Jiang Tinghuang: The original match is entangledyears, not divorced, she attended the funeral.
Jiang Tinghuang is a historian with a great memory, and his "Modern History of China" is still praised by historiography circles for its clear structure and unique thinking. As an outstanding diplomat of the first period, he opposed the "scholarly thought", and his views were unique and long-term, especially in the international situation between the Soviet Union, Japan and China.
He is a graduate of Columbia University, and his patriotism has not dissipated since the May Fourth Movement. He has unique insights and views on history, education, university teaching methods, and the international situation, and has represented China at the United Nations at the same time as the famous diplomat Gu Weijun, and is very talented.
However, it was such a talent who left a lot of peachy news in the newspapers of that year. Did he start the chaos and give up, step by step? Or is it coveted and absurd?
Why is his love life so complex and incomprehensible?
Jiang Tinghuang was a multi-talented man who excelled in both the diplomatic and academic circles. He was able to serve as a national **, and at the same time he was able to teach in the Department of History at Tsinghua University.
He lived a carefree life, both to serve the motherland and to realize his self-worth. However, his married life was not perfect. There was a problem in his relationship with his wife, and although Tang Yurui gave up his career for him and became a housewife with peace of mind, Jiang Tinghuang began to ignore her contribution and value, and even disliked her a little.
Although Tang Yurui was once a talented woman, the trivial things of life eventually consumed her beauty and talent, and her husband's attention and appreciation gradually weakened. This poses a serious threat to the marital relationship between the two.
Jiang Tinghuang has multiple interests, but he is not in a good relationship with his wife, and has a lot of free time after work. As a result, he often plays sports or bridge with his friends.
However, that's where the problem starts. Jiang Tinghuang has a subordinate named Shen Weitai, the two of them have similar interests and are alumni, so they often get together and talk and laugh.
Over time, Shen Weitai also participated in Jiang Tinghuang's daily bridge activities. In the beginning, Shen Weitai often played cards with Jiang Tinghuang, but later, his wife Shen Enqin also joined in.
Jiang Tinghuang and Shen Weitai are both colleagues and alumni, with the same working environment and similar life experiences, and even similar hobbies. These commonalities led to an increasing overlap in their lives, until Jiang Tinghuang began to notice Shen Weitai's wife, Shen Enqin.
According to the ** report of the year, Shen Enqin is beautiful, and after marrying Shen Weitai, her knowledge and daily hobbies are gradually approaching her husband's social circle. These characteristics made Jiang Tinghuang begin to appreciate her.
From the initial spring heart to the final embrace of the beauty, Jiang Tinghuang took three steps. In the first step, he continued to maintain a good social relationship with Shen Weitai and his wife.
Jiang Tinghuang knew that while maintaining long-term and stable bridge activities with Shen Weitai and his wife, it was also a good time for him to get feedback from Shen Enqin and get to know their couple.
Under the cover of long-term entertainment activities, Jiang Tinghuang's talents, abilities, personality charm and other advantages were gradually revealed, attracting Shen Enqin. Shen Enqin was deeply attracted by Jiang Tinghuang's bold ** soul, and the two began to have the opportunity to get along alone.
Jiang Tinghuang began the second step of his plan in happiness.
In 1944, Jiang Tinghuang was the Chinese representative of the United Nations Relief and Rehabilitation Administration and the director of the Relief Administration of the Kuomintang Executive Yuan.
This series of operations made Shen Enqin and Jiang Tinghuang closer, and there was no interference from Shen Weitai by their side. At this time, Tang Yurui went abroad for medical treatment because the child was seriously ill, which created excellent conditions for Shen Enqin and Jiang Tinghuang, who were eager to be alone in the two families.
At first, they had some apprehension and restraint, but gradually, the emotional impulse took over. Eventually, Shen Enqin moved to Jiang Tinghuang, and the two lived together for four years.
During the four years that Jiang Tinghuang and Shen Weitai lived together, they did not completely ignore moral and legal norms. Although Shen Weitai was working abroad, Shen Enqin managed to divorce him, while Jiang Tinghuang deliberately took Shen Enqin to social events from the initial hiding, trying to make her the real "Mrs. Jiang".
However, things did not go as planned, because monogamy was clearly stipulated in China at that time, and the law required citizens to obey it. Although Shen Enqin is divorced, the marital relationship between Jiang Tinghuang and Tang Yurui still exists, although he wants the new to replace the old one, but on the bright side, social relations cannot be changed by saying that they can be changed.
Chiang's academic stature and political status make his unusual behavior particularly remarkable, especially when it comes to marriage. When the time is ripe and the situation is urgent, Jiang Tinghuang must consider his third-step plan: to legalize Shen Enqin.
This plan can be divided into two parts: first, he must divorce Tang Yurui; Second, he must marry Shen Enqin and publicly declare her "Mrs. Jiang".
Only in this way can Jiang Tinghuang's social reputation be guaranteed. However, it's not that simple.
Tang Yurui already knew about the cohabitation relationship between Jiang Tinghuang and Shen Enqin, but because the children needed to be taken care of abroad, she could only bear it silently. However, Tang Yurui has always been resolutely opposed to this relationship, and even once prevented Jiang Tinghuang from divorcing.
However, Jiang Tinghuang knew that their relationship could not go on like this, so he decided to find other solutions.
Jiang Tinghuang knows very well that such a serious matter as divorce must be handled through legal channels. In the legal context of China, the normal way of divorce could not be realized, so he chose other ways.
He entrusted a lawyer to unilaterally announce the termination of his marriage to Ms. Tang Yurui in a Mexican court, and in the same year, he and Shen Enqin registered their marriage in Connecticut, USA.
Since then, he has frequently taken his new wife to diplomatic and social events at home and abroad. At this time, Jiang Tinghuang believed that the complicated marital relationship that had plagued him for a long time had finally been resolved, however, he did not expect that his original wife would not easily accept this arrangement.
Tang Yurui is a talented woman who once studied abroad, for love and marriage, she chose to be silent, but this does not mean that she will not be angry, she also has the right and ability to express anger and opposition.
When neglected, neglected or even insulted, when marriage is reduced to a joke, Tang Yurui does not swallow her anger like traditional Chinese women, she moves forward with a strong, direct, resolute and neat pace.
Tang Yurui's resistance is also divided into three steps. First of all, she chose a reasonable way to solve the problem and appealed to the relevant authorities. Tang Yurui recognized that since Jiang Tinghuang and Shen Enqin's marriage relationship was obtained from the United States, she had reason to focus on the American judiciary.
As a result, she first appealed to the New York court, accusing Jiang Tinghuang of unilaterally ending the marriage and starting a new marriage unlawfully. However, the New York court, taking into account Jiang's status, refused to accept it on the grounds that he "has diplomatic immunity".
Tang Yurui did not give up because of this, she decided to take the second step. She turned to the International Court of Justice for a fair ruling. She firmly believes that her rights should be protected and her marriage should be respected.
In the third step, Tang Yurui chose the power of **. She made her story public, so that more people could understand her experience, hoping to use social pressure to allow Jiang Tinghuang and Shen Enqin to face up to their actions and respect her rights and interests.
Tang Yurui's every step is full of determination and courage, and with her own actions, she tells us that no matter what kind of difficulties we face, we should firmly fight for our own rights and interests.
After Jiang Tinghuang and Tang Yurui suffered a defeat in the New York court, Tang Yurui began to appeal to the U.S. Supreme Court against Jiang Tinghuang's adultery. However, the U.S. Supreme Court still stands:"Diplomatic immunity"On the grounds, her request was denied.
After repeatedly hitting a wall, Tang Yurui did not give up. Since all institutions are in the name of"Diplomatic immunity"As an excuse, she decided to seek help from a diplomatic point of view.
Therefore, her last point of appeal was the United Nations. Tang Yurui knew that Gu Weijun's marriage also had twists and turns, so she asked Mrs. Gu for help, and even wanted to meet Mrs. Roosevelt.
As bystanders, we can't be sure whether she did these things with an expectation of results or whether she really believed that she could defend her rights.
Although Tang Yurui fought Jiang Tinghuang's betrayal alone as a thin woman, her courage and tenacity never waned. At the same time, she also actively spoke out on the domestic battlefield, defended her position and explained the facts.
In order to educate his children, Tang Yurui once took them to live in the United States temporarily. However, Jiang Tinghuang suddenly went to another country, and Tang Yurui did not go with him considering the needs of his children's education.
However, to her shock, on May 22, 1948, she received a Mexican court divorce decree forwarded by lawyer Jiang Tinghuang**.
This statement shows that as citizens of China, marriage and divorce should be governed by Chinese law. The Mexican courts do not have jurisdiction to deal with our divorce issues, and their divorce decree should be considered null and void.
Our marriage is still alive. In addition, I have hired a lawyer to go to the court to declare the divorce null and void. During the period of marriage, if she marries or cohabits with another woman, she shall be liable.
However, we have found reports that Ting Huang published a photo of him with a woman named Shen Enqin in Nanjing*** and New York on October 1, March 17 and December 23, respectively, indicating that he arrived in Paris as a representative of our country and his wife to attend the third session of the United Nations General Assembly.
However, I was still in the United States at the time, not yet in Paris, and Ting Huang was already married to other women, which was clearly against the laws of his country. Therefore, I will reserve the right to sue and deal with it in accordance with the law when Tinghuang and I return to China.
In order to avoid misunderstanding from the outside world, I hereby entrust a lawyer to publish a statement in the newspaper to set the record straight. Although this statement put down Ting's plans, his wife was still talented and stood by her rights.
Jiang Tinghuang insisted on not divorcing, and attended generously on occasions when he needed to be accompanied by his wife. Although marriage has become a joke, Jiang Tinghuang still has many occasions and activities to attend.
Tang Yurui obtained Jiang Tinghuang's detailed itinerary by bribing the staff around him. Therefore, in the following years, whenever Jiang Tinghuang went out to work, Tang Yurui could always be seen in a conspicuous place under the stage.
Sometimes, the two ladies would even appear together, arguing and arguing. This absurd life lasted for a long time. Jiang Tinghuang was unable to deal with this mess, and Tang Yurui had a very stubborn personality, so the emotional entanglement between the three of them persisted in such a chaotic way.
In 1965, Jiang Tinghuang died of illness in the United States.
The struggle at the United Nations, which lasted 18 years, finally ended with the death of Jiang Tinghuang. Although Tang Yurui and Jiang Tinghuang have fought in the past 18 years, she attended his funeral and recalled the past, in addition to feeling guilty, she also cherished nostalgia for the good times.
At that time, Jiang Tinghuang started with the church-funded quota and completed basic courses in the United States before meeting Tang Yurui. At that time, Tang Yurui was an international student sent by Tsinghua University, and his background and skills were higher than him.
When they met, although they were in their twenties, their feelings were as warm as youth. They are like-minded, attracted to each other, and in the place where Columbia University met, they are deeply affectionate, and they are even willing to tie the knot on the ship back home.
Weddings, guests, ceremonies, property ......In their eyes, they all become unimportant, they just want each other. Their union is only for the captain to witness, simple and profound.
They once loved each other deeply, went to Nankai to teach together, raised two sons and two daughters, Tang Yurui retreated into the background for the sake of the family, but she may also have long-term expectations for happiness.
The world is impermanent, and love is like a dream. What she insists on is an empty shell marriage or deep affection, which is difficult for outsiders to guess. can only sigh with emotion, life is like a play, and fate makes people.
However, putting aside these external disturbances, Jiang Tinghuang himself is worthy of recognition. His talent and ideas are still out of date today. His love for history has not diminished since he entered politics, he actively reads history books, and also uses his position and power to promote the collation of historical classics and the development of historical disciplines.
While teaching at Tsinghua University, he even developed a habit of collecting old books. The profound cultural heritage of Beiping makes the market often haunted by old books. He once proudly said: "I buy tons for Tsinghua University." ”
His actions also confirm this saying, he will not hesitate to collect old books that he is interested in and considers collectible, regardless of the cost. Once, he and his friends were buying used books, and both of them pretended not to be interested in the target books and parted ways at the same time.
But when he wanted to secretly buy the target book, he was told that it had been bought by his friend**, which made him both helpless and funny.
Jiang Tinghuang is a person who is keen on reading and good at reading. In his teaching, he emphasized that Chinese students should not be limited to textbook knowledge, but should combine theory and practice, and explore and apply textbook knowledge with the goal of solving practical problems.
He also encouraged students to actively participate in sports and recognise the importance of health for continuous learning. In terms of work, Jiang Tinghuang has performed well, and his ability to screen and distinguish information materials is particularly outstanding, and he is able to read and sort out a large number of documents in a short period of time.
According to the recollections of his friends, if Jiang Tinghuang had not suffered the effects of the marriage scandal, his creation and value would have been far greater than it is now. If he knew something underground, I don't know if he would regret it because he easily gave up his career for beauty?