There are many things that I thought were right, but after experimentation, I realized that I was wrong. Therefore, I cannot judge anything with great confidence, and if something temporarily feels wrong to me, I can immediately discard my original opinion. ”
This is the self-confession of the scientist Edison, whom I have read, and I remember not experiencing it at the time. Today, I am not confused, but I suddenly feel deeply emotional.
Although you and I are not "giants", it does not affect the pursuit of this state of affairs. On the contrary, we, as ordinary people, may be more likely to do this, because we do not have more capital to make mistakes.
If you are like this, and I am like this, and the people around you can abide by this rule that is not a rule, maybe the trouble will slowly get farther and farther away from us.
There will be no more impracticalities.
Serious, down-to-earth, rigorous and meticulous life and work can only bring us smaller and smaller mistakes.
Each of us should know that when a person is less grounded in expressing his or her opinions, arbitrariness and self-righteousness will follow.
Once we decide to be wrong and try to hide the emptiness in our hearts, we have already lost, lost ourselves.
Why is this so?
When you are faced with the problem in front of you, pondering and being ambiguous, and feeling that you are in a dilemma, you will generally inadvertently bias your own interests towards the decision that could have been objectively judged after careful consideration, which is the weakness of human nature.
Regardless of whether it is right or wrong, because everyone has their own way of behaving, but it may seem to others that it is an overconfident behavior, a worse behavior - selfishness.
Once you fall into this vicious circle of thinking, over time, it is easy for you to put your personal interests at the center of your decision-making when dealing with things, completely ignoring the facts in front of you.
Of course, you won't admit it, because no one wants to admit that their decision was selfish, and he would rather spend a lot of time trying to find many reasons to prove that he was right, to prove that his decision was desirable at least on the surface.
Because it is not entirely based on facts, this kind of excuse can easily put oneself at a disadvantage when it is touched by others.
Not only that, but in terms of the outcome of the matter itself, the most unfavorable object is often not because of the inconvenience caused to others, but because the excuse has a lot of negative effects on yourself, because the development of the situation will not correct itself because you are about to make a mistake.
In fact, the right choice is very simple, that is, it is better to make yourself inconsistent than to make mistakes.
Everyone must be consistent in their actions, and it is essential to make sure that there is a basis for facts, and not just for the sake of emotional satisfaction for yourself.
Because the direct result of this kind of self-confidence that is not based on facts is to slowly develop feelings of pride, and insisting on one's own mistakes is actually a fact that can easily occur. Because of this, you may have to pay a lot of money next.
In addition, we need to make judgments based on facts and use sufficient time to make judgments.
If you can't decide right away what to do next, the most important thing you need to do is wait as long as you can, and don't let your decision be hasty.
Of course, when you are thinking about how to do it, do not worry about the late choice, but actively look for ways to find the facts.
Know that the more evidence you have, the easier it will be to make the right decisions rather than emotions.
Decisions must be firm, but not blind.
It's not someone else who is delaying, it's yourself!
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