Once upon a time, Qian Biao, the king of Wuyue, wrote to his wife"The flowers on Mo are blooming, and they can return slowly." ”
On the path in the field, the flowers are blooming, you enjoy the flowers while going home, don't worry, the family will wait patiently for you.
Later, someone said: "Once upon a time, the carriage and horse were slow, and the letters were far away, and there was only enough time to love one person in a lifetime." ”
Some people also feel that in a hundred years of life, there is not enough time to love someone, and they can't even finish a thing.
Later, society was like a rolling machine, not empty 24 hours a day, busy, and had to turn on the mobile phone at night and be on call at any time.
One day, you will find that you are very envious of those who "seem to be free", they are really amazing.
About wisdom: always empty yourself, give and take.
There is a saying in "Asking": "There is no specialization in reason, and there is no end to learning." ”It doesn't matter if you read it or not, the book is there. If you want to read, don't rush, because you can't finish the book.
More importantly, you don't have to "believe in the book", you have to give up some knowledge that you have learned.
When you feel that you are "rich and successful", you must learn to be humble and know what "great wisdom and foolishness" are.
Shen Kuo of the Northern Song Dynasty wrote such an incident: The sergeants went to war and worked very hard. I finally managed to catch a little time and could sleep, but I was still worried about the surprise attack of the enemy army.
For safety, the sergeants vacated quivers made of cowhide and used them as pillows.
If a crowd or horse passes by a few miles away, the quiver can hold the sound and alert the sergeants.
Vacating is not about everything being gone, but about accepting something new. This is the wisdom of emptiness.
The philosopher Socrates said, "The only thing I know is that I know nothing." ”
Therefore, when a person is very powerful, he looks ordinary, and he knows it, and he will not easily "point out", and he will spend more time listening to others. Replace clichés with more new knowledge.
The more I read, the more I feel empty. This is the best learning attitude and perception.
About life: Leave a blank space and don't get things satisfied.
Are you like me, eating, sleeping, working, parenting, filial piety to your parents, participating in socializing, and you feel that you don't have enough time all day long.
You will also find that you are trying hard to live, but many things are not good enough.
The older generation always tells us, "It's not too small." ”
But the more elaborate you are, the more busy you will be. I was very dissatisfied with the outcome of the matter.
On the contrary, it is those who are very arrogant and live more freely. Even if it's wrong, it doesn't matter, it's a big deal to start over; Or change yourself and not do the same thing.
During the Northern Song Dynasty, Su Shi was recognized as a "foodie" by everyone, and he could eat and drink enough no matter in **.
In the land of Nanban, he also felt the taste of "eating 300 lychees a day".
After reading many poems written by him, you will find that what he is happiest is not to be full, but to have a bowl of porridge after being hungrySitting at night was very hungry, Wu Ziye persuaded to eat white porridge. Porridge is fast and beautiful, and when you sleep after porridge, you can't say it, especially if you can't say it.
I was so hungry that I suddenly brought a bowl of white rice porridge, no added sugar, no radish strips and other dishes, but the taste was very delicious, and I was also comfortable.
Yes, why you always don't have good tea and rice, it's not because your life is not good enough, but because it's gone"Hunger".
On the "Jimu News" platform, it was revealed that a young man weighed 240 pounds.
Because I ate a barbecue hard, and then my abdominal pain didn't stop, I had to go to the Optics Valley Campus of Hubei Provincial Hospital of Traditional Chinese Medicine.
After examination, the young man's body was not right in many indicators, and the blood was like milk.
Someone summed up this way of living, which is very recognized: don't be too full of love, don't sleep too late; Seven points of food are full, and three points of wine are drunk.In life, not only do you have time to eat, drink, and drink, but you should have enough rest, relax your spirit, and don't think too much.
Every day, there are some things that are not done, not done, it doesn't matter, don't feel guilty, don't force yourself to work overtime.
Isn't it normal for people to still have things that cannot be done and are not perfect on the day of death?
About relationships: Accept the gaps in others and reduce expectations.
There is a small monk who is polite to the monkeys around the temple.
The senior brother squeezed his eyebrows at the little monk, and the little monk was very angry.
When the master heard the news, he asked the little monk: "The monkey is squeezing his eyebrows at you, aren't you angry?" Why are you angry with your brother? ”
The little monk said: "Monkeys are not human beings, and they don't understand human feelings. ”
The master smiled:"We always understand those low-end animals, and we still love flowers and plants, but we can't even love the people around us, and we can't tolerate them.
All social interactions will not be perfect, too much hypocrisy, and some people who are not used to it, hinder your eyes. Of course, you will meet villains and trick behind their backs.
If you try to treat each other as "air", don't care about gathering and scattering, and accept everyone's imperfections, then it's very different.
Think about it deeply, the reason why the other party will not satisfy you and is not positive enough is that he still has room for improvement, or he is used to being ordinary all his life and regards the ordinary as the ultimate ideal.
There is limited space in the high places, and there are only a few people who become saints, so why ask for anyone?
Don't expect anything else, you'll be magnificent, and that's where you're great.
I have read such a passage: "Leaving time is free, and then there is the loss of emptiness, and the key is to be ethereal, and the key is in the word 'real'." ”The best life is to combine the virtual and the real, and do the virtual facts. If there is no "virtuality", "reality" will have no opposite, and it will lose its due value.
The most beautiful scenery is that it is full of empty and appropriate - the wild ferry is unmanned and self-sufficient. If it's full everywhere, it's not necessarily too crowded.
The most genuine feeling is that "the friendship of gentlemen is as light as water", if you meet every day, you have to get together every day, the contradiction will come, and it may be the end of turning against each other.
In this life, we must pursue our ideals and love well, but we must have leisure.
In the first half of his life, he was busy, eating and sleeping, and was calm.
In the second half of his life, he will grow old naturally, with three meals and four seasons, and he will count the years.