I have an aunt who is from the countryside, who has been poor all her life, working hard in the fields and at home, pulling 9 children, and the lack of food and clothing in that era is really not easy.
Every month, year after year, the children have grown up, the sons have become families one by one, and they have been separated to live separately, the daughters have married one by one, and the aunt is also old, and she lives in the old yard with her uncle.
Life is good, children and grandchildren are full, and there is no need to work, but the age when he should be blessed has a serious illness.
At the age of 78, my aunt, who has always been in good health, always feels sick to her stomach, she can't digest what she eats, and she still has a faint pain at night.
Her daughter saw that her aunt was uncomfortable, her face was not good, and she was wilting, so she took her aunt to the big hospital in the city for examination, and the results of the examination came out, and the doctor asked her aunt to go out, and only told her daughter about the condition, it is pancreatic cancer, the king of cancer, even if you spend money on surgery, the survival period is only one and a half years, and the age is older, the risk of surgery is also large, and the doctor recommends conservative**.
The daughter took her aunt home, did not tell her about the disease, only said that it was gastritis, and gathered nine brothers and sisters to discuss what to do, ** This disease is not a small number, the family will definitely not be able to take it out, even if the debt is treated, the money is spent, and the sin is suffered, it can only last for a year and a half. No, it must be a way to go, this is a dilemma, who has not dared to decide.
In the end, it was the uncle-in-law who made this difficult decision and was conservative.
My daughter went to the hospital to buy a lot of medicines, some of which were pain-relieving, and my son also heard that there was a home remedy for cancer in other places, and mailed a Chinese medicine pill, taking one pill a week, and one pill cost more than 300.
In this way, while taking medicine at home, the condition eased for a period of time, during that time, my aunt was very happy, nothing to carry a small Mazha to the entrance of the village to find someone to chat, go to the village more suitable people to visit the door, every day to do nothing, clean up, at that time she often said: live well for another two years, it is time to go, live enough, now enjoy the blessings, but the blessings can not be enjoyed, you have to leave a little for your children and grandchildren.
After maintaining it like this for almost a year, my aunt's condition worsened, her waist was rickety, her eyes were cloudy, and she was sallow and shriveled.
Most of the time she was nestled in bed, occasionally she could go out to the yard to bask in the sun, she ate less and less, she didn't talk much, she often closed her eyes, her brows were tightly locked, and her uncle-in-law knew that she was in pain.
The more painkillers I took the more and more, the pain became more and more aggravated, sometimes the pain was sleepless all night, and occasionally when it was relieved, my aunt would also talk to her children, talking about the past, when she was a child, and her relatives who were no longer alive.
In the process of enduring the torture of illness, my aunt also asked her children to prepare a shroud for her, she asked to see it, and after reading it, she was very satisfied, and then she let out a long sigh, as if relieved of some burden.
The condition is getting more and more serious, one day, my aunt fell into a coma, the children couldn't bear it, and pulled to the hospital to check, the doctor said that the pancreatic cancer has calcified, the cancer cells have metastasized in many places, go back and prepare for the future.
In the last few days, the children were all by my side, and I also went back to visit my aunt, she didn't recognize me anymore, but my aunt, who had been strong all her life, subconsciously didn't want people to know that she didn't recognize people, she said a few names, but they weren't me.
When she was dying, she didn't know anything, she muttered in her mouth, and when she listened carefully, what she said was: Amitabha, Amitabha, keep talking.
My aunt left like this, from the diagnosis of cancer to her death, it took two whole years, more than a year of life was of good quality, and a few months were spent in torment.
When she left, she was liberated and did not have to suffer, and her children thought the same way, so they accepted the loss of a life calmly.
After the death of the aunt, the sons were held in accordance with the funeral ceremony in the countryside, which was very beautiful, and there was no gloomy feeling, and the life of the aunt should also be harmonious.
Many elderly people in rural areas choose not to be seriously ill, resigned to fate, the main reason is economic pressure, in fact, some serious illnesses are impossible, it is better to choose not to **, do not spend money and suffer less.
I don't know what everyone thinks about this.