised the woman to take into account the actual situation of the other party's family, not just her own interests.
Such a story reflects the common problems in the current blind date process. Marriage is not only a matter for two people, but also involves both families and social responsibilities. In the choice of marriage, each other's demands should be treated rationally, rather than unilaterally demanding and compromising. I hope that every blind date can be completed because of reason and happy because of sincerity.