People who are not satisfied in their marriage often have such thoughts:
The two of them have no feelings, and continuing to live like this is also torturing each other, but the child is still young, should he continue this relationshipless marriage for the sake of the child?
If you continue to walk, marriage seems to have become a "purgatory", in which you support yourself alone, and no one can understand the pain in your heart. For the sake of the children, how long can such a marriage last? It's like walking in the desert, longing for an oasis to appear, but not knowing when the end will be.
When most people are faced with marital difficulties, they tend not to divorce because of their children's problems. However, leaving the child factor aside, is there any other reason for them to continue this hopeless marriage? Is it really because of children that a marriage that is not good and cannot be separated?
Why put the child factor aside for a while? This seems to be a simple question, but in fact it is a hidden mystery. The marriage between a child and his parents is like a thread of intertwined silk, and once they are mixed up, it is easy to ignore the real problems in the marriage. Children, innocent and vulnerable, are also victims in unhappy marriages. However, once the marriage of the child and the parents is confused, the child becomes the "backstabber" of the unhappy marriage of the parents.
If your marriage has really come to an end and you can no longer live with your partner, then first of all, you need to carefully consider your emotional needs, rather than just trying to hold on because of your children.
If it's really for your child's sake, then listen to them first. Whether or not the marriage continues because of the children is not up to you alone. Your choice may not be what your child expects.
You can choose to continue to endure the pain for the sake of the child, but while you endure the pain, the child may also suffer in silence. Is such a choice really beneficial to children?
And, even if you blame all the predicament on "the child is still young", it seems to provide yourself with the motivation to persevere. But is this reason enough to dispel my doubts - even if it is because of the child, how long can this persistence last?
If the relationship has come to an end, the husband and wife should first sit down calmly and go deep into the future direction of this marriage.
If a divorce is decided, it is crucial to explain to the children that their parents' marriage is coming to an end, so that they understand the choice and understand that the love between father and mother will continue even after the divorce.
If the couple decides to continue their relationship, they need to work together to re-establish the relationship. This requires both parties to have enough patience and effort to enhance mutual understanding and trust through communication and understanding. In this process, couples need to find new points of convergence to re-cultivate their relationship.
Finally, if the couple is no longer emotional, don't force yourself to maintain the marriage. Instead, be honest and think hard about whether you need to end your marriage. If you decide to continue your marriage, you need to work together to rebuild your relationship and keep your marriage going.