When they were young, they just wanted to find a love partner, but now they want to find a partner who can grow with them.
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Author |Wan Muzi.
Beauty is a double-edged sword!
She is a mixed-race actress of Italian descent and stands out for her unique and excellent looks.
She is the ceiling of the puppet's appearance!
However, behind the beauty lies an invisible shackle.
Because it is too beautiful, it was once said by the director that it looks too gorgeous in ordinary clothes.
Therefore, in many dramas, you can only play some unpleasant "vase" roles.
Regarding her, many people's impression may still stay in the label of "the most beautiful female match of Taiwan puppets".
Dramas such as "Mischievous Kiss" and "Next Stop, Happiness" made people remember her face.
But I didn't remember her name, Xu Weining!
To break the predicament, the road to transformation is extremely difficult.
Fortunately, in the end, she succeeded.
In 2022, she won three awards with "She and Her Her", won the crown after the show, and became the biggest winner without any suspense.
Beauty is also a shackle
"Shen Yan" is most people's impression of her.
Xu Weining is half Italian and has a very recognizable deep facial features.
The innate advantages are vividly used in "She and Her Her".
Lots of close-ups, brown eyes as clear as glass, freckles sprinkled on the white face.
Confused, melancholy, cold.
interprets the inner world of the heroine in a state of dissociation after being traumatized.
This time, what the audience noticed was no longer her overwhelming beauty, but her solid acting skills.
With the role of Lin Chenxi in "She and Her Her", Xu Weining won the Best Actress Award for the Mini-Series that night.
At the award ceremony, her sentence "Thank you, step by step" truly interpreted her transformation past.
In the early works of her debut, people's deep impression of her was: beauty!
However, it is also because of her deep and unique beauty that she was excavated into the entertainment industry.
From a model to an actress, her acting career seems to have been solidified.
In the play, she will always be the beautiful and rich daughter, but she will always be the second female who can't get love.
In "Mischievous Kiss", she is a perfect fit for Pei Ziyu, the daughter of a rich family.
played He Yiqian in "Next Stop, Happiness". is also a talented and beautiful young lady, and she is also in love with the male protagonist but can't love it.
Several other idol dramas are also similar.
Her role type is fixed, and there are generally not many scenes.
In different stories, he plays the "third party" of the love of the hero and heroine.
Her beauty has no purpose, but it has also become a shackle in her career.
The fixed role, the similar script, it seems that she is also framed in a fixed role.
In order to break the role of "vase" and become an actor with beauty and strength.
She began to seek transformation, and when she took on the role, she tried to enrich her role types.
A decisive working woman, a calm psychiatrist, and a designer with a fashionable temperament ......
In different roles, she began to find the unrestricted field of the actor.
suspense films, romance films, literary films, .....
Her acting career is getting smoother and wider.
The characters are more emotionally complex and more challenging for the actors.
However, although the process was a little difficult, it was just the darkness before the light.
With the precipitation of acting skills and the growth of age, there are many more years and life things in her acting skills.
When she won the award again with the drama "She and Her Her", Xu Weining seemed to respond to what she once said:
30 years old is the most beautiful time to bloom.
Everything is just right, everything is just beginning.
Childhood lacks father, but there is no lack of love
Xu Weining, who is a beautiful embryo, is a native of Taipei.
Before he was three years old, his parents divorced.
She didn't know anything about her father except for what he looked like in the wedding photos.
Although she grew up in a single-parent family and lacked her father's care and companionship in her childhood, she never lacked love.
Since her mother had to go out to work, she lived with her grandparents since she was a child.
Without parents around, her little emotions can only be written in a diary.
However, the family is very attentive and notices that something is wrong with her, and everyone will express their love and care to her without hesitation.
Let Xu Weining feel the warmth of home.
At the age of 16, she signed up for the TV station's host selection contest without hesitation.
It was unsuccessful.
Unexpectedly, she was caught by a modeling agency.
Because of her outstanding appearance, the road to modeling is also quite smooth.
At the age of 20, with her good popularity, she got a chance to play a role in the TV series "Family with Feifei", and since then she has officially stepped into the showbiz.
But because she is too beautiful, it also brings a lot of trouble to acting.
Even when she met the director, she deliberately dressed casually, without makeup, and wore the most ordinary clothes.
In the end, it will still be said that it is too beautiful and too expensive, which is really helpless.
In this regard, she concluded:
It must be that you don't do it well enough to be noticed. ”
Beauty is indeed a double-edged sword, many people will be troubled because they are not beautiful, but Xu Weining competes with herself because she is too beautiful.
In short, this kind of twisting state lasted for a long time on Xu Weining.
It wasn't until after the age of 30 that she began to relax gradually.
Behind the growth is mature love
Xu Weining has had two extremely high-profile relationships.
The first paragraph is an 8-year long-distance love run with Ruan Jingtian.
The second is that he and Liu Younian have been in love for 4 years, but divorced after 2 years of marriage.
Both relationships are long enough for one person to see the other.
Although his original family is not perfect, he has also had frustrated feelings.
But Xu Weining has not lost her confidence in love, believing that there was beauty in the past, and she will meet true love in the future.
Whether she is disappointed or stumbled, she is not afraid to admit that she once had.
In 2020, she met Qiu Ze in "When a Man is in Love" and formed an indissoluble bond.
There was almost no warning, on December 10, 2021, Xu Weining officially announced the news of his marriage to Qiu Ze on social platforms, and many netizens were shocked.
This relationship, for her, is completely a flash marriage.
Although the angular and deep and handsome Qiu Ze is very good in appearance with Xu Weining, Qiu Ze, who is the "prodigal son of love", is not favored by netizens.
Even so, Xu Weining didn't care too much, and bluntly said that he liked Qiu Ze's personality very much: you don't have to fight to win or lose when you encounter problems, and you can get along with each other freely.
Bensi's experience of failure, but also grow, dare to flash marriage, it is enough to prove that this is a mature love.
When they were young, they just wanted to find a love partner, but now they want to find a partner who can grow with them.
This kind of companion is a person who runs on a track, no one can leave anyone behind, and mentally supports each other.
In the past two years, the transformation and growth and achievements of the two of them are enough to prove.
Life is all growth, and growth is life!
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Author: Wan Muzi, CCDM China Career Planner, BSc Senior Career Planner, American Shubo School Career Planner, more than 9 years of enterprise project management, registered international psychological counselor, more than 5 years of corporate training lecturer, platform contract author, second child mother.
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