"He deserves it, he can't blame his son! ”
In 2019, an elderly man named Luo Jianguo in Changsha suffered from uremia and was in great pain on the hospital bed, because he had no money for treatment and could only wait for death.
The old man had a son, and not only did he not care about him, but he did not want to visit this father while he was in the hospital.
Many people may think that this son is not filial, but the surrounding neighbors all speak for his son and say that the old man deserves it.
So, what really happened between Luo Jianguo and his son? Later, did the son care about him?
Since Luo Jianguo got sick, he has obviously aged very quickly, obviously only in his 50s, but he looks like an old man in his sixties and seventies.
In fact, although Luo Jianguo has no money now, he was beautiful before.
It turned out that Luo Jianguo was the captain of a team in a concrete company before, and there were more than a dozen people working under him.
He had always had diabetes, but it was well controlled.
But in 2019, he suddenly felt something abnormal in his body, his feet began to swell, and he often caught colds
At first, he didn't take it seriously, thinking that it was just a common cold, just take medicine.
But it lasted for several months, and his body was very weak and often lacked strength.
Then he couldn't bear it anymore so he went to the hospital for a check-up, and as soon as the inspection report came out, he was directly scared stupid.
The doctor told him:You have uremia, and your condition is very serious, and you need to be hospitalized immediately**, otherwise your life is in danger at any time.
After Luo Jianguo listened to the doctor, he suddenly felt that it was dark in front of him.
He also immediately asked for leave from the company, and then went to the hospital according to the doctor's instructions.
This disease is actually very expensive, you have to do dialysis every month, and you have to take medicine every day, which is very expensive.
The money Luo Jianguo saved was quickly spent, but the company had to fire him because he couldn't work.
At this time, he basically had no money on him, and he had no income.
Luo Jianguo is a lonely widow, he has been divorced from his ex-wife for more than ten years, and he has a son who also follows his ex-wife.
For so many years, I didn't save much money if I had it, and I spent it lavishly.
This is also the reason why when you get sick, you quickly spend all your savings.
Many people may ask, doesn't he still have a son?
Seeing that my father is seriously ill, I shouldn't ignore it.
Luo Jianguo said that after he fell ill, he also told his son and ex-wife the news.
However, his son Luo Hai has never come to see him, so every time Luo Jianguo goes to the hospital, he is alone, and there is no one around him.
The doctor also suggested that Luo Jianguo should be accompanied by his family, but Luo Jianguo said that Luo Hai never appeared.
Luo Jianguo also felt very uncomfortable about this, he thought that although he divorced his ex-wife, he had always been good to this son, and when his son was studying, he would also contribute money to sponsor him.
So he doesn't understand, why is his son never cared about him now that he is seriously ill?
And his son Luo Hai's condition is not bad, and the demolition house in his hometown at that time was also left to his son.
Luo Jianguo himself has always lived in a rental house, which is very small and old.
He also called his son ** many times, but every time his son saw his **, he hung up directly.
Many people will think that it was not the reason for the divorce from Luo Hai's mother that caused Luo Hai to hate him.
But Luo Jianguo said that he and his ex-wife divorced not because of emotional problems, and he lost money in business outside and owed a lot of money, so he chose to divorce in desperation in order not to affect his wife and son.
Later, Luo Jianguo was really forced to be helpless, so he asked the reporter for help.
Because he didn't have a penny on him, and he owed a lot of money to the hospital, if he didn't pay the money, he would have to stop taking the medicine, which would be equivalent to waiting for death.
After learning about Luo Jianguo's situation, the reporter decided to go with Luo Jianguo to find Luo Hai and see what Luo Hai's attitude was?
When the reporter and Luo Jianguo came to the residence of his ex-wife and Luo Hai, the person who opened the door for them was a strange man, who claimed to be Luo Hai's mother's boyfriend.
The reporter wanted to learn from them about the matter between Luo Hai and his father Luo Jianguo, but this strange man told the reporter that it was best to leave this matter alone and not listen to Luo Jianguo's words.
It turned out that things were not what Luo Jianguo said.
After he fell ill, Luo Hai also took care of him, and took more than 10,000 yuan to treat his father.
Moreover, Luo Hai used to work in a company, but because of the bad **, the company collapsed, and he didn't have a job.
There is also a daughter who is still in kindergarten at home, and the family is waiting for him to make money, so Luo Hai is under a lot of pressure.
But even so, Luo Hai still managed to scrape together more than 10,000 yuan for his father after his father fell ill.
After a while, Luo Hai's mother and Luo Hai also returned.
Luo Hai's mother was very emotional when she saw Luo Jianguo coming.
Luo Hai's mother told reporters that when the reporter married Luo Jianguo, Luo Jianguo was just a poor boy, but he still married him despite his family's opposition.
Soon after getting married, she gave birth to Luo Hai, and she originally thought that life would become happier and happier.
But Luo Jianguo got involved with other girls outside during his confinement, and sometimes brought him home directly.
However, considering the child, Luo Hai's mother decided to endure it.
But what she didn't think about was that Luo Jianguo became more and more excessive, and he also took the initiative to file for divorce.
Although Luo Hai's mother persuaded her not to divorce in front of her children, Luo Jianguo insisted on divorce.
In this way, Luo Hai's mother divorced Luo Jianguo, and after the divorce, her mother took the young Luo Hai to live together.
At this time, Luo Jianguo also came in to reason with Luo Hai's mother, saying that he had given them all the houses and that he was leaving the house.
But as soon as he mentioned this, Luo Hai became angry.
It turned out that when Luo Jianguo learned that the house was going to be demolished, he often came to Luo Hai's mother to ask for money, and if he didn't give it, he blocked the gate with a car.
Later, there was no way, so he gave Luo Jianguo the 150,000 demolition money.
Slowly, the surrounding neighbors also gathered around.
But everyone spoke for Luo Hai, and they said to reporters:Luo Jianguo deserves to be like this now, he has not fulfilled his responsibilities as a father for so many years, and rarely comes back to see his children, Luo Hai is so big, it was all raised by Luo Hai's mother.
Even after Luo Hai's grandmother died, Luo Jianguo did not come back to see her off, and Luo Hai and Luo Hai's mother handled the funeral.
Finally, under the mediation of reporters, Luo Hai also said that if he had the ability, he would also help his father treat his illness, but he actually had a lot of pressure in his life.
Luo Jianguo had better keep his head down, he knew that he was at a loss, and he was embarrassed to ask his son for anything, after all, when his son was young, he did not fulfill his responsibilities as a father, and now he naturally can't ask his son to take care of him.
So, do you think Luo Hai should help his father heal?