The highest state of love is fulfillment and cultivation.
Let her have the strength to protect herself, someone to rely on, and a place to go, in the time and space that you can't see and see, she is like a flower, like a brocade, and gorgeous. If you are on the side or looking at each other from afar, you are at ease and steadfast.
Many people understand love as possession and taking, and believe that only vigorous giving is true love. But this kind of love is often exhausting, and how can it last long.
Li Bihua said: The most powerful love in modern times is to fulfill one party, let him live strongly, and live better - this is not sacrifice, this is cultivation.
Perfection is not to let you give up your pursuit, but to let you become a better version of yourself in the process of love, and work together with each other at the same frequency and resonance.
A pair of lovers, when faced with a choice, one party chooses to fulfill the other and quit at halftime, so that she can pursue a better future. This is not ruthless, but out of love and trust for the other person. believes that the other party has the ability to face all kinds of life alone, believes that without her own fetters, the sky is high and the birds can fly, and she can go higher and further.
The poet Xu Zhimo said: "You are the cotton in my heart, soft and warm." I would like to turn into a trace of fiber and build a happy home for you. "Perfection is a process of mutual support and common growth. Those who know how to be perfect are compassionate, generous, and truly understood.
Cultivation does not allow you to be bound in the shackles of love, but allows you to thrive under the nourishment of love.
Be wary of those sugar-coated shells: "What do women do so hard, how good it is to find a good man", "It's better to marry well than to do well", "Women are responsible for being beautiful like flowers, and men are responsible for making money to support their families" ......So confusing, women do have a gender dividend in some ways, but this bonus is not used to make you cage yourself as a canary.
"The Ordinary World" wrote: "The highest state of love is to make the other person stronger because of you." "Cultivation is a kind of care, encouragement and encouragement, rather than consciously superior education and pointing fingers.
Perfection and cultivation is a deep love that requires wisdom and courage. Wisdom lies in knowing how to love, how to maintain an independent personality in the process of love, and how to let the other person grow up under the nourishment of love. Courage lies in the courage to let go and let the other party try when facing difficulties, and dare to believe in the other party's ability.
Overprotective love is not good love, and things that love too much are easy to destroy. It destroyed her ability to withstand the wind and rain, like cutting off her hands and feet, and made independence a disaster.
I hope that on the road of love, we can all find the person who is willing to pay for ourselves and cultivate for ourselves, go through the ups and downs of life together, grow together, and be strong together.
Life is fragile, and even if there are some roads that you can only walk alone one day, you can walk with your head held high. Perhaps darkness can be seen everywhere, and the starlight is faint and tiny, but the most powerful presence is there, accompanying you all the way.