Kun is the land: the gentleman carries things with virtue.
Dry for the sky: a gentleman to self-improvement.
Let's talk about Big S today, why there is such a result today, and analyze the reasons from the perspective of Yijing and Yili.
Big S debuted very early, and in his early years, he did variety shows with his sister Xiao S, and he came out of the circle with a poisonous tongue, so he dared to speak ......
Many variety shows in Taiwan, in order to create traffic and topics, are all kinds of difficult artists in the show, so as to show the artist's IQ and EQ in all aspects, on-the-spot response ability and so on.
But after so many years, the habit of Big S's poisonous tongue has not changed at all.
Dry for the day ninety-three:
The gentleman is dry all day long, and the evening is like a night. Great, no blame.
It is not enough to work hard every day, but also to introspect, reflect and correct the deficiencies every day.
A gentleman saves my body three times a day.
Such diligence and hard work will lead to the right direction.
Let's gossip about the big S from two aspects.
Let's talk about Kun as the land first, and the gentleman carries things with virtue.
Speak well, think about it, and shut up when it's time to shut up.
The way a person speaks, to a large extent, determines how much wealth, power, fame and fortune a person can carry.
You can't be separated, no matter how hard a person works, you can't do it alone, you all need to interact with others and make connections.
Then communication is inevitable.
Even if you completely take the initiative, but the words are ugly, the other party just doesn't cooperate with you, what can you do?
The hardest thing in the world is to put your own thoughts into the other person's head and want them to do what you want.
There are two ways to do this:
The first is to let the other party take the initiative to do it, and the second is to force the other party to do it.
Let's look at the well-known figures in history, the dialogues between those emperors and ministers, and the wise and virtuous ministers, who will talk nonsense.
The most direct example is:
Look at the dialogue between Confucius and his students in the Analects.
Let's not talk about cultural literacy here, how good and outstanding Confucianism is in terms of word choice and sentence formation.
Let's just say that he spoke with great self-cultivation, talked eloquently, and answered questions patiently and seriously.
Just ask such a person, would you not like it?
It is a bit far away to say that ancient times, let's talk about a ready-made example, the reason why Dong Yuhui has achieved such an achievement now, isn't it that people can speak.
No matter how malicious the question is, you can reply with great cultivation.
In our lives, the characters that can be generally contacted, the colleagues who speak kindly in the company, the people who buy things from the stalls and vendors, and those who talk well, do not all make you happy and prefer to be closer.
On the contrary, those who speak harshly and mean do not want to stay away?
I don't want to get too close to her, because if I don't pay attention, I will be slandered by her verbal violence.
A large part of the reason why many men and women have a rough life in their work and life is that they cannot speak calmly and well.
Let's continue to talk about Big S, I've seen a lot of short ** about Big S, in the show that Big S participated, whether it was chatting with Aya or chatting with Wang Xiaofei, the speech was unceremonious, and he was poisonous as always.
Let's put ourselves in their shoes.
If it were you, and your partner was talking like this, all your life, how much self-cultivation would you have to bear?
And how much love can be consumed?
We are looking at the original family of Big S, we can't do it ourselves, my mother's family has a sensible person, and it's good to mention it from time to time.
Look**, their whole family is very vicious.
And, I don't think it's a serious problem.
I Ching and Yili talk about the pros and cons.
Speaking harshly and venomously has no practical meaning other than feeling good about yourself.
Adults don't talk about right and wrong, they talk about the benefits and benefits that can actually be obtained.
Except for the mouth, it's just a matter of getting better.
There are no real benefits.
Once again, the virtue of Kun Weidi is not how many good things you have done and how much you have paid, but whether you can keep your mouth shut and speak well, and be able to shut up and not speak.
Many women who marry well do not work after marriage, and there is no problem, as long as they can do it, speak calmly and well, and shut up when they should shut up.
You can also enjoy a good life.
Let's talk about the dry for the day, and the gentleman will continue to strive for self-improvement.
In the early years, the size of the s, it was indeed very hard and diligent.
Various variety shows, various film and television drama works ......
After getting married, there is a lot less work.
Rights and obligations complement each other, and there is no good thing in this world that only enjoys rights and does not fulfill obligations.
Even if the ancestors left thousands of family fortunes, if they lie flat, they will only sit and eat nothing.
After Da S got married, he didn't go to work.
If you give up improving yourself and giving up your job, then it is equivalent to giving up the initiative in life.
If you don't work, you can only swallow your anger, and Big S can't do this.
The mouth of the cannibal is short, and the flower man has a short hand.
The lady is not a beauty, just drink coffee, and the life of a wealthy family is not so simple.
Don't say you don't work, even if you work every day, you have to look at people's eyes.
Big S's current figure is much worse than the figure of the popular period.
We watch a lot, 40-year-old, 50-year-old, 60-year-old, actresses who are still coming out to play TV.
I don't act in youth idol dramas anymore, I play my mother and grandmother, I play the main drama, there are not so many hugs and hugs, and people are not good.
If you don't want to look at people's eyes and want others to see your face, then work hard and let others spend your money.
But even people who work hard need to communicate and communicate patiently.
Big S is wrong, that is, he is not diligent enough, and he can't control his mouth, so he can't keep his mouth shut.
If you don't have the conditions to sit in the position of the Ninth Five-Year Plan, you naturally can't sit there for a long time.
Even though Wang Xiaofei is not good, Wang Xiaofei is working hard, Wang Xiaofei's mother Zhang Lan, who is still in the live broadcast room at the age of 60, is working hard to sell goods and make money.
This is the strength of the sky.
People are actively working hard to live, instead of waiting for the handouts of others, just by virtue of this strength, there is still a future, and many good days are waiting.
Besides, even if you are in the position of the Ninety-Five Wyvern in the sky, as long as you don't work, or when no one gives you a job, it is the state that the hidden dragon should not use.
The most obvious example is that we look at the popular stars.
Whether it's subjective, don't want to work.
It's still objective, and I didn't come across a good job.
I haven't worked for several years in a row, and when I think about it again, whether it's the salary or the C position, it's hard to go back to the past.
If Big S wants to change the status quo, he must first take active action and strive for self-improvement.
Second, keep your mouth shut and don't talk about right and wrong in marriage.
Stop feeling sorry for yourself, not to forgive anyone.
It's about focusing on yourself.
Even if it is all Wang Xiaofei's fault, if Da S wants to maintain the current standard of living in the future, or live better and better, he can only strive for self-improvement.
To go to the scandal of Wang Xiaofei, there is not much money, but he is in a comfortable mood for a while, and he cannot obtain huge benefits for a long time.
After studying the I Ching and Yili for 10 years, many things, without counting, can see the crux of the problem at a glance.