Recently, something quite strange happened.
Some netizens posted**, saying that on the flight they took from Beijing to Chengdu on December 30, 2023, there were passengers on the plane**.
Netizens revealed that after boarding normally at that time, the plane had not taken off, and the broadcast said that it was dealing with affairs, so everyone waited patiently.
But after waiting for a long time, the plane still showed no signs of taking off, and some passengers came forward to ask.
Only to find out that it was a couple with a two-year-old child in business class, and wanted to let the nanny sitting in economy class come to business class.
The child's mother said that they had three business class tickets, which could pick up the child and leave a seat free.
The flight attendant said that for safety, the two-year-old child cannot be held in the arms of ** to fly on the plane, and if the nanny wants to go to business class, he must pay an additional upgrade fee.
The child's father didn't pay attention to it at all, and unreasonably said that if the nanny didn't go to business class, then the crew had to take care of the child throughout the whole process, and if the child cried, he would complain to them.
The two sides were at a stalemate for a long time, and finally the flight attendant chose to call the police.
Afterwards, the airline said that the cancellation of the flight was due to weather reasons, but the passengers believed that even if it was because of the weather, it was because of the family** that the plane missed the time when it could take off.
And because of the flight cancellation, the itinerary of more than 300 passengers has been affected, some are tourists, have booked hotels, tours, tickets, and some are going to the test the next day.
This incident has attracted the attention of a large number of netizens on the Internet, and some netizens said:
"I can afford a nanny, I can afford to buy business class, but I don't want to pay some money for a nanny upgrade? That's love taking advantage. ”
"The quality has not kept up with the wealth, and maybe the wealth has not kept up with the cognition, otherwise why would you not even be willing to give the money for the upgrade? ”
"This kind of person shouldn't be polite to them, just call the police and rush down, and delay so much time, it doesn't make sense to reason with scoundrels! ”
Because of the family's unreasonable troubles, so many people are affected, it is nothing more than relying on how much stinky money they have, thinking that the whole world has to make way for themselves, and thinking that people all over the world have to give themselves preferential treatment.
It's a pity that a kick hit the iron plate.
To be honest, people who have a little bit of face can't do such things in public, but when God sprinkles quality and upbringing on the world, there are always some people who hold up an umbrella.
In June last year, on a Jiangxi Airlines flight, a woman boarded the plane and found that there was an old lady sitting in her seat, and the woman reminded the old lady that it was her seat.
Unexpectedly, the old lady occupied the seat and did not move, claiming that she was airsick, had high blood pressure and heart disease, and had to sit by the window, otherwise the woman would be responsible for the physical problems.
The old lady's wife also threatened the woman, saying that she would beat her when she got off the plane.
The woman didn't eat the set of moral kidnapping, and she didn't want to change seats, so the old lady scolded directly.
In December last year, at Shanghai's Hongqiao Airport, a woman said she had lost her things after the plane door was closed, so she knelt on the ground and cried, strongly demanding to get off the plane.
When the shuttle bus arrived at the scene to assist her in leaving, the woman suddenly changed her mind and refused to get off the plane.
Fortunately, the crew was not used to her, and in the end the woman was forced to get off the plane, but it also caused the flight to be delayed for more than ten minutes.
It's really a big world, and there are all kinds of wonders!
Some people say:
"There are two kinds of people in this society who dare not mess with them, and they have a headache when they meet them than when they touch the ruffians on the ground.
One is a child who lacks discipline, and the other is an adult 'giant baby', both of whom cannot be beaten or scolded. ”
Because of these "giant babies", they are immature, extremely selfish, self-centered, do not take into account the feelings of others, and habitually demand that everyone satisfy themselves.
These people only have "me" in their hearts, and without others, it is difficult for them to be considerate and respectful of others.
It is difficult for them to be considerate and respectful of others.
They don't realize that not everyone in this world is their parents, and no one is obliged to tolerate a stranger.
The most basic self-discipline of adults is not to cause trouble to others casually, which is a kind of respect for others and a constraint on one's own behavior.
Also on the plane, a flight attendant encountered turbulence while distributing meals to passengers.
For safety, the flight attendant slowly squatted down to support the dining car.
A passenger also silently stretched out his hand to help the flight attendant hold the dining car.
When the stewardess slowly moved in front of the passenger, he silently stretched out his hand and hung in the air to protect the stewardess's back.
During this period, the passengers did not say anything, and the flight attendants did not know about it.
It was just a small gesture, and for this man, it was just a subconscious act and he didn't care too much.
But it is such details that best reflect a person's upbringing and conduct.
In this era of rapid change and information, our words and deeds are like the tip of the iceberg floating on the water, they show our inner quality and upbringing, and at the same time become the basis for others to evaluate us.
In life, we often hear such comments: "This person is really uneducated" or "That person is really poor".
So, what exactly is upbringing?
In fact, upbringing is the external embodiment of a person's inner quality, which is not only the superficial politeness and observance of rules, but also the deep reflection and restraint of self-behavior.
It is reflected in every action, word and deed in our daily life.
Whether it's the smallest details or the most important decisions, they all reflect our upbringing.
Sometimes, parenting is a sense of proportion, knowing what to do when and where, and it requires us to maintain an appropriate distance in our interactions with others, not to encroach on the space of others, but also to protect our own rights.
Parenting is also a kind of tolerance, which allows us to understand and accept different people and things calmly, instead of easily producing prejudice and rejection.
Upbringing is also a kind of respect that comes from the depths of the heart, never looking outward, but looking inward.
Well-educated people are not arrogant and arrogant at the top, and they are not humble and self-abandoning at the bottom, they always maintain inner balance and tranquility, and can maintain a normal heart no matter what situation they are in.
Upbringing is the cultivation of a person's heart, the light of human nature, and the lubricant of society.
May we all have deep respect and understanding for others, and at the same time be treated warmly by the world.
In this complex world, let us use kindness and tolerance to illuminate each other's paths and move forward together.