Relationship between the sexes Some people gradually stop contacting, not because they are faint or

Mondo Psychological Updated on 2024-02-13

I really like Miss Lin Huiyin's famous saying: "Some friends, slowly, rarely contact, not because everyone has become strange or far away, but because they can't find a suitable role to accompany each other, don't find a suitable excuse to contact each other, and can't find a suitable opportunity to meet, so I have to keep this deep affection in my heart, occasionally remember, occasionally miss." ”

I'm so sorry, my love for you is so deep in my heart that I almost thought we could be together forever. In fact, I am really happy to meet you, and I feel very honored to be able to meet you, but it is a pity that I can no longer grasp the fate with you and cannot become the person next to you. If you don't like it, who wants to be amorous? If you don't have nostalgia, who will have a soft spot for that person? If you don't love deeply enough, how can it be unforgettable?

Do you know what it's like to give up someone you love? It feels like going through a massive illness that can take a long time to regain happiness when it is cured. Later, no matter how good a person you meet, you always feel that you want to avoid it, not because I don't like you anymore, but because I'm afraid of being hurt again. I was afraid of being deceived and taken advantage of, and I was afraid of going through the process from happiness to despair. I am afraid that I will pay too much for this relationship, but in the end it will end up with a heartbreaking ending.

According to the research of medical experts, if you wake up in the morning and remember the person you missed in the nest last night, it will take at least six to eight months to let go of this attachment in your heart, and it will take about seven years to really forget a relationship, because seven years is enough time for the cells of our whole body to renew again. However, it only takes a minute to love someone with devotion, and it can take a whole lifetime to release a relationship. It's really hard to easily erase the emotions that have been experienced with your heart. Excuse me, how can I forget you from the bottom of my heart?

Publish a collection of dragon cards to share millions of cash Sometimes I hesitate, I want to follow you closely, but I also want to take the initiative to let go; I want not to interfere with any more than that, but I am worried that we will become irrelevant. I want to get away from your world, but I don't want to lose you. The biggest regret in life is that I met someone really special, but I couldn't get together, or sooner or later I would have to separate for some reason. I feel sad that I can't give up, but I can't win. Sometimes choosing to let go of someone doesn't mean that you don't love them anymore, it's just the result of making a helpless decision. The most frightening thing is not the loss of reason, but the fact that people who are completely awake still pretend that they do not understand the truth, and that some people are destined to exist only in sight and thoughts, but can never reach them.

The feeling of letting go of a person is about seeing you and still being moved and feeling good about you, but no longer desperate to have you; When I turned around, I could feel a sense of relief, and while my eyes shifted, tears couldn't help but fall, but for a short time, my heart would still be tortured and painful. In fact, deep down in my heart, I have always been reluctant to you, but for those things that have no result, I have decided not to continue to pursue them, and I really don't want to bear the heartache again.

Many people silently cherish a deep relationship in their hearts, not only love, but also deep love. The reluctance to take the initiative does not mean that you want to forget, but that it is difficult to get in touch, and you don't want to but you can't get rid of that memory. Don't show it deliberately, and don't want to give up easily. Perhaps there is an untellable story hidden in everyone's heart, which is hidden in silent tears, precipitated in the long years, disappeared in the stubborn struggle, and finally silently dissolves in the vast sea of people!

In the journey of love, sincere friendship cannot be avoided, and hypocritical feelings are ethereal; If the edge is deep, it will gather, and if it is shallow, it will be scattered; Go with the flow, there are even people who spend a lot of energy trying to get close to you in every possible way, and you don't know how to cherish it; There are also some people who have paid nothing for you, but you swear that you are willing, love is actually a thing to a thing, and the right fate gives you good treatment, so that you are full of love, partial wealth and opportunities, but it makes you confused and hurt.

I never regret meeting and falling in love with you, just a little regret. I have paid for you for so long, but in the end, I have not even been able to get an explanation for my ultimate. Do you know, there is no reluctance in my heart, but my heart is distressed, I hope that you will never appear again in this life, and I will never love you again. About this once loved you, let me think of it as an ignorant joke.

Well, that's it. Feelings to the back, it's always the person who loves the most with the most heart to leave first, and it has nothing to do with whether you love or not, it's just that the more you love, the more painful you feel. I'm really lucky to have met you, but it's a pity that it's only a brief encounter. I tried to walk forward for a long time, and when I got closer, I realized that we had come to the end.

I really like what Mr. Luo Xiang once said:

Actually, there is nothing to regret. There are many things that even if I had to do it all over again, looking at it with the mood and experience at that time, I would still make the same choice, and the result would not change, after all, people slowly learn to grow from failure. Instead of thinking about the past and regretting it, it is better to wipe away your tears and move on. I hope that I will not be trapped by those small emotions in the future, try to make as few ineffective decisions as possible, and try not to regret the decision after making it. After all, it's not okay to dwell on the past, and then you won't be able to see the beautiful sunset, and you won't be able to see the stars at night. "

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