"Thank you teachers for their carefulness, patience and consultation, care and non-giving up for my daughter, thank you teachers for guiding our parents, giving us direction, teaching us adjustment methods, so that we can learn to really support children, and thank you for the "2+3" model into the campus project, so that children who encounter problems like my daughter can get the correct guidance, care and assistance! You are like a light that shines into the young hearts of children, and also guides us parents, thank you so much! ”
Because of the changes in the family and their own ignorance of the rules, the child has not smiled much since last year, and he cries at every turn, and he has no good friends, and then there is a phenomenon of self-harm, when I am worried about the child but I am overwhelmed and helpless, it is you who called me **, guiding me how to communicate and communicate with the child, how to adjust the previous bad education methods and attitudes towards the child......Now the child has good friends at school, and gradually opens up to me, willing to share some interesting things in the school class, good and bad, will relish, from time to time I can still hear her funny laughter, see her exaggerated expression, the child can also express her love to me, when she knows that I am uncomfortable, she will take the initiative to care about me, from time to time will send messages to me: 'Mom, I love you', those moments I will hold the mobile phone and shed happy tears. The child's original self-mutilation scars are getting lighter and lighter, and now they are barely visible. Thank you so much! ”
During the "2+3" model into the campus public welfare and charity project, Jiyu social workers received a lot of such feedback. Among them, there is also the shortest sentence, "You Jiyu social workers are a beam of light".
In fact, we didn't have a light, we just walked into the campus with a heart, and our efforts became a glimmer of light that illuminated the hearts of the children.
One year, 20 schools, 4,469 letters. What should I do if I am too stressed to study? What if I can't make friends? What about parental eccentricity? What should I do if my parents often beat and scold? What should I do if my parents are divorced and my father won't let me see my mother? The practical problems that plagued the children were placed in front of Jiyu social workers. The children's expectant hearts, eager eyes, excitement and joy when receiving the reply, and happiness and happiness after solving the problem are the social workers of Jiyu who silently pay and support with professionalism, love and sweat, so that the children's grievances and troubles have another safe exit outside the family and school, opening a window of life for the children and adding a health guarantee. When the child held an orange to the social worker to express his gratitude, when the child took the social worker's hand and said I want to have a mother like you, for a moment, our eyes were wet with tears. The hard work is worth it! It's worth it!
In one year, 261 parent seminars were held, benefiting more than 170,000 people. Adhering to the concept of "prevention is greater than the first", Jiyu social workers organized a team of experts to carefully polish special courses through the preliminary questionnaire survey, aiming at the problems that parents are concerned about, aiming at the psychological difficulties of children, and focusing on the concept and method of family education. "Be a Smart Parent, Help Children Grow Up Healthy", "Home-School Co-education, Hand in Hand for the Future", "Building a Good Parent-Child Relationship" ......The ten lessons systematically give parents the direction and rules for educating their children, and lay a solid foundation for parents to continue to support and empower their children. We were also deeply moved when the applause under the podium rang out, and when the parents' Q&A activities were repeatedly postponed. Education is to use life to influence life, and this influence must have wisdom and temperature.
In a year, he visited dozens of families, interviewed more than 100 teachers, and interviewed more than 300 parents. In order to better solve children's psychological problems and create a healthy environment for children to grow up, Jiyu social workers provide psychological counseling for children while working on the external environment that affects children's mental health and provide continuous support resources for children. When the child who can't see the divorced mother said excitedly, Dad allowed me to chat with my mother every day; When the homeroom teacher happily said that the student had hardly stopped making trouble in the past month, we were deeply grateful. To escort children's mental health, it is more powerful for the family, school and community to form a joint force. We did it!
In 2023, the "2+3" model into the campus public welfare and charity project successfully completed the scheduled tasks. Although the project is over, Jiyu social workers are always on the way to care for the healthy growth of teenagers. We are willing to do a little bit of fire, relay to shine, with our love and efforts to help children be happier and stronger, embrace the sunshine mentality, and continue to move towards the distance of life. (Author: Gao Xiuling).