"Happy e-Home Classroom" is to take the form of live broadcast and recording to provide parents with online family education lectures, reduce the concerns of parents who are busy with work and have no time to study, and provide expert guidance to help families establish air classrooms, create a good learning atmosphere, and enhance the happiness of family education.
No matter what kind of family, there may be differences in educational concepts, but to different degrees. What should we do when husband and wife have different educational concepts?
Two misunderstandings should be avoided
Tear each other down in person
Angry with each other, both of them shook their hands
Tearing each other down will greatly increase the difficulty of educating the other party's children, and in the end, the children may not listen to anyone. For both spouses, the responsibility for educating their children is not 50% for each other, but 100% for both parties. Therefore, it is not advisable to break the jar without doing it.
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Keep an open mind and seek common groundDifferent
Educational differences are inevitable, no one's point of view is absolutely correct, we must allow differences, think from another angle, although the husband and wife have different practices, but the starting point is for the good of the child.
Communicate in advance, division of labor and cooperation
Husband and wife educate their children together, just like two people start a company in partnership, both of them are bosses and have the power to call the shots, but yes, they are easy to make decisions without authorization, and when educating children, they must discuss with their other half in advance, and expose the conflict before the problem occurs, rather than exploding on the spot.
Defuse conflict and move forward with retreat
Sometimes, we might as well take a step back, first hand over the educational initiative of this matter to the other party, and cooperate with ourselves, if the effect is good, then everyone is happy, if the effect is not good, we will discuss and reflect again, which is also conducive to improving the family's method of educating children.
Learn together and improve yourself
What is the core problem of inconsistent education concepts between husband and wife? It's the idea. Therefore, it is more effective for husband and wife to read educational books together, listen to lectures on family education together, go to school together for parent-teacher conferences, and use the power of a third party to unify the concept of education than to forcibly change each other with their own words.
Background introduction of family education lecturers
Fang Yun
Lecturer of Yiwu Family Education Lecturer Group.
Teacher of Yiwu Binwang Primary School Education Group.
There are reading instructors for children in classes across the country.
Yiwu primary school Chinese quality class winner.
Winner of Yiwu local curriculum quality course.
Yiwu City's first top ten lecturers of family education.
* |Yiwu women.
Edit |Bao Jiahui.
First instance |Jin Jingwen.
Second instance |Chen Yao.
Final Judgment |Jinchuang.