Xi Meijuan, a name that makes people have mixed feelings.
When the name of this "national first-class actor" is mentioned, most people will still think of the brilliant sparks she once sparked on the stage.
Those classic stage plays are still imprinted in the hearts of many theater fans.
However, when we carefully recall the story behind this name, we have to admit that Xi Meijuan's life road is full of ups and downs.
Her married life is unhappy, her career development is tortuous, and her ex-husband's private life has cast a shadow on her star halo.
This actress, who was once active on the stage and screen, has been framed as a "single mother abandoned by her ex-husband" for a long time.
However, in the midst of these unfair criticisms, Xi Meijuan still did not give up the pursuit of her acting career, she started again and again, and finally regained her former glory through her own efforts in her later years.
When we look back on Xi Meijuan's story, we have to sigh how great the efforts and sacrifices an actor has made to gain a foothold in this industry.
Behind the brilliance on the stage is their unknown bumpy experience.
We see only the tip of the iceberg, but we often ignore the countless invisible struggles and struggles underwater.
Xi Meijuan uses her own story to show us the fragility of the other side of an actor's heart, as well as the indomitable spirit in the face of adversity.
When we accuse a person of "two sides", how many people can go beyond the surface and see the true heart behind it?
The Pain of Miscarriage: The Silent Tragedy of Women's Emotions.
In the 80s of the 20th century, the marriage of Xi Meijuan and Zhou Yemang was regarded as a perfect couple in the entertainment industry at that time.
Zhou Yemang became popular as a powerful actor, and Xi Meijuan was a well-known Hua Dan actor at that time.
Both of them are on the rise in their careers, and they are the most positive and energetic age, and their lives after marriage should be romantic and sweet.
However, when Xi Meijuan became pregnant for the first time, an unexpected miscarriage pushed this happy family to the brink of collapse.
It's hard to imagine how much an expectant mother expects from her fetus.
When she finally had the opportunity to have a child of her own, this maternal affection was so urgent and intense.
However, when this little life dies before it is born, what a blow and trauma it will bring to an expectant mother.
This is the initial difficulty after Xi Meijuan became a wife.
And her reaction to this may be understood as a kind of self-preservation, a cover for her powerlessness in the face of great grief.
As a husband, Zhou Yemang may not be able to fully understand Xi Meijuan's inner pain.
In his opinion, her reaction may have been too negative and depressed.
But how many times have we put ourselves in someone's shoes when we criticize her?
The boundless pain of women in the face of miscarriage is actually a huge silent tragedy.
When we can't understand, can we learn to tolerate and give time and space?
The Pain of Abandonment: A Heavy Blow to Women's Self-Esteem.
After Xi Meijuan became pregnant again at the age of 39, she treated herself and the fetus carefully, hoping to make up for her first regret.
She was almost all focused on this pregnancy.
However, at such a very important moment for women, her husband Zhou Yemang chose to divorce.
Not only that, but soon, Zhou Yemang remarried young actor Wang Zhixia.
Gently I go, just as I come gently, I gently beckon, as the clouds of the western sky".
This classic ancient poem depicts the despair and helplessness of a woman when she is abandoned.
When the wife is giving her all for the family, the departure of the husband is undoubtedly a great insult to a woman.
Xi Meijuan's strong self-esteem was hurt, and she chose to cut off her relationship with her ex-husband and raise her two children alone.
When a woman is hurt, her self-protection may not be understood by outsiders.
But this choice may be the only way for her to regain her dignity.
When we criticize others for abandoning their families, how many times do we understand women's self-esteem and choices?
Nirvana Reborn: The Rise of an Actress.
Xi Meijuan chose to be single and put her children into work, but she found that she had lost both fame and fortune.
For a while, his career fell into a trough, and he was rejected by many crews one after another.
However, Xi Meijuan was not discouraged.
She is no longer obsessed with being the leading role, but has embraced many supporting roles.
In these inconspicuous small roles, she can still show her acting skills and integrate into the role.
Until 2004, Xi Meijuan won the favor of the audience again with the role of the village woman in the TV series "Zhuang".
At the age of 49, she finally proved through her own strength that she is still a well-deserved "national first-class actor".
Life is like a big circle, with ups and downs.
When we fall, what is needed is not the blame of others, but the time to hurt and the courage to start anew.
Xi Meijuan's story proves that no matter how many times you fall, as long as you have perseverance, you still have a chance to bounce back.
When we criticize a person for being multifaceted and diverse, have we ever stood in her perspective to understand the helplessness of life?
When we see a person go from the trough to the top, will we praise her for her courage and perseverance?
On the road of life, we are all passengers and witnesses.
Love, on the other hand, allows us to transcend prejudices, resolve misunderstandings, and become a silent force for others to overcome obstacles.
Perhaps, only by looking at a person with the eyes of the heart, can we find that she was born, beautiful and strong.