Married life is originally a sweet and warm picture, however, when a woman picks up a magnifying glass and transforms into Sherlock Holmes, everything becomes interesting.
A couple in Guangdong lay on the bed together at night to brush **, immersed in the sea of short**.
After a while, the wife found that her husband's mobile phone suddenly went silent, but her eyes were staring at the screen seriously.
In doubt, she quietly pointed her mobile phone camera at her husband's eyes and photographed the ** of her husband's pupils.
After zooming in on the **, she found that her husband was actually watching the beautiful girls on the Internet dancing.
After his wife uploaded this ** to the Internet, netizens exclaimed: "When women want to check men, they are all Sherlock Holmes, which is terrible." ”
This move of the wife undoubtedly reveals a phenomenon that is common among husband and wife: when the seeds of suspicion take root, the usual grin instantly turns into a detective-like acuity.
This can't help but make people sigh that women in love have the sensitivity and wisdom of Sherlock Holmes.
And this phenomenon is not a reflection of the crisis of trust in modern married life?
First of all, we need to understand that the reason why women are suspicious is largely because of the importance they attach to marriage.
When they find clues, they naturally launch a Sherlock Holmes-style investigation.
For example, a woman will start asking her husband frequent questions, such as, "What are you eating tonight?" Who do you eat with? "Wait.
These seemingly ordinary questions are actually collecting clues, and they hope to find the secrets hidden by their husbands through these questions.
The development of modern technology has also facilitated the investigation of women.
They will quietly check their husband's WeChat moments, study every copy and comment, and try to find clues from them.
The woman will inspect her husband's clothes for unfamiliar smells, hair, or other feminine signs.
So, as a man, how do you deal with the suspicion and investigation of your smart wife?
Trust is the cornerstone of marriage, and men should first understand that women are naturally sensitive and worry to a large extent than insecurities about the unknown, and many of their doubts are not all vexatious.
As a husband, what you have to do is to eliminate this insecurity and fill your wife's heart with a sense of stability.
Men should try to be as transparent as possible about their lives and reduce their wives' suspicions.
For example, take the initiative to report your trip, go home on time, avoid too much socializing, and so on.
Communication is the key to solving problems, and men should take the initiative to communicate with the woman, understand her concerns, and express their love.
The family is a harbor for two people, and as a husband, you must have a sense of responsibility and run the family together.
It is not only necessary to share the housework, but also to care about the growth of children and the health of the elderly.
Let your wife feel your intentions to dispel her worries.
Romance is not just about flowers and chocolates, but about understanding the needs of your wife with your heart and surprising and touching her.
In an ordinary life, create romance for her and make her feel your love and care.
In marriage, there will be times when both partners make mistakes.
As a husband, you must learn to be tolerant and understanding, give your wife a warm embrace, and let her find comfort when she is sad.
Companionship is the most affectionate confession, and as a husband, you should pay attention to emotional companionship and make time to spend quality time with your wife.
Traveling together, watching movies together, and spending every important day together, let the wife feel companionship and love.