Recently, everyone has been discussing Yang Xun's pursuit of Ren Yaoer in "Dajiang Dahe 3", especially Yang Xun's colorful pursuit method has attracted the attention of many girls. However, we need to be soberly aware that Yang Xun's sugar-coated cannonballs may cover up a naked realistic calculation.
In my opinion, Ren is an outstanding woman, and her independence, initiative, ability and struggle from a spinning mill worker to a self-taught accountant make her a rare beauty. In my eyes, Yang Xun is not worthy of her, she deserves a partner who really knows how to love her.
Yang Xun had known Ren Yaer before, however, he had not considered pursuing her. The reason is that in his eyes, Ren Yaoer is not a girl with outstanding appearance, which is not enough to arouse his interest.
The girls he liked in the past were all beautiful in appearance, such as Dai Chunjiao, Liang Sishen, and even the director's daughter, who were more attractive than Ren Yaoer. It wasn't until Yang Xun discovered that Ren was extremely good at finances that he began to notice her existence. For him, the pursuit of Ren Yaoer was initially not motivated by love, but because of her outstanding performance in finances.
At the beginning, Yang Xun just admired Ren Yao's talent, and didn't even think about pursuing her. It wasn't until Yang Su suggested that Ren Yaoer develop into his cronies that Yang Xun's mind began to become active. Yang Su believes that if Ren Yaer becomes the sister-in-law of the Yang family, it will become an iron abacus for his career development, solve financial problems for him, and let him develop his career easily. This suggestion made Yang Xun start to seriously consider pursuing Ren Yaoer, although he felt that Ren Yaoer's appearance was not beautiful enough at first.
Yang Xun couldn't ignore Ren's talent in the digital field, and he thought that spending his life with such a person who is good at financial management would provide a huge boost to his career development. Although he once disliked Ren Yaoer's ordinary appearance, Yang Xun thought that her financial ability was an advantage that could not be ignored. Yang Xun's pursuit of Ren Yaoer was not out of the pursuit of beauty, but because of the consideration of practical interests.
Ren is not a pretty girl, but a strong man who rolls in the pile of numbers. Yang Xun's pursuit of her is not to compose a moving love story, but to find a partner who can work hand in hand with her in her career. He is looking for a business partner, not a partner in life. There may not be anything wrong with this view of marriage, but I think it's a pity that Ren Yaoer should not be used as a pawn.
Yang Xun's fierce pursuit of Ren Yaoer, every girl hopes that someone will truly love her, and she longs to have a beautiful love when she is young. However, Ren is not a simple girl with no emotional experience. She used to have a boyfriend, and in order to pursue Ren Yaoer, Yang Xun took some means to get the boy promoted and transferred, making Ren Yaoer single. Yang Xun began to use his position to get close to her, raise her salary, give gifts, and even send a washing machine to her house, showing such meticulous attention.
Yang Xun is a veteran of the love field and knows how to pursue girls, especially girls like Ren Yaoer who lack emotional experience. Ren Yaoer gradually fell into Yang Xun's sugar-coated cannonballs and began to have a good impression of Yang Xun. The reason why she hesitated was because she knew that Yang Xun had many women around her, and she was worried that she was just a temporary novelty that Yang Xun was playing. However, Yang Xun's sugar-coated cannonballs made her gradually think that if Yang Xun didn't have the legendary girlfriends, she might be able to accept it.
Under Yang Xun's careful pursuit, Ren Yaoer felt flattered. In the process of having dinner at a high-end restaurant, tasting sashimi, and tasting various cuisines, she began to feel that she might be able to accept Yang Xun. In the trivial little things that Yang Xun did for her, she felt the warmth of being cared for. However, in this love maze, it is still unknown whether she will really be able to find someone who truly loves her.
Yang Xun's marriage proposal was not agreed to by Ren Yier on the spot, but was told that Yang Kui had some problems and needed him to go to Shanghai to deal with it. In the face of Yang Kui's family problems, Yang Xun told Ren Yier some privacy, hoping that she could comfort Yang Kui later.
At this time, Ren Yaoer calmed down and began to think about a question that was not a problem: Is Yang Xun looking for a relationship, or is he looking for a suitable wife? Ren Yaoer began to realize the utilitarian nature of Yang Xun's pursuit of her, especially after getting her consent, Yang Xun's actions were swift and calm, like announcing an ordinary decision of the company.
Ren Yaoer didn't think too much about it, because she understood that Yang Xun was in a hurry to deal with family affairs at the moment. After marriage, Yang Xun's thoughtfulness and sweetness made her let go of some reason, and she gradually became addicted to this marriage. However, she didn't realize that Yang Xun didn't really love her, but used marriage as a tool for practical interests. It was years before she realized it all, and it all started with a marriage.
At the beginning of their marriage, many people saw that Yang Xun married Ren Yaoer out of practical interests. Xun Jianxiang said with a smile: "You two can make money, and how can you let others live." Yang Circuit responded: "I can hold money, she is better at calculating money, and the two of us are seamless partners." ”
Xun Jianxiang knew that Yang Xun was looking for a career partner, not a life partner. Liang Sishen expressed concern about this, she thinks that the most important thing in marriage is not love? And Yang Xun's pursuit is too utilitarian.
Although Xun Jianxiang saw Yang Xun's utilitarian intentions, Liang Sishen also found it difficult to understand such a marriage. In Liang Sishen's view, what is most needed in marriage should be sincere love.
And when Yang Xun learned that Ren Yaoer was going to divorce, his reaction was to lose a big help in a hurry, not to lose a lover. This shows that Yang Xun has never really loved Ren Yaoer, and his view of marriage is extremely realistic. He did not feel lost and sad about the loss of Ren Yaoer, but felt that he had lost a right-hand man in his career.
To sum up, the marriage between Yang Xun and Ren Yaoer has always lacked the color of love. Yang Xun pursued Ren Yaoer in order to achieve her career goals, and Ren Yaoer finally chose to leave because she hoped to find someone who truly loved her. The realistic calculation in this marriage allows us to see the delicate balance between love and interests, and also makes us think about what is needed in marriage in order for two people to be truly happy.